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Social v Sexual Meet Verifications
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Currently there isn’t a distinction between a social veri and a sexual meet. I think it may help people and reduce Verification anxiety if meeting veris could be categorised in this way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The info you would want tends to be in the message left, and the person has the choice of showing or hiding what's said. I don't think it needs to be more diluted than that in my honest opinion...
Not everyone wants to give away details of every meet 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verification anxiety?
Exactly.
What's verification anxiety?
Men who meet men at a group social, who don't want people to think a veri from another bloke means they've caught the ghey. "
Or people with numerous social verifications being put with the promiscuous people, some swingers like to avoid. |
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"Verification anxiety?
Exactly.
What's verification anxiety?
Men who meet men at a group social, who don't want people to think a veri from another bloke means they've caught the ghey.
Or people with numerous social verifications being put with the promiscuous people, some swingers like to avoid."
Thank God I don't have many verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's a social meet Veri it will probably say something like had a great social meet with ?where as a sex meet will probably say something along the lines great fuck will see again ,so what's not distinguishable about that anyone can see the difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would get rid of cam veris...just as they did with phone veris"
why it proves the cam user is who they say they are not 20 stone duggie pretending to be bi Rachael a 20 something size 6 big titted blonde
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"I would get rid of cam veris...just as they did with phone veriswhy it proves the cam user is who they say they are not 20 stone duggie pretending to be bi Rachael a 20 something size 6 big titted blonde"
...but does not prove said person will turn up for a meet...or ever has
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would get rid of cam veris...just as they did with phone veriswhy it proves the cam user is who they say they are not 20 stone duggie pretending to be bi Rachael a 20 something size 6 big titted blonde...but does not prove said person will turn up for a meet...or ever has"
true but there are meet verified people who have failed to turn up to meets but they must be genuine because they've got one veri from months ago,lots of people leave and rejoin under new name and instantly have lots of veris saying met this person on last profile who's to say all those are genuine
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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago
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I think you are missing the point of verifications... verifications are to prove that somebody is who they say they are. Veri’s are not to show you who puts out and who doesn’t. A lot of people like social meets first to see if they have a connection with somebody. And some people just like to get down to it straight away. All depends on what somebody is looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Verification anxiety?"
Yep we get quite a lot of posts on the forum about people getting slagged off for too many veris. If there was a distinction it might happen less. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you are missing the point of verifications... verifications are to prove that somebody is who they say they are. Veri’s are not to show you who puts out and who doesn’t. A lot of people like social meets first to see if they have a connection with somebody. And some people just like to get down to it straight away. All depends on what somebody is looking for. "
That is not necessarily how they are viewed by all site members though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it's a social meet Veri it will probably say something like had a great social meet with ?where as a sex meet will probably say something along the lines great fuck will see again ,so what's not distinguishable about that anyone can see the difference"
It does but many people because of grief they get over verisimilitude only publish the summary |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Verification anxiety?
Exactly.
What's verification anxiety?
Men who meet men at a group social, who don't want people to think a veri from another bloke means they've caught the ghey.
Or people with numerous social verifications being put with the promiscuous people, some swingers like to avoid."
That is where I’m coming from  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The info you would want tends to be in the message left, and the person has the choice of showing or hiding what's said. I don't think it needs to be more diluted than that in my honest opinion...
Not everyone wants to give away details of every meet
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This would make the summary much more effective and enable individuals to choose exactly how much detail they wish to make public |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Verification anxiety?
Yep we get quite a lot of posts on the forum about people getting slagged off for too many veris. If there was a distinction it might happen less.
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It won't. Some people will still think like that. I am still not getting the anxiety though, the people who meet and have lot's of veri's would probably not worry about what other people think anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Verification anxiety?
Yep we get quite a lot of posts on the forum about people getting slagged off for too many veris. If there was a distinction it might happen less.
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It won't. Some people will still think like that. I am still not getting the anxiety though, the people who meet and have lot's of veri's would probably not worry about what other people think anyway"
It is my description of what Ivsee being expressed in the posts by people who are being judged differently to their own perception based on the number of meet veris they have. There is probably a better word for it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They could always hide their veri's if it bothers them or just show their social ones"
True. It's quite a simple change that might be an improvement as well? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verification anxiety?
Yep we get quite a lot of posts on the forum about people getting slagged off for too many veris. If there was a distinction it might happen less."
I constantly get slagged off/abuse for the amount of verifications I have. I'm really not fussed. Those who are bothered by it are not people I'd wish to meet. They still go out of their way to message me with their disapproval though. Some charming ladies even message guys I've verified to announce they won't be meeting them as they've met me. Surreal.
I don't feel the need to justify to anyone why I have so many verifications. And I don't care how many someone else has. I'm more concerned about being safe when I do meet someone socially and again if we have a sexual meet. |
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"If it's a social meet Veri it will probably say something like had a great social meet with ?where as a sex meet will probably say something along the lines great fuck will see again ,so what's not distinguishable about that anyone can see the difference"
My veris are hidden. Have I met 21 different people for sex, socials or a mixture of both?
As I've been on the site less than a year, there might be people who are put off by the amount of verifications I have.
Split it into socials and meets, it might give some people a better picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about clubs or parties though? You can attend a party and end up with 10 or more verifications just from that alone.
And then there's the weirdos who you've never even met who leave you a verification, despite you never meeting them.
Then all those people who are constantly deleting their profiles, returning and leaving you another verification.
On the "Joined" section of profiles, the longest period listed is "over a year ago". Some people may have been on here since Fab started. It's easy to rack up many verifications if you attend clubs. Then people may assume you don't play as most of your verifications are from social meets. You can't really win. People will judge regardless x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Verification anxiety?
Yep we get quite a lot of posts on the forum about people getting slagged off for too many veris. If there was a distinction it might happen less.
I constantly get slagged off/abuse for the amount of verifications I have. I'm really not fussed. Those who are bothered by it are not people I'd wish to meet. They still go out of their way to message me with their disapproval though. Some charming ladies even message guys I've verified to announce they won't be meeting them as they've met me. Surreal.
I don't feel the need to justify to anyone why I have so many verifications. And I don't care how many someone else has. I'm more concerned about being safe when I do meet someone socially and again if we have a sexual meet."
Good on you |
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"What about clubs or parties though? You can attend a party and end up with 10 or more verifications just from that alone.
And then there's the weirdos who you've never even met who leave you a verification, despite you never meeting them.
Then all those people who are constantly deleting their profiles, returning and leaving you another verification.
On the "Joined" section of profiles, the longest period listed is "over a year ago". Some people may have been on here since Fab started. It's easy to rack up many verifications if you attend clubs. Then people may assume you don't play as most of your verifications are from social meets. You can't really win. People will judge regardless x"
We also get messages from people and even saying you're not as scary as I thought.....
If you judge us that we have too many verifications then we wouldn't want your company anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few veris but they're over a course of 6/7 years but get you have met too many or you have done parties etc etc ,my meets average 1 every couple of months if I'm lucky and not all end in bed but people just see what they want and judge you accordingly |
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