I think it would be a good idea for verification to be confirmed only when both parties have done it. So unless you return the verification, the one which have received remains null and void. Thoughts ? |
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I feel too many accounts are fake even it verifications of meetings.
To resolve this matter a clear face verification to the the site must be approved as genuine and only then is the user allowed to verify other users.
Lots of sad sick people pretending to b e something they are not.
This will put them on a back burner immediately and one last thing.
Those who are shy to begin with should not be allowed to pay as silver or gold members till the above.
To really make this site something special again, all accounts and verifications past three months to reapply to use account with couple etc supply picture and date written on it
Non approved accounts to have ip blocked from mobile and routers.
Watch how this site becomes amazing
That's is the owners aren't interested in the revenue alone
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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago
Blackpool |
Why should members have to reapply after three months? Many people, including myself, have not met for a long time through choice, does that mean we should not be allowed to participate in the site?
As for blocking IP addresses. Have you done any research on just how easy it is to get round that if it were even feasible in the first place?
Admin, or moderators, should not have to spend 24/7 pandering to people's lack of basic common sense in my opinion when it comes to spotting fakes etc. It's something you will never stop as you will find on many much more unsuccessful sites. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Why should members have to reapply after three months? Many people, including myself, have not met for a long time through choice, does that mean we should not be allowed to participate in the site?
As for blocking IP addresses. Have you done any research on just how easy it is to get round that if it were even feasible in the first place?
Admin, or moderators, should not have to spend 24/7 pandering to people's lack of basic common sense in my opinion when it comes to spotting fakes etc. It's something you will never stop as you will find on many much more unsuccessful sites."
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"I think it would be a good idea for verification to be confirmed only when both parties have done it. So unless you return the verification, the one which have received remains null and void. Thoughts ?"
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"Why should members have to reapply after three months? Many people, including myself, have not met for a long time through choice, does that mean we should not be allowed to participate in the site?
Answer:
"Why should fake people be allowed to message willy nilly and then people be made to waste time reporting them?
So I would suggest a forfeit for those who want o take a break".
"Does that mean if you take car insurance out and don't drive your car for 3 months that the insurance company should give you three months back"???
As for blocking IP addresses. Have you done any research on just how easy it is to get round that if it were even feasible in the first place
Answer: "Actually I build websites and know everything about it, vpn servers can be blocked. A backlink only needs a script which I could build in 2 minutes and that's going to protect a website (free)"
Admin, or moderators, should not have to spend 24/7 pandering to people's lack of basic common sense in my opinion when it comes to spotting fakes etc. It's something you will never stop as you will find on many much more unsuccessful sites.
Answer: "When a site is offering all its services for free I'm with you, however when a site is monetised and brings in a valued revenue it has an obligation to protect those they have paid to sponsor the site. So those who are green ticked as genuine and those who are verified from meetings within 3 months should have the moderator in check".
"60,000 monthly users some people like me miss the month here and there for gold membership beciase we get pissed off with those who are fakes or who made an account with someone years ago for a quick fuck and are still here giving it the large as singles".
"60,000 users 10,000 gold memebers
15,000 silver users average monthly nett income to this site is £15,000 minimums and your telling me they can't afford 5 moderators to work 8 hour split shifts and still be on a good number"
When was this site last updated or upgraded????
So yes you should be made to resubmit your genuine every three months to get rid of time wasters if genuine and want to meet nice people without the headache and fools "
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"I feel too many accounts are fake even it verifications of meetings.
To resolve this matter a clear face verification to the the site must be approved as genuine and only then is the user allowed to verify other users.
Lots of sad sick people pretending to b e something they are not.
This will put them on a back burner immediately and one last thing.
Those who are shy to begin with should not be allowed to pay as silver or gold members till the above.
To really make this site something special again, all accounts and verifications past three months to reapply to use account with couple etc supply picture and date written on it
Non approved accounts to have ip blocked from mobile and routers.
Watch how this site becomes amazing
That's is the owners aren't interested in the revenue alone
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I think I should run my profile my way, within the rules obvs, and you should runs your profile your way.
I also think how you run your profile is fuck all to do with me.
The reverse of this is also true. |
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I think u should veri each other by pic when both have meet cas im finding lot profiles have veris and just hide them or friends are vering them to many fake profiles and its spoiling the goods ones to meet on here and its taking them ages to get verified or even strike up a conversation on here |
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"Why should members have to reapply after three months? Many people, including myself, have not met for a long time through choice, does that mean we should not be allowed to participate in the site?
Answer:
"Why should fake people be allowed to message willy nilly and then people be made to waste time reporting them?
So I would suggest a forfeit for those who want o take a break".
"Does that mean if you take car insurance out and don't drive your car for 3 months that the insurance company should give you three months back"???
As for blocking IP addresses. Have you done any research on just how easy it is to get round that if it were even feasible in the first place
Answer: "Actually I build websites and know everything about it, vpn servers can be blocked. A backlink only needs a script which I could build in 2 minutes and that's going to protect a website (free)"
Admin, or moderators, should not have to spend 24/7 pandering to people's lack of basic common sense in my opinion when it comes to spotting fakes etc. It's something you will never stop as you will find on many much more unsuccessful sites.
Answer: "When a site is offering all its services for free I'm with you, however when a site is monetised and brings in a valued revenue it has an obligation to protect those they have paid to sponsor the site. So those who are green ticked as genuine and those who are verified from meetings within 3 months should have the moderator in check".
"60,000 monthly users some people like me miss the month here and there for gold membership beciase we get pissed off with those who are fakes or who made an account with someone years ago for a quick fuck and are still here giving it the large as singles".
"60,000 users 10,000 gold memebers
15,000 silver users average monthly nett income to this site is £15,000 minimums and your telling me they can't afford 5 moderators to work 8 hour split shifts and still be on a good number"
When was this site last updated or upgraded????
So yes you should be made to resubmit your genuine every three months to get rid of time wasters if genuine and want to meet nice people without the headache and fools "
To be fair, if you dont like the way site is run, go and join one of the pay sites. Looks prettier, but just the same amount of fakes and fantasist there. |
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"Why should members have to reapply after three months? Many people, including myself, have not met for a long time through choice, does that mean we should not be allowed to participate in the site?
Answer:
"Why should fake people be allowed to message willy nilly and then people be made to waste time reporting them?
So I would suggest a forfeit for those who want o take a break".
"Does that mean if you take car insurance out and don't drive your car for 3 months that the insurance company should give you three months back"???
As for blocking IP addresses. Have you done any research on just how easy it is to get round that if it were even feasible in the first place
Answer: "Actually I build websites and know everything about it, vpn servers can be blocked. A backlink only needs a script which I could build in 2 minutes and that's going to protect a website (free)"
Admin, or moderators, should not have to spend 24/7 pandering to people's lack of basic common sense in my opinion when it comes to spotting fakes etc. It's something you will never stop as you will find on many much more unsuccessful sites.
Answer: "When a site is offering all its services for free I'm with you, however when a site is monetised and brings in a valued revenue it has an obligation to protect those they have paid to sponsor the site. So those who are green ticked as genuine and those who are verified from meetings within 3 months should have the moderator in check".
"60,000 monthly users some people like me miss the month here and there for gold membership beciase we get pissed off with those who are fakes or who made an account with someone years ago for a quick fuck and are still here giving it the large as singles".
"60,000 users 10,000 gold memebers
15,000 silver users average monthly nett income to this site is £15,000 minimums and your telling me they can't afford 5 moderators to work 8 hour split shifts and still be on a good number"
When was this site last updated or upgraded????
So yes you should be made to resubmit your genuine every three months to get rid of time wasters if genuine and want to meet nice people without the headache and fools "
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"Why should members have to reapply after three months? Many people, including myself, have not met for a long time through choice, does that mean we should not be allowed to participate in the site?
As for blocking IP addresses. Have you done any research on just how easy it is to get round that if it were even feasible in the first place?
Admin, or moderators, should not have to spend 24/7 pandering to people's lack of basic common sense in my opinion when it comes to spotting fakes etc. It's something you will never stop as you will find on many much more unsuccessful sites."
Exactly this. I run my profile how I see fit within the rules. Never had my time wasted as I use my ow common sense to judge if a profile is fake. Total nonsense that I should have to photo verify every meet. What happened to discretion. I trust no one with my face pic or I would have it on show.
Users need to be accountable for how they use the site and what they get out of it.
I pay my supporter pass and am happy with site. Would leave if it became draconian in ensuring I'm genuine. It's meant to be fun and all those added measure would waste my bloody time that's for sure |
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