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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Over a year on the site, unverified, no pics deserves the “Fake Badge of Shame” from fab dont you think? And they should be proud to wear it online...  |
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"Over a year on the site, unverified, no pics deserves the “Fake Badge of Shame” from fab dont you think? And they should be proud to wear it online.
was going to say, nobody verified, or rarely.
But then again we went out for the fun, not the verification
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on here, on and off for the best part of 3 years, and never had a meet.It doesn't make me a fake or a timewaster, just a sad pathetic loser probably! |
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"Over a year on the site, unverified, no pics deserves the “Fake Badge of Shame” from fab dont you think? And they should be proud to wear it online... "
Maybe they don't feel the need to advertise their veries. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over a year on the site, unverified, no pics deserves the “Fake Badge of Shame” from fab dont you think? And they should be proud to wear it online... "
Why do you presume they’re fake ? And why does it seem to wind you up so much? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Over a year on the site, unverified, no pics deserves the “Fake Badge of Shame” from fab dont you think? And they should be proud to wear it online...
Why do you presume they’re fake ? And why does it seem to wind you up so much?"
Because we have been victims before 3 times from couples who arranged a meet on the phone (!!!!!) then decided not to turn up and block us (phone and fab)
I know there are genuine people amongst the unverified, but the likes of what we’ve experienced before, deserve the badge...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over a year on the site, unverified, no pics deserves the “Fake Badge of Shame” from fab dont you think? And they should be proud to wear it online...
Why do you presume they’re fake ? And why does it seem to wind you up so much?
Because we have been victims before 3 times from couples who arranged a meet on the phone (!!!!!) then decided not to turn up and block us (phone and fab)
I know there are genuine people amongst the unverified, but the likes of what we’ve experienced before, deserve the badge...?"
Then that's a lesson learned. Filter out unverified people and/or those without pictures, choose not to interact with them...that way they just can't bother you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are just rude and ignorant if they don't turn up, not fake as such.
The "real" profiles/people are just as timewasters as a profile without veris, they contact you then never responed again. There is alot of fake site generated profiles as well to generate "traffic", the whole point of the host site is to earn money, the busier it is the more chance of someone becoming a site supporter and making some money off them. |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
"They are just rude and ignorant if they don't turn up, not fake as such.
The "real" profiles/people are just as timewasters as a profile without veris, they contact you then never responed again. There is alot of fake site generated profiles as well to generate "traffic", the whole point of the host site is to earn money, the busier it is the more chance of someone becoming a site supporter and making some money off them."
Id disagree about site generated profiles... this is one site where that does not happen. There is no need for the site to create profiles. Its a busy well run site. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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OP. Your idea of a Badge of Shame would not work.
Some people choose not to have their Veris listed. Some don't wish to put up Pics for personal reasons.
As for me, I'd no veris for 18 months, from early 2016-July last year. A): I'd a job in a fairly remote part of Scotland & no car; meets were impossible. B): When I left there, I spent 9 months freelancing across the UK via an agency. Time at each site could be days to a few weeks. Getting to know people or was tough going.
Thus, if we followed your ideology, you'd effectively cast me aside due to no veris simply down to my circumstances.
Hence why the idea is flawed.
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"They are just rude and ignorant if they don't turn up, not fake as such.
The "real" profiles/people are just as timewasters as a profile without veris, they contact you then never responed again. There is alot of fake site generated profiles as well to generate "traffic", the whole point of the host site is to earn money, the busier it is the more chance of someone becoming a site supporter and making some money off them."
Fab doesn't run site generated profiles/bots. If you are referring to profiles that have the same profile text - I am a xx* year old straight* woman* and I'm looking to meet couples*.
*can change , age,gender, sexuality and looking for
That is the generic text for a new profile if they don't change it and write their own profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on here, on and off for the best part of 3 years, and never had a meet.It doesn't make me a fake or a timewaster, just a sad pathetic loser probably!"
Just out of interest, why are you on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on here, on and off for the best part of 3 years, and never had a meet.It doesn't make me a fake or a timewaster, just a sad pathetic loser probably!
Just out of interest, why are you on here?"
Eternally optimistic maybe? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I've been on here, on and off for the best part of 3 years, and never had a meet.It doesn't make me a fake or a timewaster, just a sad pathetic loser probably!
Just out of interest, why are you on here?
Eternally optimistic maybe?"
Enjoying the forums, cam rooms and staying in touch with friends I expect, the same as a lot do, including myself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on here, on and off for the best part of 3 years, and never had a meet.It doesn't make me a fake or a timewaster, just a sad pathetic loser probably!
Just out of interest, why are you on here?
Eternally optimistic maybe?
Enjoying the forums, cam rooms and staying in touch with friends I expect, the same as a lot do, including myself. "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been on here, on and off for the best part of 3 years, and never had a meet.It doesn't make me a fake or a timewaster, just a sad pathetic loser probably!
Just out of interest, why are you on here?
Eternally optimistic maybe?
Enjoying the forums, cam rooms and staying in touch with friends I expect, the same as a lot do, including myself. "
There’s an exciting thing called facebook for that, have you heard of it? Its brilliant and people dont mistake you for someone who might be looking for nsa sexy fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on here, on and off for the best part of 3 years, and never had a meet.It doesn't make me a fake or a timewaster, just a sad pathetic loser probably!
Just out of interest, why are you on here?
Eternally optimistic maybe?
Enjoying the forums, cam rooms and staying in touch with friends I expect, the same as a lot do, including myself.
There’s an exciting thing called facebook for that, have you heard of it? Its brilliant and people dont mistake you for someone who might be looking for nsa sexy fun."
Who said I wasn't looking for sexy fun? I just haven't managed to get any! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I've been on here, on and off for the best part of 3 years, and never had a meet.It doesn't make me a fake or a timewaster, just a sad pathetic loser probably!
Just out of interest, why are you on here?
Eternally optimistic maybe?
Enjoying the forums, cam rooms and staying in touch with friends I expect, the same as a lot do, including myself.
There’s an exciting thing called facebook for that, have you heard of it? Its brilliant and people dont mistake you for someone who might be looking for nsa sexy fun."
A lot of us prefer to keep fab friends separate from our real lives on Facebook and have a good, regular group of people we've met on here we use fab to keep in touch with. We all use fab how we choose to. It's not for you or anybody else to judge how the rest of us use the site. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Over a year on the site, unverified, no pics deserves the “Fake Badge of Shame” from fab dont you think? And they should be proud to wear it online...
Why do you presume they’re fake ? And why does it seem to wind you up so much?
Because we have been victims before 3 times from couples who arranged a meet on the phone (!!!!!) then decided not to turn up and block us (phone and fab)
I know there are genuine people amongst the unverified, but the likes of what we’ve experienced before, deserve the badge...?"
Then as previously suggested, change your vetting process. Effort in = rewards out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Over a year on the site, unverified, no pics deserves the “Fake Badge of Shame” from fab dont you think? And they should be proud to wear it online...
Why do you presume they’re fake ? And why does it seem to wind you up so much?
Because we have been victims before 3 times from couples who arranged a meet on the phone (!!!!!) then decided not to turn up and block us (phone and fab)
I know there are genuine people amongst the unverified, but the likes of what we’ve experienced before, deserve the badge...?"
Why are you arranging to meet such people if you think they are fakers? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Over a year on the site, unverified, no pics deserves the “Fake Badge of Shame” from fab dont you think? And they should be proud to wear it online...
Why do you presume they’re fake ? And why does it seem to wind you up so much?
Because we have been victims before 3 times from couples who arranged a meet on the phone (!!!!!) then decided not to turn up and block us (phone and fab)
I know there are genuine people amongst the unverified, but the likes of what we’ve experienced before, deserve the badge...?
Why are you arranging to meet such people if you think they are fakers?"
Good point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to mix things up a bit. What about Veri collectors? They can be just as annoying. 5 second "Hi there" and boom seeking a veri.
Personaly neither get to me. We either arrange meets or we dont. We are just as happy with the social side and banter.
Also...
There is actually a hidden group on Faceb for fab members. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Just to mix things up a bit. What about Veri collectors? They can be just as annoying. 5 second "Hi there" and boom seeking a veri.
Personaly neither get to me. We either arrange meets or we dont. We are just as happy with the social side and banter.
Also...
There is actually a hidden group on Faceb for fab members. "
And with FB being recently hacked and details stolen I certainly wouldn't join that group. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I haven't met anyone in over a year, not through lack of trying just no one can interest my mind and body.
Just as well I've been here for 10 years and have already been verified, it's not that easy to meet people you know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to mix things up a bit. What about Veri collectors? They can be just as annoying. 5 second "Hi there" and boom seeking a veri.
Personaly neither get to me. We either arrange meets or we dont. We are just as happy with the social side and banter.
Also...
There is actually a hidden group on Faceb for fab members. "
Is that like the kik and whatsapp groups where people bitch about people who don't swing the way they feel they ought to and get away with saying the sort of shit about people that would get them a forum ban? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to mix things up a bit. What about Veri collectors? They can be just as annoying. 5 second "Hi there" and boom seeking a veri.
Personaly neither get to me. We either arrange meets or we dont. We are just as happy with the social side and banter.
Also...
There is actually a hidden group on Faceb for fab members.
Is that like the kik and whatsapp groups where people bitch about people who don't swing the way they feel they ought to and get away with saying the sort of shit about people that would get them a forum ban? "
Do those groups really exist? |
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