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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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May i ask why I pay £5 for being a site supporter that allows me to look at Profiles that look at me,but the site universally allows profiles to be hidden from view if they look at your profile!
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Some people hide the fact that they are viewing profiles so they don't get pestered because they happened to look. Same thing with completely hiding your profile. I looked at yours, OP, but it won't show in your who's looked at me page.  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"May i ask why I pay £5 for being a site supporter that allows me to look at Profiles that look at me,but the site universally allows profiles to be hidden from view if they look at your profile!
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Some people want a break from receiving messages so they hide their profile, some people just want a break from fab but don't want to delete their profile.
Honestly, it's nothing to do with you if someone hides their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some people want a break from receiving messages so they hide their profile, some people just want a break from fab but don't want to delete their profile.
Honestly, it's nothing to do with you if someone hides their profile.
If they taking a break they are taking a break so assume they wouldn't be looking or have hidden there profile from everyone.
I dint think it was aimed at me personally it just seems odd that you pay for something but the site allows non payers as well as payers to hide their profiles so why charge for this facility?
As for women receiving messages because they looked at profile and this is why it should be allowed in its current state i would again presume that the ladies would look at a guys profile 1st,so why not block them? |
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Women hide that they looked because men see they have and harass them.
IF the site stopped non site supporting women the ability to do this all that would happen is women looking then blocking so you would be even more frustrated. OR women would leave and it would be even more of a sausage feast on here.  |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
"May i ask why I pay £5 for being a site supporter that allows me to look at Profiles that look at me,but the site universally allows profiles to be hidden from view if they look at your profile!
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Someone looking at your profile is not sending any " message " or indication of interest so its meaningless knowing they have looked in or out of stealth mode.Can you imagine all the " I see you looked at my profile " messages women would get. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Some people want a break from receiving messages so they hide their profile, some people just want a break from fab but don't want to delete their profile.
Honestly, it's nothing to do with you if someone hides their profile.
If they taking a break they are taking a break so assume they wouldn't be looking or have hidden there profile from everyone.
I dint think it was aimed at me personally it just seems odd that you pay for something but the site allows non payers as well as payers to hide their profiles so why charge for this facility?
As for women receiving messages because they looked at profile and this is why it should be allowed in its current state i would again presume that the ladies would look at a guys profile 1st,so why not block them?"
They aren't charging you for that, they are charging you for other features.
I don't want a message everytime I look at a profile questioning me about why I looked but didn't message, I've had it before and since the feature is there I'm going to use it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cost? £5 for up to 60 days
Pay by Text message
By Credit or Debit card
With PayPal
By Credit or Debit card (alternative)
Pay by 3 minute Call
All payments are one off. We don't re-bill you.
Your choice:
Silver (lasts 60 days)
Gold (lasts 35 days)
What you get:
See who has looked at your profile.
I`am i reading this wrong? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Cost? £5 for up to 60 days
Pay by Text message
By Credit or Debit card
With PayPal
By Credit or Debit card (alternative)
Pay by 3 minute Call
All payments are one off. We don't re-bill you.
Your choice:
Silver (lasts 60 days)
Gold (lasts 35 days)
What you get:
See who has looked at your profile.
I`am i reading this wrong?"
"See who's looked at your profile" only if they choose not to switch off this function, which they are quite entitled to do. I have chosen to switch mine off as I don't want pestery messages asking why I looked and didn't message. Which part don't you understand? Or do you think you should be automatically entitled to see everyone who has looked at you whether they want to be seen as having viewed your profile regardless of their choices? |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Cost? £5 for up to 60 days
Pay by Text message
By Credit or Debit card
With PayPal
By Credit or Debit card (alternative)
Pay by 3 minute Call
All payments are one off. We don't re-bill you.
Your choice:
Silver (lasts 60 days)
Gold (lasts 35 days)
What you get:
See who has looked at your profile.
I`am i reading this wrong?"
Yep, see who has looked at your profile, except the people that have used the free option of hiding from those lists. Non subscribers can't see the people that aren't hidden so you're still getting extra for subscribing.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cost? £5 for up to 60 days
Pay by Text message
By Credit or Debit card
With PayPal
By Credit or Debit card (alternative)
Pay by 3 minute Call
All payments are one off. We don't re-bill you.
Your choice:
Silver (lasts 60 days)
Gold (lasts 35 days)
What you get:
See who has looked at your profile.
I`am i reading this wrong?
"See who's looked at your profile" only if they choose not to switch off this function, which they are quite entitled to do. I have chosen to switch mine off as I don't want pestery messages asking why I looked and didn't message. Which part don't you understand? Or do you think you should be automatically entitled to see everyone who has looked at you whether they want to be seen as having viewed your profile regardless of their choices?"
If as it states pay £5 and see who looks at your profile I would assume that what it means now if fab where to put "see who has looked at your profile unless they have opted out or chosen to hide this feature"
It is NOT the case I do not understand its paying for something that you are not getting!picky maybe
to be honest most of the rest free stuff not necessarily interested in,but as i said before understand why women in particular like the option of hiding to prevent response from looked profiles.
Hence my comment block those you look at then you would`nt get the mail. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Cost? £5 for up to 60 days
Pay by Text message
By Credit or Debit card
With PayPal
By Credit or Debit card (alternative)
Pay by 3 minute Call
All payments are one off. We don't re-bill you.
Your choice:
Silver (lasts 60 days)
Gold (lasts 35 days)
What you get:
See who has looked at your profile.
I`am i reading this wrong?
"See who's looked at your profile" only if they choose not to switch off this function, which they are quite entitled to do. I have chosen to switch mine off as I don't want pestery messages asking why I looked and didn't message. Which part don't you understand? Or do you think you should be automatically entitled to see everyone who has looked at you whether they want to be seen as having viewed your profile regardless of their choices?
If as it states pay £5 and see who looks at your profile I would assume that what it means now if fab where to put "see who has looked at your profile unless they have opted out or chosen to hide this feature"
It is NOT the case I do not understand its paying for something that you are not getting!picky maybe
to be honest most of the rest free stuff not necessarily interested in,but as i said before understand why women in particular like the option of hiding to prevent response from looked profiles.
Hence my comment block those you look at then you would`nt get the mail."
Or, just accept the features that are and aren't available? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Cost? £5 for up to 60 days
Pay by Text message
By Credit or Debit card
With PayPal
By Credit or Debit card (alternative)
Pay by 3 minute Call
All payments are one off. We don't re-bill you.
Your choice:
Silver (lasts 60 days)
Gold (lasts 35 days)
What you get:
See who has looked at your profile.
I`am i reading this wrong?
"See who's looked at your profile" only if they choose not to switch off this function, which they are quite entitled to do. I have chosen to switch mine off as I don't want pestery messages asking why I looked and didn't message. Which part don't you understand? Or do you think you should be automatically entitled to see everyone who has looked at you whether they want to be seen as having viewed your profile regardless of their choices?
If as it states pay £5 and see who looks at your profile I would assume that what it means now if fab where to put "see who has looked at your profile unless they have opted out or chosen to hide this feature"
It is NOT the case I do not understand its paying for something that you are not getting!picky maybe
to be honest most of the rest free stuff not necessarily interested in,but as i said before understand why women in particular like the option of hiding to prevent response from looked profiles.
Hence my comment block those you look at then you would`nt get the mail.
Or, just accept the features that are and aren't available? "
Nailed it.  |
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