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There’s more guys on here than women, believe me I wouldn’t get as many messages if it was the opposite way round. So that’s a lot of competition.
Once lockdown is over socials should start up again and meeting face to face with other members may help your search.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the women to men ratio on this site is shocking haha. depends on what your after, like an open relationship then yep you could meet some one then after a while get in a relationship. but this isnt exactly a site for commitment. best of luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi all.
It's a great idea having a dating section. Then you can decide if you both want to continue on fab and enjoy the fun together. It's very awkward meeting outside of fab and having to keep silent and not wanting to spoil the relationship by suggesting swapping or even worse if your both wanting it but both never suggests it. This way you both know what you want and can carry on or stop.
I too am very interested in finding a girlfriend on here. I hope fab brings that section to life.
Ps.
I'm single, straight, working, very tactile, honest and open minded, looking for a relationship long term with someone tactile who wants the same. Your personality is more important above all else. Like days out, weekends away, holidays, holding hands hugs, kisses, cuddles and making passionate spontaneous love anytime, anyplace anywhere.
Apply within please lol x |
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By *ab jamesMan
over a year ago
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If your sure you want a swinger chic as a permanent partner, could you handle watching your girl getting f*#@ed by a guy with a bigger cock perhaps, if you decide not to swing, would you be happy for her to carry on without you?
Try just meeting on fab and keep meeting until someone special turns up. Hope you find miss perfect |
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"I've also decided it's time to actually date
I've joined a good site. And when I fund someone I want to spend time with, I'll leave here"
Would you care to mention which site you've joined?
Asking for a friend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op loads of people are looking to date on fab. Some have even suggested a dating section. Good luck in your search "
Brilliant idea! Sign me up for that one please!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've also decided it's time to actually date
I've joined a good site. And when I fund someone I want to spend time with, I'll leave here
Would you care to mention which site you've joined?
Asking for a friend "
One of the better ones. Not the usual god awful ones that are hook up sites in disguise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op loads of people are looking to date on fab. Some have even suggested a dating section. Good luck in your search "
Yes a dating section would be good, we been on the scene almost 18 years and we have had several friends met partners and got married even through these sites.
A poly section would be good also!
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Just for those not aware .....THIS IS A SHAGGING SITE . Nuf said ."
No. Its a swinging site. There's a difference. People use the site how they see fit, it's not for you to dictate how they run their accounts. |
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"Any single ladies looking far a boyfriend "
Meeeee, well not specifically a boyfriend,
but a loving partner/s, so if anyone happens to be localish and likes the look of my profile (including the written bit ha!), let's chat and have a virtual drink or two and go from there..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not as crazy as it sounds, we met on fab and 4 years later happy and finally living together in our own house so good luck OP it does happen x"
What a lovely story - gives out hope xx |
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"Just for those not aware .....THIS IS A SHAGGING SITE . Nuf said ."
Really annoys me when people say it’s a sex site...for some it might be, for me it’s a swinging site. Most enjoy the social side of things, mingling with likeminded folk and go to clubs and don't always play. So for me, it’s not a shagging site by any means.
I’d love a dating section on fab x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not as crazy as it sounds, we met on fab and 4 years later happy and finally living together in our own house so good luck OP it does happen x"
This is wonderful to read.
It’s so hard dating and then having to tell someone what you’re into. I like the thought of being upfront from the beginning! |
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By *uysx2Couple (MM)
over a year ago
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"If you're not interested in what the op is asking for leave the thread alone please. "
This!
I'm sick to death of someone posting a valid question only to see it followed by purile, sarcastic, comments that have no relation to the op's original post. If you've nothing constructive to add to the conversation don't say anything. |
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I think perhaps a dating section which encourages people to go on socials or meet in clubs ( post Covid obviously) would be a welcome addition for people looking to meet potential playmates but with no pressure x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're not interested in what the op is asking for leave the thread alone please.
This!
I'm sick to death of someone posting a valid question only to see it followed by purile, sarcastic, comments that have no relation to the op's original post. If you've nothing constructive to add to the conversation don't say anything."
Well said! |
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OP it is possible. We met at clubf and got on great from the start. We had a whirlwind romance and we were married 7 months after we met. 2.5 years later and we’re still deeply in love, love the scene but happy away from it to.
Good luck OP, your “the one” is out there just waiting for you to find her xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're not interested in what the op is asking for leave the thread alone please.
This!
I'm sick to death of someone posting a valid question only to see it followed by purile, sarcastic, comments that have no relation to the op's original post. If you've nothing constructive to add to the conversation don't say anything."
100% agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We doubt you'll have much success but wish you luck.
And it is a superb idea for this site to do. Why not?"
Your man has excellent taste in ladies and football..ctid |
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By *eanorWoman
over a year ago
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Great idea , to have a dating section on fab , there are no pretences on the fact that we all love great sex so there is common ground already and that alone is a huge must in any relationship xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good luck hope you find what your looking for I'd love to meet someone for a real relationship but with added fun, at least youd be open & honest from the start about your needs I'm still hoping it might happen |
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"Good luck hope you find what your looking for I'd love to meet someone for a real relationship but with added fun, at least youd be open & honest from the start about your needs I'm still hoping it might happen "
I don't see why it shouldn't for you - you look perfectly fine to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like sex but i also want a relationship . The perfect combination, but problem is most men on here are already married!"
And quite a lot of us who would really love a girlfriend are very, VERY single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met my ex on fab.
The right person will shine thru.
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As did I a couple years ago when I was On. Not just a “ sex site” as someone has called it. Totally agree With the dating section though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great idea.
I’ve never used this site to date, as I haven’t wanted too. Loved swinging and being single but now I want to date; left swinging last year. only here for perving and cams: my profile states that.
The problem being that dating apps don’t have a tick box for swingers.  not looking to necessarily swing with a Future partner but some one likes minded would be a start. Many guys get freaked out that you love a good orgy .. not sure why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any single ladies looking far a boyfriend "
I hope you find a really nice lady. And not 'Any single ladies'. One of the most important lessons we learn in Tantra is 'learn to love yourself'. Not in a vain way. If you don't have respect for yourself then how can you expect it from others????? |
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We met on a site similar to this, been together 7 years this August and married for 2 this October also expecting our first baby in September so yeah it can happen We had people we met at swingfields at our wedding too!
Meeting on the swinging scene can help avoid awkward conversations with vanilla people about 3sums etc as if you’re on here you’re more likely to be open minded to it
Good luck to you all looking for relationships x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met on a site similar to this, been together 7 years this August and married for 2 this October also expecting our first baby in September so yeah it can happen We had people we met at swingfields at our wedding too!
Meeting on the swinging scene can help avoid awkward conversations with vanilla people about 3sums etc as if you’re on here you’re more likely to be open minded to it
Good luck to you all looking for relationships x"
Wow that is awesome! Thank you for sharing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had relationships from Fab, never explicitly sought but obviously I'm a catch so the feels set in after meets. Also agree that finding a like-minded partner (in terms of sexually liberated) is more certain on a site like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for those not aware .....THIS IS A SHAGGING SITE . Nuf said ."
It’s a swinging site but let’s not get Pedantic ...
Just think of all those potential matches; one could be your next couple meet 
#nufsaid |
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"There’s more guys on here than women, believe me I wouldn’t get as many messages if it was the opposite way round. So that’s a lot of competition.
Once lockdown is over socials should start up again and meeting face to face with other members may help your search.
Contribute to the forums until then, get know and who knows "
Sound advice, socials are a great way of getting to meet and know fellow fabsters face to face in a safe open environment. |
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