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A 'no thanks' button.

By *kin Bohner OP Man over a year ago

derby

Ok I accept a non reply should be taken as a not interested but a 'no thanks' button to click for a reply would at least show someone is reading my messages...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok I accept a non reply should be taken as a not interested but a 'no thanks' button to click for a reply would at least show someone is reading my messages... "

we have wink

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

admin have said before they have tried this on other sites, and it didn;t work for whatever reasons.

so it wont be happening according to admin.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you can see if people have read your messages, by going to "sent messages".

If they dont respond, they are simply not interested.

If people are interested you WILL hear back from them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok I accept a non reply should be taken as a not interested but a 'no thanks' button to click for a reply would at least show someone is reading my messages... "

I have every sympathy, mate, but does it really make a difference if the answer is 'read and not interested' versus 'not read and not interested'?

Fab shows both age and location in the title of the inbox message (which may lead people to delete your message unread, if you're not what they're looking for). Also, many Fabbers read mailer's profiles before they read the message .... and they may conclude from your profile that you're not for them.

Don't worry about whether your messages are read or unread... instead, ensure that your profile reflects who you are, and that you only mail the people who you are a good match for - that's the most likely route to success.

Happy swinging!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok I accept a non reply should be taken as a not interested but a 'no thanks' button to click for a reply would at least show someone is reading my messages...

I have every sympathy, mate, but does it really make a difference if the answer is 'read and not interested' versus 'not read and not interested'?

Happy swinging! "

*Nods in agreement*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree that if it is a no, then no question. But I have been told by people in the past that they often log in and delete all messages, knowing they will get another load within minutes / an hour. Again, if thats what they want to do, then fine but I believe (and I am happy to be proved wrong) that when this happens, the message is often left showing as unread rather than deleted which means you dont know if they want to contact you or not and neither do they.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i doubt it will happen

as you will get some replying back to them so what is the point in it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"you can see if people have read your messages, by going to "sent messages".

If they dont respond, they are simply not interested.

If people are interested you WILL hear back from them.

Exactly....Its quite simple really lol

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

People complained on another site if they got an automated message as it wasn't personal enough, so you can't win really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even when you take the time to do a thanks but no thanks reply, some idiot will always come back with " Why? shame etc"

An automated reply would just end up te same.

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Can we have a "use the search function" button too, while we're at it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There already is a no thanks button. Its titled as delete

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can we have a "use the search function" button too, while we're at it?"
erm they got 1

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Can we have a "use the search function" button too, while we're at it?

erm they got 1"

Whooooooooooooosh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok I accept a non reply should be taken as a not interested but a 'no thanks' button to click for a reply would at least show someone is reading my messages...

I have every sympathy, mate, but does it really make a difference if the answer is 'read and not interested' versus 'not read and not interested'?

Happy swinging! "

very well put

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By *heRainManMan over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

"Can we have a "use the search function" button too, while we're at it?

erm they got 1

Whooooooooooooosh"

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By *ustyWoman over a year ago

inverclyde

just told one guy three times that am not interested as out with what age i have stated, why cant a profile be respected for what it has on it and guys to stop messaging when a fem says thanks but no thanks not interested..... surely one should be enough

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By *pikerubyCouple over a year ago

bournemouth

we do try to reply with a no thanks, but sometimes, "sit" on a message, till we've both read it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"we do try to reply with a no thanks, but sometimes, "sit" on a message, till we've both read it"

We do the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"just told one guy three times that am not interested as out with what age i have stated, why cant a profile be respected for what it has on it and guys to stop messaging when a fem says thanks but no thanks not interested..... surely one should be enough

Block button might be a useful tool....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Block button might be a useful tool...."
there is 1

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By *b430Man over a year ago

Tayside

Block button might be a useful tool....

there is 1

I believe they were saying the person should use the block button not asking if there was one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Block button might be a useful tool....

there is 1

I believe they were saying the person should use the block button not asking if there was one!

Correct BB

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