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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been to a couple of clubs and have noticed that being a single bloke can mean you’re a lemon. But attitude and confidence can change that. Anybody got off with someone cos they looked lonely. Was it fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, it's more important that the person is willing to chat with me and my male club partner rather than they looking lonely. I absolutely don't mind a single guy joining us for a conversation. But I do not like it if the said guy does one of the following:
1) waits for my club partner to go somewhere to approach me on my own
2) instead of trying to initiate conversation (I know this can be daunting but simple "hello" with a nice smile is enough), he just stares at me/us
3) tries to touch uninvited, including in the hot tub - I get that some accidental touching is likely to appear in tight space, but I'm talking about purposeful touching.
There were situations where I have invited the respectful gentleman to play with us, but also situations where it was just a chat as did not feel any chemistry. However, I have never invited the guy doing any of the 3 actions mentioned above for a play in a club. |
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"I’ve been to a couple of clubs and have noticed that being a single bloke can mean you’re a lemon. But attitude and confidence can change that. Anybody got off with someone cos they looked lonely. Was it fun "
Are you meaning a sympathy fuck? |
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"I’ve been to a couple of clubs and have noticed that being a single bloke can mean you’re a lemon. But attitude and confidence can change that. Anybody got off with someone cos they looked lonely. Was it fun
Are you meaning a sympathy fuck?"
Funny maybe I did. But really experience has shown me it’s a social place. People are interesting first. No matter how hot they look. Talking to guys and playing by ear gives a happy eve anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been to a couple of clubs and have noticed that being a single bloke can mean you’re a lemon. But attitude and confidence can change that. Anybody got off with someone cos they looked lonely. Was it fun
Are you meaning a sympathy fuck?
Funny maybe I did. But really experience has shown me it’s a social place. People are interesting first. No matter how hot they look. Talking to guys and playing by ear gives a happy eve anyway "
We don't see why someone would want to give a sympathy fuck, but each to their own.
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Sympathy fucks happens lol. I get sometimes some clubs can seem clicky but when you say hello smile and be friendly most people tend to be the same back too you. Standing in the corner looking lonely can’t be helpful in anyway |
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