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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
A rant about it in the forums won’t help. I understand your frustrations but people know what they’re looking for on here and they don’t owe you anything. Not even a response. Chin up, if fab isn’t for you, based on what you’ve said about yourself, you’ll be alright without it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
Wow if most women will flirt with you how do you even have time to be here?
I find that most women reply to messages on here, even if it’s just to say no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
If you find it so easy to chat and flirt with woman why bother with fab ? Not having a go just curious |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
What others say is right but look at your profile from the view of a lady looking for someone...
No pics, just a silhouette avatar.
A three line non descriptive profile, but nineteen lines on legal stuff!
What does it say about YOU???
Browse the Forum Index for lots of tips on how to improve a profile!
One positive point, you do have 1 Verification, which a lot of guys would kill for in their first year on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like most websites like this, men ratio vastly exceeds women. Just be patient and join in with forum/cam room chat. Good luck!"
I can of course understand the ratio however my experience of actual messages is lack of quality, that is the downfall. It's their issue not so much the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile has no pictures and no information about yourself. People on here get inundated with messages, hundreds a day, from people who haven’t read profiles and don’t offer any information.
If those people were replying to every void of a profile, or even just half of them, they wouldn’t have time for anything else.
Seems reasonable to me, at least. |
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627 unread messages in my inbox and I rarely answer one with no profile pic at all I have to admit. It makes me wary that it’s some dude I’ve rejected making another profile to stalk me. Stalking/obsessive behaviour is an issue on here, you gotta be wary  |
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
Put a dick pic up you’ll get lots of People messaging you then, granted they’ll be all “fab straight” men but Beggars can’t be choosers  lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.
Put a dick pic up you’ll get lots of People messaging you then, straight” men but Beggars can’t be choosers lol "
This is so true I hardly ever get a response from a female or couple even if its a no thanks small fish in a big pond i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
lol but your profile is your advert and you dont have one all you have is the really quite pointless disclaimer, no pics and no write up but one veri, your profile is your advert    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't reply to you.
1. No avatar
2. No public pics
3. Cocky and whiney status update.
4. No bio info
5. That stupid disclaimer
So basically everything |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
Some good advice above, complaining in your status update won't help, and will just turn people away. I've never met anyone through here despite trying with original thoughtful relevant messages. Even when you get an answer, the conversation usually quickly disappears amongst their 500 messages a day. People I have met have been through clubs, who are also on here.
When I look at women's profiles, that "legal" claptrap just makes me turn and walk away, especially if its copied and pasted from elsewhere without even changing the site name! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try making an effort with your profile pic for starters, first impressions and all that. By the sounds of it if you get that sorted every woman on fab will want you if you can squeeze them in around all the others your manage to constantly pull  |
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"No avatar, no pics to view and one verification in over a year. Add in a rather cocky arrogant status and it hardly shouts nice genuine guy.
We wouldn’t give you a second look"
We,d give you guys a second look, third too probably.. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
First thing I do if someone messages me is look at their profile. If its a silhouette pic and basically a blank profile I won't answer anymore. If someone can't be bothered to make even the most basic effort in their profile than they probably won't make any effort with meeting etc. And that disclaimer is a pointless so that's another negative when I see it. |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
You do sound over confident.
The reality is.....can't be arsed to add a photo, can't be arsed to write a profile, can't understand why people aren't tripping over themselves to meet you?
It's not silent blind date!
Put effort in and you'll get effort back.
Currently you come across as a lazy chancer. |
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"Like most websites like this, men ratio vastly exceeds women. Just be patient and join in with forum/cam room chat. Good luck!"
But when i look at the search page, equal number of men and women are online and joined today...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like most websites like this, men ratio vastly exceeds women. Just be patient and join in with forum/cam room chat. Good luck!
But when i look at the search page, equal number of men and women are online and joined today... "
exactly the devide is not as much as people would like you to believe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
A one sentence profile, and no photos.
Now THAT is what we call effort!! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Your profile has no pictures and no information about yourself. People on here get inundated with messages, hundreds a day, from people who haven’t read profiles and don’t offer any information.
If those people were replying to every void of a profile, or even just half of them, they wouldn’t have time for anything else.
Seems reasonable to me, at least. "
You don't have any pics either?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is fab and the first thing most women and my wife included look at it the profile of the message sender because the profile is the window into the sexual soul.
A good honest well written profile could be the first chance you get to make an impression in your hunt for cunt or cock.
Clear honest profiles that express your personality can win the day.
Yours op puts you in the egg and spoon race without the spoon or indeed the egg.
Best of luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
PUT SOME PHOTOS ON YOUR PROFILE ...its not rocket science. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
Welcome to Fab. Get used to it, it's the place where egos come to die. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.
Welcome to Fab. Get used to it, it's the place where egos come to die. "
mens egos lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible."
Profile practically non existent.
No profile pic.
No pics on display.
Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.
You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.
Profile practically non existent.
No profile pic.
No pics on display.
Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.
You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat no"
exactly i love putting in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.
Profile practically non existent.
No profile pic.
No pics on display.
Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.
You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat noexactly i love putting in "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.
Profile practically non existent.
No profile pic.
No pics on display.
Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.
You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat noexactly i love putting in
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lol I'm very tanned but not black |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without being over confident i can get most women to chat with me and even flirt but getting just a reply on here is almost impossible.
Profile practically non existent.
No profile pic.
No pics on display.
Wouldnt even bother. Id just pass you by sorry.
You only get out what you put in so for me its a big fat noexactly i love putting in
lol I'm very tanned but not black "
Hahaha nope you arent black lol |
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"What others say is right but look at your profile from the view of a lady looking for someone...
No pics, just a silhouette avatar.
A three line non descriptive profile, but nineteen lines on legal stuff!
What does it say about YOU???
Browse the Forum Index for lots of tips on how to improve a profile!
One positive point, you do have 1 Verification, which a lot of guys would kill for in their first year on here!"
the op didn't ask for a profile critique and I believe it's against forum rules to give one unsolicited tho correct me if I'm wrong |
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"the op didn't ask for a profile critique and I believe it's against forum rules to give one unsolicited tho correct me if I'm wrong "
Bang on I think. There is a limit to how much criticism (however polite or constructive it might be) that is good for anyone's mental health |
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"the op didn't ask for a profile critique and I believe it's against forum rules to give one unsolicited tho correct me if I'm wrong
Bang on I think. There is a limit to how much criticism (however polite or constructive it might be) that is good for anyone's mental health"
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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I look at profiles before I even open a message. If the profile has absolutely nothing on it to capture my interest then I'm unlikely to bother to even get as far as reading the message. |
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"Your profile has no pictures and no information about yourself. People on here get inundated with messages, hundreds a day, from people who haven’t read profiles and don’t offer any information.
If those people were replying to every void of a profile, or even just half of them, they wouldn’t have time for anything else.
Seems reasonable to me, at least. "
Your profile may be decent but you have no public pics or avatar yourself |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I look at profiles before I even open a message. If the profile has absolutely nothing on it to capture my interest then I'm unlikely to bother to even get as far as reading the message. "
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look at profiles before I even open a message. If the profile has absolutely nothing on it to capture my interest then I'm unlikely to bother to even get as far as reading the message. "
kinda rude...and shalow
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I look at profiles before I even open a message. If the profile has absolutely nothing on it to capture my interest then I'm unlikely to bother to even get as far as reading the message. kinda rude...and shalow"
Not at all. If the profile isn't what we are looking for why bother reading or replying? Perhaps you should read the faq section where it clearly states no reply means no interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look at profiles before I even open a message. If the profile has absolutely nothing on it to capture my interest then I'm unlikely to bother to even get as far as reading the message. kinda rude...and shalow"
We don’t think this is rude or shallow, it’s everyone’s own choice who they choose to speak with. |
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