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By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago
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Please add check to identified married people.
Please add check to identify if user would meet married ppl.
Add a filter to include or not include married people or ppl that will meet married people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In order to stop people constantly changing their status to get round filters, it would have to be an unchangeable choice just like for age...are you happy for that to be the case? Otherwise a filter is impossible just like it is for smokers or bi men... |
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By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago
St Albans |
"In order to stop people constantly changing their status to get round filters, it would have to be an unchangeable choice just like for age...are you happy for that to be the case? Otherwise a filter is impossible just like it is for smokers or bi men..."
It's a risk, same as location and smokers... Nothing to do there..
But at least it will help looking for girls who will meet married ppl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mostly its easy to spot the married guys, wether they lie or not, only meet during the day and not at wk ends,just delete those and you haven't got many liar's left, simple."
Not necessarily the case with all blokes... I'm.single but I see my son on the weekends so my free weekends are limited. I live in army barracks during the week so can meet day or night time during the week but most woman don't feel like coming into army barracks for a meet so I don't put down can accommodate. Doesn't mean I have a secret to hide. |
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"Please add check to identified married people.
Please add check to identify if user would meet married ppl.
Add a filter to include or not include married people or ppl that will meet married people. "
People will just lie about their marital status so it’s pointless  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In order to stop people constantly changing their status to get round filters, it would have to be an unchangeable choice just like for age...are you happy for that to be the case? Otherwise a filter is impossible just like it is for smokers or bi men..."
If it’s an unchangeable choice like age, how would people get on if they get married or divorced.
Instead of having it unchangeable like the date of birth maybe make it that once it is changed, it can’t be changed again for say 2 weeks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Likewise, the chaps who have straight on profile,, and then log into fabguys and see said person with a good few bloke verifications..
Plenty of liars on this site. Eh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In order to stop people constantly changing their status to get round filters, it would have to be an unchangeable choice just like for age...are you happy for that to be the case? Otherwise a filter is impossible just like it is for smokers or bi men...
If it’s an unchangeable choice like age, how would people get on if they get married or divorced.
Instead of having it unchangeable like the date of birth maybe make it that once it is changed, it can’t be changed again for say 2 weeks. "
exactly my point. In the same way as people give up smoking or sexuality is fluid...give people the option to be able to change it and they will do so to get round filters... |
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By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago
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"In order to stop people constantly changing their status to get round filters, it would have to be an unchangeable choice just like for age...are you happy for that to be the case? Otherwise a filter is impossible just like it is for smokers or bi men...
If it’s an unchangeable choice like age, how would people get on if they get married or divorced.
Instead of having it unchangeable like the date of birth maybe make it that once it is changed, it can’t be changed again for say 2 weeks. "
Great idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ppl will lie about anything...nothing we could do there
At least this will help us the married guys filter the girl that don't mind meeting us to those that detest us. "
No, « people » won’t lie about anything. But people that lie think everyone lies. Ya got me? Like some guys on, let’s say, Fabguys, are also on fab, where they say they’re straight. That sort of person. They lie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mostly its easy to spot the married guys, wether they lie or not, only meet during the day and not at wk ends,just delete those and you haven't got many liar's left, simple."
Interesting that isn't it.
I can't meet evenings or weekends, not because I am married (because I'm not), but because I am a single parent with sole custody.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I clearly state I am on my own with children and can't meet at home that doaenit stop people asking to come to my home so no matter what you put in your profile it is ninty percent of the time ignored, which is frustrating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I clearly state I am on my own with children and can't meet at home that doaenit stop people asking to come to my home so no matter what you put in your profile it is ninty percent of the time ignored, which is frustrating "
What I find rather interesting is that nobody questions or wonders if a woman is married if she can't accommodate or can only meet weekdays but if it's a man 'oh he must be married'
Double standards anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I clearly state I am on my own with children and can't meet at home that doaenit stop people asking to come to my home so no matter what you put in your profile it is ninty percent of the time ignored, which is frustrating
What I find rather interesting is that nobody questions or wonders if a woman is married if she can't accommodate or can only meet weekdays but if it's a man 'oh he must be married'
Double standards anyone?"
Not true I get asked all the time if I am married and some men are not Intrested if they think you are so don't think it is all one sided ... |
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"I agree but a lot of ppl give you so much grieve about being married...
Sometimes even very rude.... "
They do, sometimes they message just to have a pop. However just be honest about it on profile and don’t message anyone who states they won’t meet married guys. As your previous poster said, it’s a swinging site not a dating site so be patient and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In order to stop people constantly changing their status to get round filters, it would have to be an unchangeable choice just like for age...are you happy for that to be the case? Otherwise a filter is impossible just like it is for smokers or bi men...
If it’s an unchangeable choice like age, how would people get on if they get married or divorced.
Instead of having it unchangeable like the date of birth maybe make it that once it is changed, it can’t be changed again for say 2 weeks. "
Is Joan Collins on fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would need to also be clear that some married people are playing with the full support of their spouse.
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And most that say they are are lying, how would fab know or approve of that? |
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"So what if someone is married. It is a swinging site not a dating site!
It matters to the people who don't want to meet cheats, that's why.
Some couples also swing as singles."
totally agree my wife is on other sites  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"So what if someone is married. It is a swinging site not a dating site! correct answer m8 some people forget that "
And a fair few have got together as a result of being on fab. Most probably as a result of the social side of swinging. Personally I can't abite cheats and want nothing to do with them, so yes it does matter to some of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married and live with my girlfriend. Would that require a button?
Also my girlfriend is happy for me to be with other females without her being their.
These buttons or markers or identification tabs could be used or not. That would seem a waste of time. |
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