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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When people hide verifications,we think it would be a good idea to show what they are hiding. Phone verifications mean nothing,and web mean nothing other than they have been on cam.Alot of timewasters are using this,to fool genuine swingers. |
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"When people hide verifications,we think it would be a good idea to show what they are hiding. Phone verifications mean nothing,and web mean nothing other than they have been on cam.Alot of timewasters are using this,to fool genuine swingers. "
I see your point - but to show something that has been hidden? surely that is a contradiction cos if you can see it - it isn't hidden! |
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"We only want it to show which type of verification is hidden,no one other than a timewaster should object to it."
oh - right - i see - you mean you won't be able to read the verification, see who it's from or anything - just that it's there - sorry about that I was confused for a bit! |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"We only want it to show which type of verification is hidden,no one other than a timewaster should object to it."
Ah the old timewaster debate again! 
As has been stated many times on loads of threads about so called timewasters one persons timewaster is another persons change of mind, etc, etc, etc!
Showing a verification status or the verification itself will do nothing, in my humble opinion, to stop meet cancellations, etc as vanilla life can sometimes stop a meet happening for many varied reasons!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes,it is the old timewaster debate again.We do understand your point about people changing minds,cancellations etc,but why make so easy for the "genuine timewaster".???????? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"Yes,it is the old timewaster debate again.We do understand your point about people changing minds,cancellations etc,but why make so easy for the "genuine timewaster".????????"
No matter what the site does, if the people really are a "genuine timewaster", they will always waste other peoples time as thats how they get their "kicks"
Again just my humble opinion into a long running debate that will never end! |
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"We only want it to show which type of verification is hidden,no one other than a timewaster should object to it."
a 'meet in person' verification means nothing either if you dont know who it's from?
for example, a verified single male can set himself up a couple profile and verify it by meeting in person, then hide the verification (hiding the fact it was him who wrote it!)
The verification system can be manipulated whatever the situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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think ive been lucky not had timewasters cos i meet at socials first that way you get to know who is up for a meet, well anyway i just been lucky i guess. sometimes though maybe they not all genuine timewasters, maybe they are all up for it, but when it comes to nitty gritty they get scared, who knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"View but if someone has left the site we lose that particular verification dont we x"
aye kitten but you remain 'verified as genuine' but show the same as the folks who have chosen not to show xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We,ve noticed alot of people have maybe 5/6 phone verifications,is this a free sex chat line?Forgive us,but is camming not just free porn.This is supposed to a swingers site,for people to actually meet. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"We,ve noticed alot of people have maybe 5/6 phone verifications,is this a free sex chat line?Forgive us,but is camming not just free porn.This is supposed to a swingers site,for people to actually meet."
Having read your profile I can see that the first paragraph says;
'Early phone chat,to get rid of timewasters.If you can,t speak on the phone,then don,t contact us'
So maybe the phone verifications you have seen are from people who do the same as you do and ask to chat on the phone and hence the 'phone verification'
The other person giving the verification may feel the other people they have spoken to are therefore a genuine couple and will maybe meet in the future!
Again just my tuppence worth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A possible solution would be on the profile something like this:
'Verified Genuine (5 in person, 2 on phone, 2 on webcam)'
then they can hide/display whatever feedback they wish
If it says only one phone or webcam verify then you can move to a diff profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes a person or couple willing to verify you may not wish their own identity to be posted up on your profile, (just as 'friends' are likewise often hidden). If the verifier asks not to be identified, (so the comments not to be shown), it's only courtesy not to show them, - although their comments are wasted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 funny!
I love this thread,it just goes to show how peoples opinions about certain aspects of the site ie verifications can change like the wind when it suits them
Unless of course they're not genuine and are trying to fool people into thinking they are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blimey, their own profile has the verifications hidden along with their friends, maybe there is a few bi men there, who knows, "
I think I know why....someone on another forum thread pointed out that their last verification was over a year ago and suddenly...their verifications vanish into thin air! |
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I think that each person should have a positive and negative flag with numbers on it simular to ebai!! when arranging to meet, this site should have a page where when one person arranges to meet the other they both have 48 hours in which to complete a feedback so all can see if it was positive or negative by number 1/5 for either red - equals a shitty meet and + 5 obviously an excellent time all round.
Makes sense on ebai doesn't it !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Makes sense on ebai doesn't it !!!
Is that ebai gum lad?? "
Maybe it’s the professional way to spell eBay 
Either way eBay’s feedback system is that great only the buyer can leave negative feedback |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"I think that each person should have a positive and negative flag with numbers on it simular to ebai!! when arranging to meet, this site should have a page where when one person arranges to meet the other they both have 48 hours in which to complete a feedback so all can see if it was positive or negative by number 1/5 for either red - equals a shitty meet and + 5 obviously an excellent time all round.
Makes sense on ebai doesn't it !!!"
Are you being serious? 
You really want anyone who wants to meet others from here to post it on an open page for all to see? Does Admin have to approve that meet before it can take place? And how is Admin meant to know when meets are planned and the people concerned haven't filled out the correct concent page?
It is no one elses business who meets who on this site or any site for that matter.
What if someone goes over your 48 hour limit for giving the feedback, what's your proposal for the punishment? 
Ebay is a site for buying & selling goods and no one is forced to provide any feedback if they don't want to on it. Fab is a site that is meant to be fun for all and not a who is better than who site!
This has got to be one of the silliest suggestions I have heard on here!!! |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"Come on the ebai guy is a well educated professional (with no spell checker), so he must be right "
I need a spell checker too
concent in my post is meant to be consent - damn I failed the test again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come on the ebai guy is a well educated professional (with no spell checker), so he must be right
I need a spell checker too
concent in my post is meant to be consent - damn I failed the test again "
Well you don't claim to be well educated and a professional |
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