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over a year ago
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Despite making it clear in our profile that we have no interest in larger people, we are often messaged by them. We do not like offending people (particularly around such a touchy subject) - would it not be easier, for example, to allow people to filter out "large/ample"? (appreciate "fabulous" can mean many things). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I think I'm fabulous.... and I'm a size 20..."
That's exactly why we made the reference to "fabulous" - it's used to describe a variety of body sizes/shapes - whereas "large" and "ample" are pretty specific to be fair. |
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"Despite making it clear in our profile that we have no interest in larger people, we are often messaged by them. We do not like offending people (particularly around such a touchy subject) - would it not be easier, for example, to allow people to filter out "large/ample"? (appreciate "fabulous" can mean many things)."
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over a year ago
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It's a very subjective topic. What's large to one may not be to another. I'm a USA size 8. By the fashion industry I'm kinda large. Yet based on height vs weight I'm normal. I guess that's what pics are for. |
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"Well I think I'm fabulous.... and I'm a size 20..."
I think you look fabulous too - and that is the problem with a "size filter" as I would describe Size 20 as just on the wrong side of the edge of my borderline.
Ruling people out by age can also mean you miss out for similar reasons.
Just shows, it takes more than one element to make someone attractive/unattractive. |
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"Despite making it clear in our profile that we have no interest in larger people, we are often messaged by them. We do not like offending people (particularly around such a touchy subject) - would it not be easier, for example, to allow people to filter out "large/ample"? (appreciate "fabulous" can mean many things)."
Say no one over a size 14 etc
And if they message you ignoring that just delete the message. |
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