12 months without verifications new or old should be instant removal of profile, or if have no verified pics after 3 months should not be allowed to contact anyone till get verified pics!! too many timewasters on here and even if verified in last 6 months a couple could have split up, and like happened to me when went to meet a couple the wife wasnt there and the guy made up excuses, and then finally admitted they had split up after i refused to play with just him as smelt bullshit with his excuses!!

So there is definatley a need to have some sort of timelimit etc with verifications and totally agree with the OP on this.

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

"12 months without verifications new or old should be instant removal of profile, or if have no verified pics after 3 months should not be allowed to contact anyone till get verified pics!! too many timewasters on here and even if verified in last 6 months a couple could have split up, and like happened to me when went to meet a couple the wife wasnt there and the guy made up excuses, and then finally admitted they had split up after i refused to play with just him as smelt bullshit with his excuses!!

So there is definatley a need to have some sort of timelimit etc with verifications and totally agree with the OP on this. "

So people reaching your "time limits" should just shag anyone to get the verification they need to stay on the site then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But why?

See a profile (or they mail you) that hasnt got a tick or a flag then just move on by.

The site gives you all the tools you need to help out the fakes... think about it, if every geniune and verified profile blocked non verified profiles then in essence, they have dissapeared from view.

This would then encourage those that are not verified to get pic verified or go buy a web cam or go to a social etc.

Just a thought

(Disclaimer: Not every profile that isnt verified will be fake, like wise not every verified profile will be genuine, but its a start towards using your own common sense to determin which ones are)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I was meeting, in four years I never encountered a timewaster: not one! I met single men without verifications etc, their initial message caught my attention.

If people had to produce a driving license, utility bill, three months bank statements doesn't guarantee they'll turn up. Blimey, people book and pay for flights and don't turn up!

Learn to pick "real" profiles. If you're overweight, old and vertically challenged I think it's fair to say the 18 year old Bar Raphael look a like that messages you wanting to fuck you long time is a figment of someone's imagination don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So there is definatley a need to have some sort of timelimit etc with verifications and totally agree with the OP on this. "

Completely disagree!!

Reason, I've been a member here for must be knocking on 3 year, I did have a couples profile which was verified several times, I opened this profile for the forums, now the couples profile is no longer in use I still use the forums, I've not yet had a meet as a single guy 'cos one or more of the following reasons....

a) I'm using the forums only

b) I've not yet been lucky as a single guy

c) I'm too blummin fussy

d) I'm just a perve that checks out pictures and strokes my limp dinkle 'cos I can't get it up.

Point is, yes it's a swing site, but there's more than swinging happens here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People seem to forget there's a social side to swinging, making friends, staying in touch, writing crap on here...

Oddly, its not all about random shagging lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Remove profiles which have been on along time but have no verifications"
you dont have to mail them

so the profiles are not fake are they.

people chose to leave the site an may return

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People seem to forget there's a social side to swinging, making friends, staying in touch, writing crap on here...

Oddly, its not all about random shagging lol"

Blasphemy !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've seen a few profiles with the same picture but different names and locations?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've seen a few profiles with the same picture but different names and locations? "

There may be a explanation for this, e.g. a couple who live apart during the week and who also have single guy/single female profiles for when they play alone.

However, if you are in any doubt about the validity of 'duplicate' pics, report the profiles to Admin, who will investigate.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I think it's been a year since I was last verified, are my views too outdated to participate in the forums?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's been a year since I was last verified, are my views too outdated to participate in the forums?"

Yes.

Bugger off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So there is definatley a need to have some sort of timelimit etc with verifications and totally agree with the OP on this. "

i'm not photo verified but SteveandJ will more than vouch that i am real and larger than life! lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i'm not photo verified but SteveandJ will more than vouch that i am real and larger than life! lol"

Nods..... but wont drop my head down too far... she may rub nuttella on it..... again....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you loved it!

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"12 months without verifications new or old should be instant removal of profile"

Based on verifications displayed? Lets assume I hid all my verifications and only displayed one... from 2008... would you then think I have not met anyone in 3 years and hence should be removed? Even though I have a verification from Sunday I'm about to display?

"or if have no verified pics after 3 months should not be allowed to contact anyone till get verified pics!! "

Customise your search preferences so people without photo verification can't contact you (which is what I do)... but you can't dictate what other people should want: I know one or two people who actually prefer email from unverified contacts.

"too many timewasters on here "

True, but rather than moan, what are you doing about it in terms of how it affects you?

"and even if verified in last 6 months a couple could have split up, and like happened to me when went to meet a couple the wife wasnt there and the guy made up excuses, and then finally admitted they had split up after i refused to play with just him as smelt bullshit with his excuses!!"

So it may have been a couple's profile, but you didn't chat to or see them both before agreeing to meet? Who's fault is that then?

"So there is definatley a need to have some sort of timelimit etc with verifications and totally agree with the OP on this. "

Why time limit? At worst if someone has not logged in for a year or so, then maybe. Other than that life may have got in the way and heaven forbid their priorities change and don't revolve around swinging... simply find yourself someone else more current and active.

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By *pikerubyCouple over a year ago

bournemouth

So there is definatley a need to have some sort of timelimit etc with verifications and totally agree with the OP on this.

Completely disagree!!

a) I'm using the forums only

b) I've not yet been lucky as a single guy

c) I'm too blummin fussy

d) I'm just a perve that checks out pictures and strokes my limp dinkle 'cos I can't get it up.

Point is, yes it's a swing site, but there's more than swinging happens here.

+1 on this!

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