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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
"Be nice if you could see if you are on someone's hot list, is this doable? "
Not everyone uses their hotlist as a hotlist. A fair few use it as a " even if hell was to freeze over " not list. That could be awkward  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the need for a hotlist button. If you can see whose interested in your then surely it could cut down the time & disappointment of arranging meets. POF have this facility so the privacy advice was incorrect |
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"Be nice if you could see if you are on someone's hot list, is this doable?
Not everyone uses their hotlist as a hotlist. A fair few use it as a " even if hell was to freeze over " not list. That could be awkward "
I have several on mine for that exact reason.
Wouldn't want them thinking I actually liked them! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Can you imagine what would happen if you could see whose Hotlist you were on? All the single guys would go message crazy expecting instant meets with anyone who hotlisted them - and lots of people would stop using the facility completely.
If you like someone enough to have hotlisted them for a genuinely interested in meeting reason then message them plain and simple.  |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
"Yea it would just be demoralising knowing that you aren’t on anyone’s, that could be horrible..... 
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I'm sure you're on someone's with a body like that. Did you find that domme woman ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea it would just be demoralising knowing that you aren’t on anyone’s, that could be horrible.....
I'm sure you're on someone's with a body like that. Did you find that domme woman ? "
I’ve said they’re a myth! Ha ha ha, they don’t exist, only in the minds of the truly filthy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be nice if you could see if you are on someone's hot list, is this doable?
Lol my hotlists are private to me .. some are on there as a ‘not list’
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Saying nothing..... |
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"I dont use my hot list for people we would like to meet. I use it for people im keeping an eye on, generally guys who have been abusive or weird etc."
Just a thought, the block button and private notes should do the same thing and you avoid seeing tools in your feeds.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea it would just be demoralising knowing that you aren’t on anyone’s, that could be horrible.....
I'm sure you're on someone's with a body like that. Did you find that domme woman ?
I’ve said they’re a myth! Ha ha ha, they don’t exist, only in the minds of the truly filthy "
Oh they definitely are not a myth  |
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"I dont use my hot list for people we would like to meet. I use it for people im keeping an eye on, generally guys who have been abusive or weird etc."
I don't understand this use.......why don't you just block these people? |
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"Yea it would just be demoralising knowing that you aren’t on anyone’s, that could be horrible.....
I'm sure you're on someone's with a body like that. Did you find that domme woman ?
I’ve said they’re a myth! Ha ha ha, they don’t exist, only in the minds of the truly filthy
Oh they definitely are not a myth "
They exist alright. Some people just don’t look hard enough or make an effort to get ones interest when they do find one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would be good to have a hot list and a not list
I like this idea!!
Like a cold list? "
Yeah pretty much. Right now I just use the block function, which feels rather harsh, but is efficient |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be nice if you could see if you are on someone's hot list, is this doable? "
what would you do with the information?
We're not in the tiniest bit interested if we're on a hotlist...just in those who have the gumption to make contact... |
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By *oyce69Man
over a year ago
Driffield |
"Be nice if you could see if you are on someone's hot list, is this doable?
Not everyone uses their hotlist as a hotlist. A fair few use it as a " even if hell was to freeze over " not list. That could be awkward "
That put a smile on my face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea it would just be demoralising knowing that you aren’t on anyone’s, that could be horrible.....
I'm sure you're on someone's with a body like that. Did you find that domme woman ?
I’ve said they’re a myth! Ha ha ha, they don’t exist, only in the minds of the truly filthy
Oh they definitely are not a myth
They exist alright. Some people just don’t look hard enough or make an effort to get ones interest when they do find one"
Noted - must try harder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My hot list is like my yes no and keep an eye on list "
We use it for the same reasons..
I agree though it would be good if we could have the option to see who's list we are on.. for those who don't want to see this surely don't have to use it.. |
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Then a new “list” would work as a not for me list, a snooze facility almost where you just don’t see that user for a preset period of time, allowing you to have the hot list public, almost like a wish list.
Also I feel a better timeline facility would be beneficial, so the updates button becomes like a face book timeline allowing you to interact and view friends possibly meet and chat, rather than the glorified classified ads it is now!!!! |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"Then a new “list” would work as a not for me list, a snooze facility almost where you just don’t see that user for a preset period of time, allowing you to have the hot list public, almost like a wish list.
Also I feel a better timeline facility would be beneficial, so the updates button becomes like a face book timeline allowing you to interact and view friends possibly meet and chat, rather than the glorified classified ads it is now!!!!"
We’ve always thought a not list should be added then your hotlist could be just that. What we think though is still keep it private until you are on each others hotlist then you should get a system message saying so, where either party take it after that is up to them.
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"Be nice if you could see if you are on someone's hot list, is this doable? "
Something very similar exists on Fabguys. If somebody adds you to their hotlist and they are already on your's it will only tell you on your hotlist updates stream on the day that they add you.
I guess such a feature would be welcomed by many but not all. |
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By *innMan
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"I do not know why hot lists exist for? What actual purpose do they serve? Either your a friend or not simple as."
Well I just use like it’s suppose to be used - people you interested in meeting - if they post an update it might lead to me messaging them - might not always.
I block people I’m absolutely sure I do not want a meet/chat with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely if people are interesting enough in you to put you on hot list because they like you - they'd message you. But if you're on hot list as a not list... |
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By *atanSnrMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
I've just been speaking with a lady asking about the same thing.
For anyone that wants this feature I'd recommend doing a feature request
https://m.fabswingers.com/contact-us/suggest
The more people requesting it the more traction it will gain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If this was introduced people should be able to make it private (just as with friends). And just because someone is on my hotlist doesn't mean I want to meet them. Tbh if I wanted show interest - there are other ways to do that! |
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