The messages are deleted - the unread messages number goes down - or have fallen off the bottom of the page?
If the number is going down it may mean the sender has left the site, I have found their mail goes too, sometimes not always. Or fab auto deletes mail over 2 weeks old. If they are dropping off the page delete read mail you no-longer want and move others to saved messages.
Past conversations - It won't show the whole conversation only the last 20-30 messages. Are you only getting 1 side of the conversation? |
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Hi would love to know, if I send a message and it shows as unread for a few days is it possible it's just been deleted and not read? Or would it show as unread deleted? Thanks in advance |
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"Hi would love to know, if I send a message and it shows as unread for a few days is it possible it's just been deleted and not read? Or would it show as unread deleted? Thanks in advance "
They could have read it and then marked it as unread |
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"Hi would love to know, if I send a message and it shows as unread for a few days is it possible it's just been deleted and not read? Or would it show as unread deleted? Thanks in advance
They could have read it and then marked it as unread"
Ah I see, thank you replying ???? can I ask what that implies? |
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"Hi would love to know, if I send a message and it shows as unread for a few days is it possible it's just been deleted and not read? Or would it show as unread deleted? Thanks in advance
They could have read it and then marked it as unread
Ah I see, thank you replying ???? can I ask what that implies? "
They may want to keep it to reply another day or for their partner to read if it's a couple. By leaving it unread means it doesn't get lost in the read messages and then deleted |
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"The messages are deleted - the unread messages number goes down - or have fallen off the bottom of the page?
If the number is going down it may mean the sender has left the site, I have found their mail goes too, sometimes not always. Or fab auto deletes mail over 2 weeks old. If they are dropping off the page delete read mail you no-longer
want and move others to saved messages.
Past conversations - It won't show the whole conversation only the last 20-30 messages. Are you only getting 1 side of the conversation?"
I'm getting both sides of the messages hun but only the last two or three posts between us. I've got deleted messages from a few days ago which I don't understand.  |
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"The messages are deleted - the unread messages number goes down - or have fallen off the bottom of the page?
If the number is going down it may mean the sender has left the site, I have found their mail goes too, sometimes not always. Or fab auto deletes mail over 2 weeks old. If they are dropping off the page delete read mail you no-longer
want and move others to saved messages.
Past conversations - It won't show the whole conversation only the last 20-30 messages. Are you only getting 1 side of the conversation?
I'm getting both sides of the messages hun but only the last two or three posts between us. I've got deleted messages from a few days ago which I don't understand. "
Are you both hitting 'reply to message' rather than starting a new message thread as it were. If you reply then it should give you the conversation. |
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There does appear to be a bug in the system at the moment. I had a message last night which had vanished the next time I looked (no I didn't delete it) and I have a notification email of another message which is not in my inbox. Both from the same person whose other messages are still showing.
Site techies need to investigate |
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"Hi would love to know, if I send a message and it shows as unread for a few days is it possible it's just been deleted and not read? Or would it show as unread deleted? Thanks in advance
They could have read it and then marked it as unread
Ah I see, thank you replying ???? can I ask what that implies? "
it simply implies, if unread that its unread and recipient does not want to read it, if its deleted unread, the recipient is not interested.
Focus less on sent box is my advice |
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"No genuine ladies any tips "
Perhaps write your own post in the introduction or meets forum rather than hijack a post with a comment that has no relevance to the subject  |
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