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Rules on homophobic comments

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A few days ago we were friended by someone who can't read. On our profile it says don't just friend request us as we will look at your pics then u friend. Simple. Well he didn't like that so he came back with "fucking gay cunt". This is to US a bi couple that he wanted to join. I complain to admin and to date nothing has been done.

But I put on my statue what has been said and it's taken down within 24hrs.

Any comments.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

Isn't 'fucking gay cunt' a bit of an oxymoron?

You're not allowed to use your status in a negative manner, plus it's a bit self-defeating as it is more likely to deter the nice people you want to meet.

As is getting too overwrought by men trying it on by adding you despite what your profile may say.

If someone is abusive, report, block and move on. Simples.

Good luck

Mr ddc

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

You may not know that nothing has been done. He could have a message block, or admin may not have got to your complaint yet.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"You may not know that nothing has been done. He could have a message block, or admin may not have got to your complaint yet."

^^^ This.

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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