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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am single fab has made me a couple i have no link on here to connect to fab how do I get it put right as I've emailed and message new owners and no one isddoing anything what gives them the right to tell me I'm not single |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You will need to contact administration. They will of changed your account. Maybe someone had evidence you aren't a couple and reported you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How do I get in touch as I've emailed and sent message to owners |
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If your master is involved in your meets then you should be listed as a couple. He's referenced in some of your veris so it gives the impression that he'd be involved - a single female doesn't have any other man involved in her meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you only meet with your male partner then you are a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We're not a couple and we always tell ppl if he's their and he never gets involved he takes my pictures |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're not a couple and we always tell ppl if he's their and he never gets involved he takes my pictures"
If he's always there at meets to take your pictures the you are meeting as a couple. |
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"We're not a couple and we always tell ppl if he's their and he never gets involved he takes my pictures
If he's always there at meets to take your pictures the you are meeting as a couple."
A non playing partner makes you a couple. If your meets will encounter him at any point then you should be listed as a couple - when I arrange meets at no time will my meets encounter another guy whether it's at the social meet for coffee or during the play meet to take pics. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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He doesn't come to all meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He doesn't come to all meets"
Do all your meets have to interact with him? For example, do you have to get explicit permission from him? Or do they have to ask his permission? |
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It can take some time to be changed back. My single profile was reported and the annoying thing was that admin don't notify you before they change it which I did not like as you dont have any chance to show you are single. I think it can be a case of someone you don't meet having sour grapes and reporting, as I think it must have been in my case. I have a couple profile and a single profile because I meet women alone, without my partner and he has no say in what I do or who I meet. Funny thing was they did not change his single profile when they changed mine. I persisted and they changed it back, so they do listen. But overall I think that the people who report can be doing it for the wrong reasons, so the system is be no means perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a sub he's a dom he's my master as I like to be controlled it's not a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're not a couple and we always tell ppl if he's their and he never gets involved he takes my pictures
If he's always there at meets to take your pictures the you are meeting as a couple."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a sub he's a dom he's my master as I like to be controlled it's not a relationship"
But does he always have interaction with people you meet? In any form?
If he does, then you are really a couple for the purposes of this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a single male profile was to say he likes to involve his submissive female friend in certain meets,would admin be as quick to change his single profile to that of a couples?
No,I wouldn't think so.  |
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It normally benefits a guy to have a couple profile, over a single guy profil, so this scenario is not the same. Single females are sought after so wanting to keep that status is to their advantage. |
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"If your master is involved in your meets then you should be listed as a couple. He's referenced in some of your veris so it gives the impression that he'd be involved - a single female doesn't have any other man involved in her meets."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No he doesn't come to all meets yes he says when I meet that's a master and sub thing we are most definitely not a couple and don't even act as one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No he doesn't come to all meets yes he says when I meet that's a master and sub thing we are most definitely not a couple and don't even act as one"
Perhaps you would be better with two profiles? One for the people who want to meet you both, and one for just you, with absolutely no interference from your partner? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No he doesn't come to all meets yes he says when I meet that's a master and sub thing we are most definitely not a couple and don't even act as one"
Stick to your guns op,we constantly hear folk say there should be no pressure in swinging,but you have been forced into having a couples profile when you clearly want a single profile.Too many double standards on this site. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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If you have the wrong profile you will come up in the wrong search. If you are playing with another you need a couples profile. If you also play alone you can also have a single profile for that.
Admin normally only change profiles to the right ones with evidence... but if you think they have it wrong ask them from the CONTACT button to review for you. |
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