Dropping by to say a big hello to all of you and saying thanks in advance.
I'm new to swinging but not, ahem, to the pleasures of the flesh.
Now, as a newbie who can accommodate, I have been inundated and quite frankly, I'm finding it hard to keep up with who I have, haven't, ignored, messaged, friended, hotted and all the other stuff.
Every time I cull, three new messages pop up for every one deleted. In the first three days, after ploughing through them all, I deleted almost 90 messages.
Any tricks on how to keep tabs on it all? Any tricks to using all the features to their best advantage? What little rules do you have when getting a new message? |
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Use the message filters to block all those you are not interested however if you have already exchanged messages with someone that would be in that filter, they can still message you, unfortunately there is no way of stopping that.
Some people have a word at the end of their profile to use as the subject line in a message, if someone doesn't use it, they just delete without reading, you could do that and that way, just delete without reading.
Don't accept random friendship requesters; they are often just picture collectors or looking for wank material and they rarely chat.
Welcome to Fab and good luck  |
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Thanks guys.
My 'rules' so far have helped. I delete anyone who obviously hasn't read my profile, no pictures and one liners, especially in text speak. I simply can't work them out.
I don't wink at anyone and the only friends I've added are men I've chatted to and actually like.
My only other comment is why oh why didn't I do this sooner. The liberation is astonishing. |
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