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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi. We have only been on this site the laat couple of weeks and although we have met 1 great couple we have been catfished and scammed 4 times now.

What's the process of getting these people banned and letting other people know who these lowlives are so they don't get dupped as well. I know you can report a profile but it's no good if they all of a sudden block you when you have gotten wise to them and they are free to scam other people! Surely we should be able to let others know who they are? Surely this site protects the genuine people rather than the scammers.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can still report them if they block you, same drop down menu is there on the screen saying you are blocked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How did they scam you btw?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The problem with letting others know is that people lie. I've been told that people will report me as fake if I don't meet them. That's come to fairly little, but probably because I did actually meet someone before the first threat (and I met people early on who were prepared to appeal to admin on my behalf). Not everyone will be that lucky.

Talking among friends happens, I'm sure, but naming and shaming isn't allowed for good reason.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And ultimately, as I say on every thread like this, we're all adults and we have to be responsible for our own safety. While the site mitigates some risks, you do have to protect yourself.

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By *litterbabeWoman  over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

In what way scammed?

You shouldn't be giving anybody money or anything else.

Make sure you report it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How were you scammed??

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Catfishing can be avoided by asking for a brief social or a quick cam.

Scamming can be avoided by only communicating on fab and never giving money or signing up elsewhere.

Always report profiles, admin have said they will always take action where there's evidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Well we were talking to a couple and arranged a MMF for Lina with the bloke because the girl was busy but she promised to meet us later on that week. So at at last minute i googled the pics of the girl and it turned out she lived in New Jersey USA so it was basically a fake profile for a just a single bloke. Twat. Could have been nasty. So we need to be careful.

I agree there is the connotation of false accusations but there must be a better way of letting people know of banned accounts or stopping them being created in the first place. This person had veri's from other fake accounts too!

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well we were talking to a couple and arranged a MMF for Lina with the bloke because the girl was busy but she promised to meet us later on that week. So at at last minute i googled the pics of the girl and it turned out she lived in New Jersey USA so it was basically a fake profile for a just a single bloke. Twat. Could have been nasty. So we need to be careful.

I agree there is the connotation of false accusations but there must be a better way of letting people know of banned accounts or stopping them being created in the first place. This person had veri's from other fake accounts too!"

I think you just need to guard yourself here.

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