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Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
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Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X"
Why doesn't one person just message the other and find out compatability ? |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
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Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X"
Would be a great feature to have |
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Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X"
Cracking idea I think. |
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"I'd like to perv at people out of my league in peace  "
No one is out of anyone’s league, we are all perfect in our own pay we just aren’t some people’s preference  never think that anyone is better than you are  |
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"I'd like to perv at people out of my league in peace "
No one is out of anyone's league. No one should ever think anyone is so far above them - and absolutely NO ONE should consider themselves too good. Not fancying someone is only about personal taste, plain and simple.
I've been told I was punching above my weight many times in the real world, something that may be true in purely looks, but it's way more than that. I accept on here some would say it has to be about looks first but sometimes a connection develops that transcends that. It happens on here as well as the vanilla world. Vive la difference! |
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Its poor that people think others are out of their league. I'm not exactly Zac Efron, am i arsed? Hell no! You're here for a good time not a long one, go forth and shag till you can shag no longer!! |
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I use my hotlist to see when people I think are hot post new pictures so I can perv. (not sure if they like that idea, but hey that's fab).
My friends list is for people I chat to regular and have met or will meet.
My 'not' list is called a block list and its full of people who I have no interest in, or are just plain fucking idiots on forums, in chat or both.
and in between there is 99% of fab members |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I also use mine as a not list 
I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !
Nope, not mine
I will take that as a positive then; as long as it lasts !"
My not list is mainly knobheads in the forums..and if they're really bad, they're on my blocklist  |
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"I also use mine as a not list
I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !
Nope, not mine
I will take that as a positive then; as long as it lasts !
My not list is mainly knobheads in the forums..and if they're really bad, they're on my blocklist "
hmm well as yet I am not blocked, I don't think I am a nob head so I think I am safe ! (for now) I would love to know if I was on anyone 'hot' list though. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I also use mine as a not list
I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !
Nope, not mine
I will take that as a positive then; as long as it lasts !
My not list is mainly knobheads in the forums..and if they're really bad, they're on my blocklist
hmm well as yet I am not blocked, I don't think I am a nob head so I think I am safe ! (for now) I would love to know if I was on anyone 'hot' list though."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...My 'not' list is called a block list and its full of people who I have no interest in..."
This. I’m not sure why people are using the hot list as a not list, or how that even works we without a lot of cross referencing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely a good idea OP.
For those using it as a Not list, just block them and move on ffs  "
I'd rather be able to know what some people, local to me, are up to thanks ... some information is better knowing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...My 'not' list is called a block list and its full of people who I have no interest in...
This. I’m not sure why people are using the hot list as a not list, or how that even works we without a lot of cross referencing. "
Rather see their statuses and veris than not know! |
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Hotlist matching is a great idea. It works well on other match/dating sites, so why not on a swinging site?
For those using as a not list, we could have a separate not list, then if the “not” is also a match, you may as well block! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X"
Then every straight man on the site would have every woman hotlisted hoping for a match
(likewise with bi)
No, terrible idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get it. I don't get the point of having a hot list. It's all a bit stalker like. If you like the look of someone why not just message to see if it's mutual? That negates the need for a match. I also don't get not lists. If someone offends you then block them. Why on earth do you need to know what they add to their profile?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get it. I don't get the point of having a hot list. It's all a bit stalker like. If you like the look of someone why not just message to see if it's mutual? That negates the need for a match. I also don't get not lists. If someone offends you then block them. Why on earth do you need to know what they add to their profile?! "
A not list has nothing to do with being offended, it's more about being able to keep an eye on a person who's practices aren't the best lol can't think how to put it politely! |
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"I don't always want to block people, but there may be reasons why some of us use it as a 'not' list. Our choice "
Like everything on fab, each to their own we are all different, and I for one am glad of that (as is everyone else because no one would want to be like me) |
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90% of my hotlist is Notlist!
I'd be mortified, if they thought I actually liked them 
