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"Love the site but more and more bi curious or bisexual are on that's fine but not for me there is a button if you're looking for bisexual but nothing for straight just to help us would be nice to have one so I'm not wasting time out of 100 I look at 80 must be bi help us both out site" You have done well for 24 hours. No hanging and flogging brigade ripping into you.... . Of course quite a few would like to see that option too as all other options are covered...Fairs, fair. | |||
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"What's the point, they will tell you what you want to hear, liars abound on here I'm afraid." yes I agree but for those that are honest it helps rest usually slip up with veris I always follow their back | |||
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"What's the point, they will tell you what you want to hear, liars abound on here I'm afraid. yes I agree but for those that are honest it helps rest usually slip up with veris I always follow their back" We play with straight couples and single guys, but no verifications are given or received, happens a lot hence no guarantee. | |||
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"What's the point, they will tell you what you want to hear, liars abound on here I'm afraid. yes I agree but for those that are honest it helps rest usually slip up with veris I always follow their back We play with straight couples and single guys, but no verifications are given or received, happens a lot hence no guarantee." that's fine for you but still think it will help also if no veris yet theve had meets I generally take it there hiding something anyway and move on | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet." if you're bi or gay that's fine just not for me and seriously bi cannot be straight might play at it for a meet whitch is very sad but will never be classed as straight in my eyes I no most lie but just a thought that way when I hit them they carnt complain ?? | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. if you're bi or gay that's fine just not for me and seriously bi cannot be straight might play at it for a meet whitch is very sad but will never be classed as straight in my eyes I no most lie but just a thought that way when I hit them they carnt complain ??" So how do you know, do you get them to take a polygraph test ? | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. if you're bi or gay that's fine just not for me and seriously bi cannot be straight might play at it for a meet whitch is very sad but will never be classed as straight in my eyes I no most lie but just a thought that way when I hit them they carnt complain ?? So how do you know, do you get them to take a polygraph test ?" no they usually have Kylie minogue hot pants and a Euro vision CD on them ?? | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet." yeah but there still bi will never be straight so not interested in even chatting with it | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. yeah but there still bi will never be straight so not interested in even chatting with it" Your tone is actually fairly homophobic. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. yeah but there still bi will never be straight so not interested in even chatting with it Your tone is actually fairly homophobic." why just because I'm straight and don't want anything to do with bi or gay men o well I'm sure I'll survive | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. yeah but there still bi will never be straight so not interested in even chatting with it Your tone is actually fairly homophobic. why just because I'm straight and don't want anything to do with bi or gay men o well I'm sure I'll survive" You may survive, but won't get any decent meets based on your personality and bigotry. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. yeah but there still bi will never be straight so not interested in even chatting with it Your tone is actually fairly homophobic. why just because I'm straight and don't want anything to do with bi or gay men o well I'm sure I'll survive You may survive, but won't get any decent meets based on your personality and bigotry.please explain my personality and bigotry all I've said is not interested in meeting bi or gay just straight it's a preference" | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. if you're bi or gay that's fine just not for me and seriously bi cannot be straight might play at it for a meet whitch is very sad but will never be classed as straight in my eyes I no most lie but just a thought that way when I hit them they carnt complain ??" Do you mean men in couples? Or you don't want to meet bi women either? | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. if you're bi or gay that's fine just not for me and seriously bi cannot be straight might play at it for a meet whitch is very sad but will never be classed as straight in my eyes I no most lie but just a thought that way when I hit them they carnt complain ?? Do you mean men in couples? Or you don't want to meet bi women either?" not really that bothered but if they have been with a bi or gay man then I wouldn't be interested in them either | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. if you're bi or gay that's fine just not for me and seriously bi cannot be straight might play at it for a meet whitch is very sad but will never be classed as straight in my eyes I no most lie but just a thought that way when I hit them they carnt complain ?? Do you mean men in couples? Or you don't want to meet bi women either? not really that bothered but if they have been with a bi or gay man then I wouldn't be interested in them either" No point having sex with anyone on here then. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. if you're bi or gay that's fine just not for me and seriously bi cannot be straight might play at it for a meet whitch is very sad but will never be classed as straight in my eyes I no most lie but just a thought that way when I hit them they carnt complain ?? Do you mean men in couples? Or you don't want to meet bi women either? not really that bothered but if they have been with a bi or gay man then I wouldn't be interested in them either No point having sex with anyone on here then. " I generally don't nowadays mostly here to chat | |||
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"No offence OP but I do not expect many gay or bi men would fall at your feet, think you have an inflated sense of attractiveness. Anyway you are entitled to your preferences when it comes to sex, political correctness should stay out the door. But you can be polite without being offensive. I am not into many groupings of people but I do not shout it out offensively " no I'm ugly that's for sure but I'm not taking about me or messages that I don't get I'm just asking for a straight section or tick box for straight after all the is one if I'm looking for bi curious fare is fare | |||
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"OP has a right to a preference to and search for straight couples. Just curious what the reasons are behind the preference. I am orally bi and only play in mmf. No interest in meeting guys on their own. Just don't fancy men. " I put preference as a joke for all those that moan about it especially when it comes to colour as for my reason it's just how I am not comfortable with another man around in the room especially if bi yet out in the world quiet happy to sit and chat over a beer coffee probably I just don't understand why a man wants to be with another man and then a woman one or the other yeah | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. if you're bi or gay that's fine just not for me and seriously bi cannot be straight might play at it for a meet whitch is very sad but will never be classed as straight in my eyes I no most lie but just a thought that way when I hit them they carnt complain ??" If you have a hangup about gay and bi men then that's your business. Not having a button for people with hangups is fabs business. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. if you're bi or gay that's fine just not for me and seriously bi cannot be straight might play at it for a meet whitch is very sad but will never be classed as straight in my eyes I no most lie but just a thought that way when I hit them they carnt complain ?? If you have a hangup about gay and bi men then that's your business. Not having a button for people with hangups is fabs business. " yep and I'll let Fab make that decision not you | |||
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"OP has a right to a preference to and search for straight couples. Just curious what the reasons are behind the preference. I am orally bi and only play in mmf. No interest in meeting guys on their own. Just don't fancy men. I put preference as a joke for all those that moan about it especially when it comes to colour as for my reason it's just how I am not comfortable with another man around in the room especially if bi yet out in the world quiet happy to sit and chat over a beer coffee probably I just don't understand why a man wants to be with another man and then a woman one or the other yeah " Why is it any of your business anyway? What do you think is going to happen if you’re in the same room as a bi/gay man...he won’t be able to resist and just pounce on you? Let’s flip this, using your words, why would a woman want to be with another woman and then be with a man, they should chose one or the other...but I’m sure you would have no problem seeing two women together in front of you, or in porn, so you clearly have issues with men being sexual with other men. As it’s already been said, preference is fine but homophobia is not. Sassy | |||
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"No offence OP but I do not expect many gay or bi men would fall at your feet, think you have an inflated sense of attractiveness. Anyway you are entitled to your preferences when it comes to sex, political correctness should stay out the door. But you can be polite without being offensive. I am not into many groupings of people but I do not shout it out offensively no I'm ugly that's for sure but I'm not taking about me or messages that I don't get I'm just asking for a straight section or tick box for straight after all the is one if I'm looking for bi curious fare is fare" Probably a bit of a harsh comment, however, some straight guys are paranoid that gay or bi guys may want their wicked way with them, not the case, we do not hit on straight guys at all, there is no shortage of guys we can hit on, that said I've been with a few supposedly straight guys and my profile probably gets more views from straight guys than anyone else. As for the straight button, I'm sure, just like me most see the word straight on the profile information and move on. | |||
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"I don't care what sexual orientation anyone is. Each to their own. Nobody should judge anyone else on here. We all have our reasons for being here but ladies have so much choice... It just cuts down on the trawling through business quicker. We have a bi button in the search facility do we not? X" yeah that's all I'm saying just cuts out what you don't want save time | |||
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"I don't care what sexual orientation anyone is. Each to their own. Nobody should judge anyone else on here. We all have our reasons for being here but ladies have so much choice... It just cuts down on the trawling through business quicker. We have a bi button in the search facility do we not? X yeah that's all I'm saying just cuts out what you don't want save time" It would save me a lot of time not having to wade through the biggoted narcissists on this site, yet there is no button to filter you out. So I guess we both have the same problem. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet." So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? | |||
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"I don't care what sexual orientation anyone is. Each to their own. Nobody should judge anyone else on here. We all have our reasons for being here but ladies have so much choice... It just cuts down on the trawling through business quicker. We have a bi button in the search facility do we not? X yeah that's all I'm saying just cuts out what you don't want save time It would save me a lot of time not having to wade through the biggoted narcissists on this site, yet there is no button to filter you out. So I guess we both have the same problem. " Who is a bigoted narcissist? People who don't want to fuck you? | |||
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"Oh and you’ve met two bi-curious women " Do you know that there's a difference between bi men and bi women? They're not the same thing. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ?" Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. | |||
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"I don't care what sexual orientation anyone is. Each to their own. Nobody should judge anyone else on here. We all have our reasons for being here but ladies have so much choice... It just cuts down on the trawling through business quicker. We have a bi button in the search facility do we not? X yeah that's all I'm saying just cuts out what you don't want save time It would save me a lot of time not having to wade through the biggoted narcissists on this site, yet there is no button to filter you out. So I guess we both have the same problem. Who is a bigoted narcissist? People who don't want to fuck you?" Bigoted. People who find the existence of people not the same as them intolerable. Narcissistic. Someone who thinks that they are so irresistible that a gay or bi person wouldn't be able to control themselves in their presence. It doesn't apply to me personally. As a couple we only play with other couples, single women and bi men, TV/TS. As much as OP has no interest in people like us, we have no interest in OP. | |||
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"I don't care what sexual orientation anyone is. Each to their own. Nobody should judge anyone else on here. We all have our reasons for being here but ladies have so much choice... It just cuts down on the trawling through business quicker. We have a bi button in the search facility do we not? X yeah that's all I'm saying just cuts out what you don't want save time It would save me a lot of time not having to wade through the biggoted narcissists on this site, yet there is no button to filter you out. So I guess we both have the same problem. Who is a bigoted narcissist? People who don't want to fuck you? Bigoted. People who find the existence of people not the same as them intolerable. Narcissistic. Someone who thinks that they are so irresistible that a gay or bi person wouldn't be able to control themselves in their presence. It doesn't apply to me personally. As a couple we only play with other couples, single women and bi men, TV/TS. As much as OP has no interest in people like us, we have no interest in OP." So why the name calling? | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. " first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it | |||
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"I don't care what sexual orientation anyone is. Each to their own. Nobody should judge anyone else on here. We all have our reasons for being here but ladies have so much choice... It just cuts down on the trawling through business quicker. We have a bi button in the search facility do we not? X yeah that's all I'm saying just cuts out what you don't want save time It would save me a lot of time not having to wade through the biggoted narcissists on this site, yet there is no button to filter you out. So I guess we both have the same problem. Who is a bigoted narcissist? People who don't want to fuck you? Bigoted. People who find the existence of people not the same as them intolerable. Narcissistic. Someone who thinks that they are so irresistible that a gay or bi person wouldn't be able to control themselves in their presence. It doesn't apply to me personally. As a couple we only play with other couples, single women and bi men, TV/TS. As much as OP has no interest in people like us, we have no interest in OP. So why the name calling? " It's not name calling. If a person chooses to to express a view that shows their intolerance then they are going to be thought of as intolerant. If someone expects a site to put a button up just for them then that's going to be seen as self centered. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it" It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is." yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook " I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. " again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one " I wasn't aware that hetrosexualality needed defending. But I'm sure the purist heterosexuals are grateful for your martyrdom. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one I wasn't aware that hetrosexualality needed defending. But I'm sure the purist heterosexuals are grateful for your martyrdom. " no Marty I ain't dieing for anyone | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one I wasn't aware that hetrosexualality needed defending. But I'm sure the purist heterosexuals are grateful for your martyrdom. " no purist here just hetrosexual will do | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one I wasn't aware that hetrosexualality needed defending. But I'm sure the purist heterosexuals are grateful for your martyrdom. no purist here just hetrosexual will do " Hetrosexualality doesn't by definition include an intolerance for bi and gay people. For you perhaps, hetrosexual and homophobic are synonymous. But as a bi couple my OH and I play with a large number of hetrosexual couples who still condsider themselves to be straight despite having had a hetrosexual experience in the presence of bi people. | |||
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"Love the site but more and more bi curious or bisexual are on that's fine but not for me there is a button if you're looking for bisexual but nothing for straight just to help us would be nice to have one so I'm not wasting time out of 100 I look at 80 must be bi help us both out site" So, if I read this right you are asking for a button on the search page so that the search results will only show the men that are straight? Why would a straight man want to look at straight men's profiles? | |||
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"Love the site but more and more bi curious or bisexual are on that's fine but not for me there is a button if you're looking for bisexual but nothing for straight just to help us would be nice to have one so I'm not wasting time out of 100 I look at 80 must be bi help us both out site So, if I read this right you are asking for a button on the search page so that the search results will only show the men that are straight? Why would a straight man want to look at straight men's profiles?" I think he's asking for couples where the male is straight. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one I wasn't aware that hetrosexualality needed defending. But I'm sure the purist heterosexuals are grateful for your martyrdom. no purist here just hetrosexual will do Hetrosexualality doesn't by definition include an intolerance for bi and gay people. For you perhaps, hetrosexual and homophobic are synonymous. But as a bi couple my OH and I play with a large number of hetrosexual couples who still condsider themselves to be straight despite having had a hetrosexual experience in the presence of bi people." and that's good for you but not what I'd want | |||
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"I've met 12 couples in my time. 10 of those the guy has gone on to tell me he is bisexual. Chill out it doesn't matter, be comfortable in your sexuality. " I'm very comfortable thanks I don't have a problem just don't want to meet bi or gay men that's in a couple enjoy | |||
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"Love the site but more and more bi curious or bisexual are on that's fine but not for me there is a button if you're looking for bisexual but nothing for straight just to help us would be nice to have one so I'm not wasting time out of 100 I look at 80 must be bi help us both out site So, if I read this right you are asking for a button on the search page so that the search results will only show the men that are straight? Why would a straight man want to look at straight men's profiles? I think he's asking for couples where the male is straight." correct but keep been called homophobic just because I want meet couples with a bi man involved but hay ho I'll survive | |||
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"Oh and you’ve met two bi-curious women " yes because it's a choice and I choose not to meet couples with a bi man simples | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one I wasn't aware that hetrosexualality needed defending. But I'm sure the purist heterosexuals are grateful for your martyrdom. no purist here just hetrosexual will do Hetrosexualality doesn't by definition include an intolerance for bi and gay people. For you perhaps, hetrosexual and homophobic are synonymous. But as a bi couple my OH and I play with a large number of hetrosexual couples who still condsider themselves to be straight despite having had a hetrosexual experience in the presence of bi people." I don't have a intolerance to bi men just because I want meet them makes me homophobic o well | |||
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"OP has a right to a preference to and search for straight couples. Just curious what the reasons are behind the preference. I am orally bi and only play in mmf. No interest in meeting guys on their own. Just don't fancy men. I put preference as a joke for all those that moan about it especially when it comes to colour as for my reason it's just how I am not comfortable with another man around in the room especially if bi yet out in the world quiet happy to sit and chat over a beer coffee probably I just don't understand why a man wants to be with another man and then a woman one or the other yeah Why is it any of your business anyway? What do you think is going to happen if you’re in the same room as a bi/gay man...he won’t be able to resist and just pounce on you? Let’s flip this, using your words, why would a woman want to be with another woman and then be with a man, they should chose one or the other...but I’m sure you would have no problem seeing two women together in front of you, or in porn, so you clearly have issues with men being sexual with other men. As it’s already been said, preference is fine but homophobia is not. Why am I homophobic just because I don't want to meet them in a sexual way does that mean I'm homophobic if it does then so be it Sassy" | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one I wasn't aware that hetrosexualality needed defending. But I'm sure the purist heterosexuals are grateful for your martyrdom. no purist here just hetrosexual will do Hetrosexualality doesn't by definition include an intolerance for bi and gay people. For you perhaps, hetrosexual and homophobic are synonymous. But as a bi couple my OH and I play with a large number of hetrosexual couples who still condsider themselves to be straight despite having had a hetrosexual experience in the presence of bi people.I don't have a intolerance to bi men just because I want meet them makes me homophobic o well " Well if you are playing with a couple and you're so damned straight then you will only be playing with the female of the couple. Which means the male of the couple could be straight, bi, gay, asexual, a garden gnome.... it really shouldn't make a difference. UNLESS you object to the presence of a non straight male which is homophobic. | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one I wasn't aware that hetrosexualality needed defending. But I'm sure the purist heterosexuals are grateful for your martyrdom. no purist here just hetrosexual will do Hetrosexualality doesn't by definition include an intolerance for bi and gay people. For you perhaps, hetrosexual and homophobic are synonymous. But as a bi couple my OH and I play with a large number of hetrosexual couples who still condsider themselves to be straight despite having had a hetrosexual experience in the presence of bi people.I don't have a intolerance to bi men just because I want meet them makes me homophobic o well Well if you are playing with a couple and you're so damned straight then you will only be playing with the female of the couple. Which means the male of the couple could be straight, bi, gay, asexual, a garden gnome.... it really shouldn't make a difference. UNLESS you object to the presence of a non straight male which is homophobic.i wouldn't meet a couple were the male was gay bi for a sexual meet but I'd certainly go for a drink or meal with them so if I'm homophobic I'm sorry" | |||
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"Perhaps fab acknowledges the fact that bi people can also play straight. Just because you're bi doesn't mean every meet you have has to be a bi meet. So what is playing straight? Isn't being Bi or Straight a mind set. Can a Straight Guy, play Bi ? Well if OP is a straight man and includes other men on his searches then that doesn't make any sense. So therefore OP can only be talking about couples where the man is bi. He says gay too but the filters can exclude MM couples. As a bi male couple we have had more meets where the other male is straight. Most men don't care what the other males sexual history is since he will only be playing with the female of the couple. There is on the rare occasion a narcissistic male who thinks he is so attractive that the bi male won't be able to control himself. Some guys need to get over themselves. Then there are those males who are so homophobic that they can't stand to be in the same room as a man who has played bi. It will be a sad day when fab caters specifically for people who suffer these intolerances. first I don't include men of any kind in my search second I'm just asking because so many I talk to want one but to scared to put it on the forum if you're looking for a bit meet you can search but if you're looking for straight only you have to trawl through all the shit I've got better things to do just makes it quicker yes most bi put straight probably because of embarrassment if a friend or family member seen it 3 if it helps I'm happy to be labeled homophobic at least I no what I am again I'm not taking about me I don't get messages of bi or gay I'm to ugly even for them just asking were here for whatever reason and we are aloud an opinion no matter what others say so if I want to only meet straight people that's my choice nothing or nobody will change my mind I'm glad you meet people I wouldn't say there straight but hay ho each to there own also you said most men are not worried obviously I am still my choice Mr homophobic so be it It's a pity there isn't a button that doesn't filter out people who don't understand what punctuation is.yep then you wouldn't be able to moan at us straight people you can always blok Me either way don't give a fook I didn't start this thread OP. You're the one doing the moaning that bi people waste your precious time. Quite frankly none of the genuinely straight people I know feel the need to broadcast to the world how purely hetrosexual they are. In my experience it's the internally conflicted who feel the need for constant self affirmation. again it's not about me I'm just the spokes man to take the hot of the keyboard warriors but id gladly fly the hetrosexual and burn the rainbow one I wasn't aware that hetrosexualality needed defending. But I'm sure the purist heterosexuals are grateful for your martyrdom. no purist here just hetrosexual will do Hetrosexualality doesn't by definition include an intolerance for bi and gay people. For you perhaps, hetrosexual and homophobic are synonymous. But as a bi couple my OH and I play with a large number of hetrosexual couples who still condsider themselves to be straight despite having had a hetrosexual experience in the presence of bi people.I don't have a intolerance to bi men just because I want meet them makes me homophobic o well Well if you are playing with a couple and you're so damned straight then you will only be playing with the female of the couple. Which means the male of the couple could be straight, bi, gay, asexual, a garden gnome.... it really shouldn't make a difference. UNLESS you object to the presence of a non straight male which is homophobic.i wouldn't meet a couple were the male was gay bi for a sexual meet but I'd certainly go for a drink or meal with them so if I'm homophobic I'm sorry" It's your right to be biphobic. But if fab puts a button up to cater for your intolerance they may as well put one up for every other form of bigotry as well. | |||
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"How is it bigotry to have a version of a button that already exists in one form or another? I think this has been blown way out of proportion." Its not the suggestion of a button that prompted the accusations of bigotry, it was the OP's comments later on. I think punching someone (you had no sexual contact with) because they told you they were bi after they invited you into their company and allowed you to have sex with their female partner, does show bigoted traits. | |||
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"How is it bigotry to have a version of a button that already exists in one form or another? I think this has been blown way out of proportion." It is not the fact that OP does not want to play with gay or bisexual men that is bigoted. It is the fact that he finds bi men so intolerable that he does not wish to play with a woman who has been with a bi man. Can't see how this makes him a bigot. Maybe it's because bi people are fair game. Let's change the subject of discrimination to race and see how the same viewpoint holds up? What if OP was calling for a whites only button because he was a white supremacist and didn't want to have sex with a woman who had only ever slept with white men? I bet then you wouldn't have a problem seeing the bigotry. Hetrosexualality means only having sex with people of the opposite sex not the resentment of the existence of people who aren't hetrosexual. If I do a search I find I am excluded for a number of reasons. Short, bald, white, not hung like a donkey.... do I moan about having my time wasted? No. Why? Because I don't see fab as a mail order catalogue where I punch in my requirements and out comes the perfect fit. OP is saying he wants a pattner who complies with a pureness of sexual partner but isn't willing to invest time into this. There is nothing new about this form of arrogance from fab males. | |||
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"Why so many bi's? (and in time it will become more so) Men generally are desperate and will message hundreds of women hoping for a spark of interest.... now look at the other side, women get hundreds of messages so can be choosy, in essence it's man's fault women think they have platinum vaginas. This also leads them to believe men are dogs.... a lot seem to be though. Ladies you shouldn't think all men are though because that's simply not true. Now couples is where the real issues are, the man thinks he's a king because he has vagina on offer and so he thinks he's a god.... One day he may realise he is just dirt to those men and women interested because they just want to fuck his misses The dis-interest from women is the thing that makes bi so popular, if we (men) are not getting it we will generally look to where we can get attention (humans are social creatures), seems to only be from guys these days, wonder what things will be like in 20 years (I'm not looking forward to seeing) I really am fearful for the future though, men will give up and only go for the easy option, so men will give up on women all together (I've been close), personally I don't seem to be normal, because, I want more than splash and dash but most men offer (to men or women) what most men want haha not all, I for instance want more than just random hookups. I mean there have been times I can't be arsed and turn people down, usually guys if I'm honest though, but, I don't really want MM only action. Technically it's practically impossible to turn women down on here as they have to offer first haha. The funniest thing from your text is you won't go with women who have been with a bi guy, what are you worried about? It's bad enough most women wouldn't look twice at a bi guy, I'm not sure if they are intimidated by it or what. As for a straight button from what you've said you are in the minority seemingly (on this site) and as realistically this is a swingers site and most people will probably act different in different situations doesn't that make sexuality fluid rather than "playing straight" (for clarity, playing straight is no man on man so essentially exactly what you are looking for). I'm not sure this is the site for you especially as you are so judgemental of others choices that don't have to have anything to do with you. What's next a setting to ensure you don't see any male nudity on the site? Time to bring your ideas into the 21st century and let go of your victorian biast towards other people's choices, live and let live, it's not like they are touching you (unless you want them to). " I agree with most of what you are saying however in my opinion men are not becoming bi. The increase of men showing their bisexuality is because it is becoming more and more acceptable for men to be bi. I feel sorry for OP because the day will come where men can play bi openly in a club the same way that women can. What will the homophobes do then? | |||
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" I feel sorry for OP because the day will come where men can play bi openly in a club the same way that women can. What will the homophobes do then?" At that point, the homophobes will probably come out of the closet | |||
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