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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good morning
If we’ve had a message from someone and we’ve decided they’re not for us- we normally respond politely.
However- sometimes the messages just get deleted immediately.
Would they show up as yellow ( unread) in their sent folder?
We’ve realised we’ve got some unread messages in our sent folder and I’m just curious as to whether that may be what they’ve just done- deleted without reading (which is their right).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Messages that have been deleted show as deleted in the sender's sent mail.
As messages can be re-set to unread by the recipient, you cannot know for sure that it was or was not read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing to do with rudeness.
Specially with couples, when one half may wait for the other half to read the message/profile, before making a decision on what follow-up is appropriate.
Otherwise, messages can get opened automatically - which happens when you delete other messages, sometimes - but you may not want/wish/have time to read/follow-up immediately.
"what is the point of marking as unread only rudeness!"
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Thank you
what is the point of marking as unread only rudeness!"
Sometimes I read and mark unread if I'm interested before clearing my inbox of read mail so I don't lose it. Wasn't aware that was rude. Quite the reverse actually. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I delete most without reading tbh,Dee doesn’t like it lol but if it annoys people then skin maybe too thin for this site  "
Yes I do at times sadly too
What I’m curious to is whether they stay yellow in the sent box ( unread)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi ...I think if you haven't read them or you have marked unread again they will still show up yellow but with a line through to show it's been deleted . Xx
Mrs xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi ...I think if you haven't read them or you have marked unread again they will still show up yellow but with a line through to show it's been deleted . Xx
Mrs xx "
Thank you x |
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