Persuading is still shaky. You need her to be enthusiastically on board of her own volition. Not to please you, not because she's been pressured or manipulated.
She has to want to, for her. And if she doesn't, you need to respect that entirely. |
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Whatch porn movie first see what her response is nd tell her you would like to try that.
She said OK with who I said I don't know I have friend in work who I think will I was so excited we had great sex that night fantasying and then she dropped the bomb shell, she said and then next time we will get a guy to join us yes I said that's OK |
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"Yes quite correct ,not training more persuading , and encouraging to achieve her total satisfaction x"
Training? Persuading? How about just asking and let her make her mind up without pressure. Hope she makes the right choice for her, which may not include you. |
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"Yes quite correct ,not training more persuading , and encouraging to achieve her total satisfaction x
Training? Persuading? How about just asking and let her make her mind up without pressure. Hope she makes the right choice for her, which may not include you."
She may not want to do what you want. And you need to unconditionally accept that if you're with her. |
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Training is not the right route for this. You need to sit down and discuss it between yourselves and gauge her reaction carefully. Things could turn bad for you very rapidly if it is not something she would like. Good luck. |
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