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Is it too long, is it too detailed ?
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Hi all wondering about a little profile advice. We wrote it together as per our agreements. However I’m finding that people possibly aren’t reading it fully.
Is it too long. Is there anything needs adding or deleting. The other half suggested it’s maybe too honest and could be off putting as it states our relationship dynamic. I thought best to have it on there to avoid any confusion.
Haven’t included that she sometimes likes to hear about what I’ve been upto while we are having sex or that she’s working the confidence up to get more
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over a year ago
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Hi OP, there is a lot of unnecessary information on your profile. It's good you enjoy the gym and have lost a lot of weight (seriously well done) but going into detail about your routine ect is going to bore people.
There are a few spelling errors in places and you mention your wife in too many places. You should try to construct it in a way that Has all the important information in sections. Have information about you, your situation with the wife and then what you're looking for.
Also if you're wife is looking to open up the relationship to get in another person it would be worth starting a couple's profile.
Men are the majority on here so you would get far more attention that way.
This is just my opinion and I hope you have success  |
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Waaay too much information.
In my opinion you need to make it less about your wife and more about you. Also you don't need that headline saying at least you're honest.
It should be about what you're looking for now and not what you're looking for in the future.
But it's your profile if you're happy with it and it's getting results stick with it. |
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Some profiles can just drone on and on and at the end of it the restrictions are so ridiculous that about 3 people qualify to meet their needs.But some are great to read. Common sense and little thought are a wonderful thing.  xx |
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I’d start again to tell the truth.
There’s next to nothing about what kind of person you are, what you can bring to the table or what you’re looking for.
State that you’re married and that you’re happy to discuss, and that your wife gives her consent, although to be honest, most women won’t believe that unless they can speak directly to her.
Lose the cock pics and the action shots, or if you really must have one then just leave it at that. |
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I find it a confusing profile. You say we have set up this profile, we are looking for a woman to go to clubs with but your wife is not looking to play. Will she go to the club withyou and the other woman ? |
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Reads to me like you’re trying to act like she knows. Says nothing about speaking to the wife to confirm she’s onboard and gives permission. Days she can read messages on here but there’s nothing to prove that other than your word. Also says you need time to plan a meet but sometimes the wife will allow a short notice meet!? That says to me like you’d need time to plan (to get an excuse to give to the wife) or sometimes she may decide to go out for the day, in which case you have spare time you didn’t know you’d have and therefore the wife will conveniently allow a short notice meet!
I’m overtly suspicious though so I look for holes.
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"Lots to work on! Understand where most are coming from.
Certainly not the kind of picture I’m trying to put across.
Thank you people
What are you trying to put across? "
That I’m here for some fun and socialising , although I’m
Not single. And I want to experience new things and help others experience them too |
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"Lots to work on! Understand where most are coming from.
Certainly not the kind of picture I’m trying to put across.
Thank you people
What are you trying to put across?
That I’m here for some fun and socialising , although I’m
Not single. And I want to experience new things and help others experience them too "
Concise, informative and accurate  |
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"I’ve had another bash at it. It’s certainly shorter which isn’t something I ever thought is enjoy saying "
Lol. You could say you're married and your wife is aware otherwise it's much better in my opinion. Personally I'd never mention my children on my profile |
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"I’ve had another bash at it. It’s certainly shorter which isn’t something I ever thought is enjoy saying
Lol. You could say you're married and your wife is aware otherwise it's much better in my opinion. Personally I'd never mention my children on my profile "
Thanks for the advice! It’s much appreciated. Trying to find the right balance of honesty, banter and fantasy is hard work lol |
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"I’ve had another bash at it. It’s certainly shorter which isn’t something I ever thought is enjoy saying
Lol. You could say you're married and your wife is aware otherwise it's much better in my opinion. Personally I'd never mention my children on my profile
Thanks for the advice! It’s much appreciated. Trying to find the right balance of honesty, banter and fantasy is hard work lol "
You're welcome. There is no right answer really.
Good luck |
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