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how could he have messaged me?
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"I don't think hiding stops messages. Have you checked your filters to see what they're set to? (I've not had it happen myself but have heard reports of other people's coming undone) " But someone who setup a profile only two hours ago, how would they find a hidden profile and a link to message that hidden profile? | |||
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"They may have looked in the forum and seen one of your posts? " 
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"I don't think hiding stops messages. Have you checked your filters to see what they're set to? (I've not had it happen myself but have heard reports of other people's coming undone) But someone who setup a profile only two hours ago, how would they find a hidden profile and a link to message that hidden profile?" If you click on someone’s name who has a hidden profile it says member profile hidden but the options at the top remain the same as if it was not hidden. If I click on your name now I would be able to message you. I could also reply to your forum post privately which goes into your inbox | |||
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"They may have looked in the forum and seen one of your posts? " Hmm...this did just occur to me. Possible, I suppose, but seems really unlikely. It's not as if I'm a frequent poster or a known quantity in the forums. The person who messaged said he'd heard of my sexual skills. If that's true I can't imagine he came searching for me in the forums or indeed stumbled upon me here during the two hours since he set up his profile. There is the possibility that this person is someone who's been stalking me, but even in that case I can't imagine he came into the forum to find me and message. | |||
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"He sounds like a returner to me who put your name in the url to find you" Ah...bingo, methinks. This makes most sense to me...and suggests that it probably is the stalker. Thanks! | |||
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