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Notification If Someone Adds You To Their Hotlist

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

There was a post just about hotlists and blocks the other day on the Scottish forum and I thought of an interesting idea which is easy to implement on the website.

Why not if someone adds you to their hotlist, it would be nice to receive a message or a section on your profile that tells you how many people have you on their hotlist. I'm not saying, we be informed who, just that we are notified each time and how many in total.

If for the experienced fabswingers, remember people who hid their profile and looked at your site you couldn't tell who they were but you know someone looked that day.

I just think its an interesting extra that is easily implemented

Comments please

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By *ingerrrrWoman  over a year ago

Meath

I prefer it to be anonymous. I use mine sometimes as a hit list of no no’s than a yes yes. I’d hate to think they thought I was interested in meeting them.

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By *orkie321bWoman  over a year ago

Nottingham

Not a great idea.

Many people use their hot list as a not list.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not everyone uses the hotlist for wat your thinking some use it as a not list therefore it would skew the number

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a great idea.

Many people use their hot list as a not list. "

yes lots do this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a great idea.

Many people use their hot list as a not list.

yes lots do this "

We generally use it for iffy profiles and wouldn't want them to know.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World

I mainly use mine as a twat list, so people would mistakenly believe I think them 'hot' if they got a notification from me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I mainly use mine as a twat list, so people would mistakenly believe I think them 'hot' if they got a notification from me."

how about two lists a hot list and a twat list, but when you add them to the twat list it messages them and blocks them at the same time lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Genius, and the message would read as follows...

You’re a twat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not a great idea.

Many people use their hot list as a not list. "

Yep....me too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not a great idea.

Many people use their hot list as a not list. "

No I agree with this and understand. Sure there are ways roundabout it right enough but maybe not feasible in regards to the design of the site.

I use my private notes on profiles in regards to my thinking of them. I use then hotlist as only people who interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I mainly use mine as a twat list, so people would mistakenly believe I think them 'hot' if they got a notification from me.

how about two lists a hot list and a twat list, but when you add them to the twat list it messages them and blocks them at the same time lol "

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By *r. JoystickMan  over a year ago

London

I mean, that's basically what a 'Wink' is...

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By *edangel_2013Woman  over a year ago

southend


"I mainly use mine as a twat list, so people would mistakenly believe I think them 'hot' if they got a notification from me.

how about two lists a hot list and a twat list, but when you add them to the twat list it messages them and blocks them at the same time lol "

I wouldn't want to block them. Usually they entertain me with their leaving status. I play a game of how long they'll still be on the site for after throwing a tantrim in their status.

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By *eah BabyCouple  over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Genius, and the message would read as follows...

You’re a twat

"

This as set me off in fits of giggles... Funny

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lmao I be surprised if I was on a hotlist

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman  over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've more Nots than Hots on my list.

I don't want them thinking I may actually like them

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By *aenMan  over a year ago

Here and There

Isn't the block list the twat list?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lmao I be surprised if I was on a hotlist"

Awww you'd be on my hot list xxx

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By *erkshire7274Couple  over a year ago

Bracknell

We have one on our hot list doubt we will ever meet this gorgeous Irish woman but we do live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If it were anything like the fabbed pics then I'd be a little annoyed every time I get notified that a man has hotlisted me.

I'll tell you what though. It would be nice if you get notified when someone you hotlisted hotlists you too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Genius, and the message would read as follows...

You’re a twat

That would be the one I get lol

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Perhaps there is a case for a "not list" (addition to which would automatically block) as well as a hotlist, where you would automatically receive a message "so-and-so has added you to their hotlist." If you didn't like them you could then transfer to your "not list" saving wasted time all round

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I mean, that's basically what a 'Wink' is..."

No, a wink to me signifies someone too lazy and indifferent to send a message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I mean, that's basically what a 'Wink' is...

No, a wink to me signifies someone too lazy and indifferent to send a message "

I send occasional wink to show I'm interested as less worried about getting no reply from them than from messages

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman  over a year ago

Swansea


"I mainly use mine as a twat list, so people would mistakenly believe I think them 'hot' if they got a notification from me."

Am i missing something here because im seeing lots of "I use it to avoid people" so why not just block them ?

I do actually use mine as a hot/perve list but I'd rather people not know .. Besides we have winks for that nudge nudge kinda thing.

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By *hingy2Woman  over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I mainly use mine as a twat list, so people would mistakenly believe I think them 'hot' if they got a notification from me.

Am i missing something here because im seeing lots of "I use it to avoid people" so why not just block them ?

I do actually use mine as a hot/perve list but I'd rather people not know .. Besides we have winks for that nudge nudge kinda thing. "

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