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Marking read messages as unread
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By *andM3135 OP Couple
over a year ago
cornwall |
Can the site look at removing the function of marking read messages as unread. This feature let's people ghost others and makes it look like they have not read message when in fact they did, and marked it as unread again. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
It can be handy at times though. When you open a message to ready it quickly but haven't got the time to reply properly at that time.You can mark is as unread so it acts as a reminder. |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
"I use this on my couples profile, that way I can read the message, mark as unread until I have spoken to hubby. Stops us getting stroppy messages about ignoring people."
Same here, I'd hate if this feature was removed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely it would be better for fab to remove the read/unread flag from sent items?
If you were to send a letter via royal mail, you don't know if it has been read or just thrown on the fire. We don't keep ringing the recipient asking "have you read it yet?"
Don't be a slave to your sent items. If they reply, they read it. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
It won’t change any outcome however even if they did remove it.
If I couldn’t mark a message unread I’d still just ignore it until It dropped off my inbox if I wasn’t interested in replying.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We mark the message unread untill we know both of us have read it, then we will reply. It's a handy feature but can be frustrating for those that have sent the message."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Removing that feature will just increase the abuse people receive on here. We got abuse just days ago for not replying quick enough. We had not even read the message yet. Great feature and long may it stay |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"Removing that feature will just increase the abuse people receive on here. We got abuse just days ago for not replying quick enough. We had not even read the message yet. Great feature and long may it stay"
Experienced the same. Read message and was actually interested in the meet, so waited till I'd spoken with Mrs N after work, the torrent of abuse we received in the meantime was totally uncalled for, blocked too. Always mark unread in said situation, no abuse since. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Removing that feature will just increase the abuse people receive on here. We got abuse just days ago for not replying quick enough. We had not even read the message yet. Great feature and long may it stay
Experienced the same. Read message and was actually interested in the meet, so waited till I'd spoken with Mrs N after work, the torrent of abuse we received in the meantime was totally uncalled for, blocked too. Always mark unread in said situation, no abuse since. "
We had the exact same with a couple who became abusive because we didn't mail back quick enough. Turns out said couple were well known for this. Wished we knew earlier and saved the hassle |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
"OK, well we stand corrected. Didn't realise so many couples use this feature. "
Not just couples. I use it as well. Guys get stroppy whether you read their messages or not but if you read it and don’t respond some of them send another message! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hate this feature with a passion
Its extremely rude, mever know if they have read it and ignored, read it and waiting for partners response or just ignorant.
Would rather they just delete then there's no guessing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't believe some people have got such an issue with what's on this thread, they feel the need to pm a barrage of abuse and then block you.. think the OP has hit a nerve with people on this lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Removing that feature will just increase the abuse people receive on here. We got abuse just days ago for not replying quick enough. We had not even read the message yet. Great feature and long may it stay
Experienced the same. Read message and was actually interested in the meet, so waited till I'd spoken with Mrs N after work, the torrent of abuse we received in the meantime was totally uncalled for, blocked too. Always mark unread in said situation, no abuse since. "
But then that shows the person in a new light! I got abuse from a guy ages ago for something similar. He'd been all politeness itself prior to this, just showed me what a temper he had when considered himself slighted, a lucky escape for me! |
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