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over a year ago
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I mean it is hard. you want to be respectful and nice but a lot of people are like "dont be boring and just say hey". its hard especially for males because women get hundreds of messages and you want to stand out but also dont want to come off as a dickhead |
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Start off with "Hello". It's amazing how many people don't do that. Use their names, however they are given in their profile. Say why you think you might be compatible, showing that you have read their profile and are not just carpet-bombing the same massage to 1,000 people. Don't say anything particularly sexual beyond a moderate flirt. Be polite and don't sound entitled. If you can make them laugh then even better.
You're going to struggle with no photos and hardly any text in your profile. We probably wouldn't even open a message from somebody without a profile photo. |
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