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I have had someone I meet previously (well over 2 years ago) verify me twice so it looks like I've had more meets than I have. Is there anything I can do about this other than his them? |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
Only thing you can do is to only display one of them - although the extra one will still stay on your total summary
Even if you block the profile I think it still shows on your summary.
Does it matter having an extra one? |
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"Only thing you can do is to only display one of them - although the extra one will still stay on your total summary
Even if you block the profile I think it still shows on your summary.
Does it matter having an extra one?"
I don't play with lots of people and it gives the wrong impression, it's not fair |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
Basingstoke |
It does say verified by 12 people, 13 meets? It's obvious by that that you've met 1 of them twice? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing you can do is to only display one of them - although the extra one will still stay on your total summary
Even if you block the profile I think it still shows on your summary.
Does it matter having an extra one?
I don't play with lots of people and it gives the wrong impression, it's not fair"
If it's bothering you too much use the contact button at the bottom of the home screen to ask admin to remove it.
They may do it if you explain what's happend
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
You could just hide your veris and summary. Or hide summary and display a couple of recent ones. |
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"You could just hide your veris and summary. Or hide summary and display a couple of recent ones. "
Makes sense to me no point fretting over them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It gives the wrong impression?
You're on a sex site. If someone judges you for meeting people for sex, the very purpose of you being here, they're misogynists and not worth meeting anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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13 meets in over a year isn't much, if it's bothering you that much just hide your summary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing you can do is to only display one of them - although the extra one will still stay on your total summary
Even if you block the profile I think it still shows on your summary.
Does it matter having an extra one?
I don't play with lots of people and it gives the wrong impression, it's not fair"
really! Are you that tough on yourself? Because no one really cares that you’ve got 13 veris, do you think people may view you as being easy? Don’t worry however many veris you have, people will judge you x 
It’s a swinging site for people to meet others and have sex, if you are that tough on yourself how judgemental are you of others? |
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In 2 years on my old profile I had over 100 meet veris and half of them were social meets. When people judged me I told em how about reading them first.
People will always judge so let em closed minded idiots.
In this day and age it's ridiculous to think women are still slut shaming for indulging in sex.
For men they get called playboys and players but given Pat on the back but women get called sluts, slags, whores and the rest of it. So easiest thing to do is ignore them, block them and be happy doing what you enjoy.
Be happy being a sexually liberated woman. |
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By *odkajemWoman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
If anything it's better cos it makes it look like someone came back for more! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One guy I met twice a few years ago - he verified me both times even though once was enough - he started to get annoyed with fab and deleted his profile. Then a few weeks later created a new one, got veris from his previous meets and verified me again. I wasn't happy about it as I didn't wanna meet him again but he did this a few times so I had to block him.
So my meet summary doesn't reflect the reality as I only met him twice but he wrote 5 veris.
I cannot do much about it, just hide the summary. |
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"One guy I met twice a few years ago - he verified me both times even though once was enough - he started to get annoyed with fab and deleted his profile. Then a few weeks later created a new one, got veris from his previous meets and verified me again. I wasn't happy about it as I didn't wanna meet him again but he did this a few times so I had to block him.
So my meet summary doesn't reflect the reality as I only met him twice but he wrote 5 veris.
I cannot do much about it, just hide the summary."
I've had this many times over. In the end I refused to reverify them till I met them again. Most I never did meet again they only met me to get a veri in the first place. They had no interest till they needed verifications again on a new account.
Used to get guys veri me when I was on chatroom in hopes the nice veri would mean I'd meet them. I never displayed them. Over time they'd delete their accounts too. Only problem is the summary. But I don't care how many I get and multiple verifications from one person is a good thing I don't mean everytime that's overkill but once in a while or when you do something different like a new club adventure or an exceptionally amazing time.
Sometimes i wish we could distinguish verifications easier between social and playmeets but in the end if people can't be bothered to read them and just make assumptions from the summary I figure what difference does it make. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
The only thing you can do is hide your summary |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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PS thread closed as posts being removed for discussing / being abusive about other people |
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