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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can I just point out a real bug bare of mine, is when people do not have the deceny to answer a message you send them. Is there anyway admin could install a tab where a memebr if he/she/they are not interested, instead of writing a msg to the person, just click a tab, and that sends an automated message to the sender saying something like: Thanks for the interest, I/we/ are flattered by your interest, but I/we don't think you are what we are looking for at this time. Thanks again, take care. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Can I just point out a real bug bare of mine, is when people do not have the deceny to answer a message you send them. Is there anyway admin could install a tab where a memebr if he/she/they are not interested, instead of writing a msg to the person, just click a tab, and that sends an automated message to the sender saying something like: Thanks for the interest, I/we/ are flattered by your interest, but I/we don't think you are what we are looking for at this time. Thanks again, take care."
straight from the FAQ right at the bottom of the page.....
There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"Can I just point out a real bug bare of mine, is when people do not have the deceny to answer a message you send them. Is there anyway admin could install a tab where a memebr if he/she/they are not interested, instead of writing a msg to the person, just click a tab, and that sends an automated message to the sender saying something like: Thanks for the interest, I/we/ are flattered by your interest, but I/we don't think you are what we are looking for at this time. Thanks again, take care."
You will only get people then moaning that folk don't have the decency to send a personal message back to them and that they are just getting sent back automated replies!
Is it not just common sense that if someone doesn't answer your message then they are not interested in you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Then there's another issue that if you are polite enough to respond with a thanks but no, you get yet another message back with an ' awwww why? I'm different to the others, please give me a chance', at which point is it polite for ME to stop replying? I do try and reply to all but as a new single fem, which i have been on here 3 times now under various guises, in the first week you get 100's of messages. If someone sends a ' wanna fuck now' type I wont reply, I also dont reply where i get a phone number and call me and im sorry but a timid Hi, how are you isnt enough to make me want to reply either. As said, you're competing against a lot of guys so you have to catch the eye and be a little different. |
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