I'd like to know who, if anyone, had me on their "hotlist". I use mine when I really like a profile often we've never met, it's almost like a "wish list". I guess I'd quite like People who I fancy to know that, and be able to see if it might be worth messaging someone if I'm on their list. |
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I use my hotlist for two purposes - as a hotlist as intended and as a NOTlist! There are some people that I do like to keep an eye on who they've been meeting so I don't go there too. I use the private notes as a reminder. |
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"I'd like to know who, if anyone, had me on their "hotlist". I use mine when I really like a profile often we've never met, it's almost like a "wish list". I guess I'd quite like People who I fancy to know that, and be able to see if it might be worth messaging someone if I'm on their list. "
I use mine to see if people I like and chat to are online
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That's so funny I never thought of a not list! Very good idea. Shame we can't find out if we are on anyone hotlist it would be a cool function of sitesupporter, though now I might wonder if I'm on the not list! |
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"That's so funny I never thought of a not list! Very good idea. Shame we can't find out if we are on anyone hotlist it would be a cool function of sitesupporter, though now I might wonder if I'm on the not list! "
don't you mean ' we'?
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"That's so funny I never thought of a not list! Very good idea. Shame we can't find out if we are on anyone hotlist it would be a cool function of sitesupporter, though now I might wonder if I'm on the not list! "
I never thought a 'not' list was needed, I just block, and I am sure loads of others do; I have been blocked today for fabbing someones picture because I am not what they are looking for; that's cool, its fab and that's what the block button is for ! |
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"That's so funny I never thought of a not list! Very good idea. Shame we can't find out if we are on anyone hotlist it would be a cool function of sitesupporter, though now I might wonder if I'm on the not list!
I never thought a 'not' list was needed, I just block, and I am sure loads of others do; I have been blocked today for fabbing someones picture because I am not what they are looking for; that's cool, its fab and that's what the block button is for !"
As a club, I only block people who I think are fakes. I use the notes section on profiles and my hotlist to remind me about people who may have been super pushy in the club or have been idiots in messages. If I block everyone who sends me an offensive or stupid message, there wouldn't be many people left to view! Lol
I find sometimes that guys send me stupid messages, fluffing their feathers, so to speak but in the club, they are completely different. So I don't want to block them, I just want to remind myself of how they have behaved in messages in case it happens again and I can decide if I want them back in the club.
I also hotlist people who are barred and use my notes. I can keep an eye on their profile then as they often leave negative statuses about the club and slag us off because they've been barred, so I can act on them and report. If I blocked them, I couldn't see this.
I know single females use the hotlist for idiots as they get contacted by so many of them.
I suppose, as a club, I use this site differently to others. |
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"That's so funny I never thought of a not list! Very good idea. Shame we can't find out if we are on anyone hotlist it would be a cool function of sitesupporter, though now I might wonder if I'm on the not list! don't you mean ' we'?"
Yes, it's like the royal "I" instead of the royal "we"! My husband doesn't often log in so it tends to just be me on fab (I do state that on the profile) |
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