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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Could this be included in Interests?

That way people can choose preferences either way

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By *atindollTV/TS  over a year ago

edinburgh

Just don't highlight the safe sex option

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Just don't highlight the safe sex option"

Oh right

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't include safe sex as a preference

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Iam an easygoing kinda guy happy with either so let the lady choose, bareback or protected either is ok for me. If I had to make a choice though it would be bareback.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Could this be included in Interests?

That way people can choose preferences either way"

It is on fabguys...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Me to

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By *oluptuousMom.Woman  over a year ago

New Ross


"Just don't highlight the safe sex option"

I always check that on a profile

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By *retty womanWoman  over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"Just don't highlight the safe sex option

I always check that on a profile "

Me too

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By *ice_chocolateMan  over a year ago

Leamington Spa

Safe sex is the way to go, don't forget one night of pleasure and the rest of your life in pain and regret

.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Our profile prefence is safe sex. Our profile insists on safe sex.

We verbally instill safe sex and yet STILL get asked to play Bareback.

Makes you wonder sometimes if people are taken seriously here.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I recently met a woman who had on her profile "no glove, no love" but got very upset when at the vital moment I produce a condom. Fact people, strange as it may seem, many people lie on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Our profile prefence is safe sex. Our profile insists on safe sex.

We verbally instill safe sex and yet STILL get asked to play Bareback.

Makes you wonder sometimes if people are taken seriously here..... "

maybe because you are posting on a thread about bareback

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Bexley


"Safe sex is the way to go, don't forget one night of pleasure and the rest of your life in pain and regret

. "

Too true and for other partners possibly too.

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

There is nothing like bareback but with your regular partner . Other than that you playing with your life . I hate having to stop in the middle to put a condom on but it's both of your life's at stake .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I often wonder how some religious people go about safe sex as in some religions any form of contraception is not allowed including condoms.

Personally I prefer BB but I have no problem with condoms if that's what the lady wants.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Iam an easygoing kinda guy happy with either so let the lady choose, bareback or protected either is ok for me. If I had to make a choice though it would be bareback."

yet u highlight safe sex ffs

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Iam an easygoing kinda guy happy with either so let the lady choose, bareback or protected either is ok for me. If I had to make a choice though it would be bareback.

yet u highlight safe sex ffs"

I guess that's because he's prepared to practice safe sex if that's what his partner wants.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bareback all the way for us cx

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By *ungBlackTopMan  over a year ago

salford

It's on fabguys and not on here? strange why is that?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"It's on fabguys and not on here? strange why is that?"

Too extreme for standard swingers maybe? Or perhaps just keeping the guys on fabguys better informed as to who is into what.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan  over a year ago

LONDON

I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit?"

Why on earth would anyone deliberately try to contract HIV?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit?"

And where did you here that? 1983? X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Been on and off here over last 4 years and majority of guys I've meet didn't have a condom handy and when asked they had to go looking to find one usually tucked away at the back over a cupboard full of rubbish!

I've found fab profiles may say safe sex but few actively practice it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Our profile prefence is safe sex. Our profile insists on safe sex.

We verbally instill safe sex and yet STILL get asked to play Bareback.

Makes you wonder sometimes if people are taken seriously here..... "

What are you doing in this room anyway? Are you on a crusade to wipe the barebackers off the face of earth?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is nothing like bareback but with your regular partner . Other than that you playing with your life . I hate having to stop in the middle to put a condom on but it's both of your life's at stake . "

There is not a single std that is life threatening. Even HIV is not killing you if you are diagnosed early and take your meds right. Educate yourselves ffs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's on fabguys and not on here? strange why is that?

Too extreme for standard swingers maybe? Or perhaps just keeping the guys on fabguys better informed as to who is into what. "

Its only because they just dont care to add it. They maje their money without working why should they start working?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Safe sex is the way to go, don't forget one night of pleasure and the rest of your life in pain and regret

.

Too true and for other partners possibly too. "

Same gere as my previous comment. Educate yourselves and stop giving inaccurate facts ffs. There is none life threatening std today. Just keep your phobias to yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Our profile prefence is safe sex. Our profile insists on safe sex.

We verbally instill safe sex and yet STILL get asked to play Bareback.

Makes you wonder sometimes if people are taken seriously here.....

maybe because you are posting on a thread about bareback "

There are more chances to get hit by a car and die than die from bb sex. EDUCATE YOURSELVES BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Our profile prefence is safe sex. Our profile insists on safe sex.

We verbally instill safe sex and yet STILL get asked to play Bareback.

Makes you wonder sometimes if people are taken seriously here.....

What are you doing in this room anyway? Are you on a crusade to wipe the barebackers off the face of earth?"

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Bexley

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Bexley


"Our profile prefence is safe sex. Our profile insists on safe sex.

We verbally instill safe sex and yet STILL get asked to play Bareback.

Makes you wonder sometimes if people are taken seriously here.....

maybe because you are posting on a thread about bareback

There are more chances to get hit by a car and die than die from bb sex. EDUCATE YOURSELVES BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH"

You may have missed the fact but this is a forum in which people post views and opinions. You may not like them but you have no right to be rude to anyone.

STI's don't have to kill to be a big problem or pose a risk to health. You may not die from HIV/AIDS but years or a lifetime on drugs isn't fun. More people getting run over is cold comfort I'd have thought. There are numerous STD's which pose a threat to health and fertility in one way or another. Yes, these can be contracted in various ways but the riskier the sex the more likely they are.

The fact is that gonorrhea, syphilis and chlamydia are on the increase and becoming drug resistant and that's according to the World Health Organisation who really ought to know. These are serious diseases.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS  over a year ago

Larne


"Could this be included in Interests?

That way people can choose preferences either way"

Ahhh the every other day bare back debate

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By *cotbbtopMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

If I see safe sex in a profile, I tend to move on. This may be unfair as the person may be willing to both bareback and cover up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just respect each others choice BB or Safe.

Enjoy your time together

Have fun or move on.

After all that's what swinging is all about.

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By *htcMan  over a year ago

MK

should add the option, as it makes better sense

people looking for safe sex only

people looking for bareback only

otherwise like most who want bareback have safe sex ticked so pretty much going to cause more issues for people as you dont have any idea if they are clean or not.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman  over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"Iam an easygoing kinda guy happy with either so let the lady choose, bareback or protected either is ok for me. If I had to make a choice though it would be bareback.

yet u highlight safe sex ffs"

Like profiles are filled out and 100% trustworthy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I believe u got to protect yourself and all partners

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

Stds might not kill you but will leave you fairily fucked . Taking Meds for the rest of your life having to go to docs and hospitals etc . I know I have diabetes .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If we are putting in a 'Bareback' interest, can you also put in a 'Preaching' interest as well?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Iam an easygoing kinda guy happy with either so let the lady choose, bareback or protected either is ok for me. If I had to make a choice though it would be bareback."

So if they choose bareback do you check if they have been tested. Just interested

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Bexley

Just wondering how many of those who practice bareback sex with different partners get checked for STI's on a very regular basis and make sure those they have sex with do likewise. If they don't how on earth do they know what they may be carrying?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Could this be included in Interests?

That way people can choose preferences either way

Ahhh the every other day bare back debate "

Actually.. It isn't! If you actually read what i said, i was only asking if bareback should be listed in

Profile interests,

You should actually read and comprehend.. That way, you will be able to base your reply relevant to the context and not opinioned drivel

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Could this be included in Interests?

That way people can choose preferences either way

Ahhh the every other day bare back debate

Actually.. It isn't! If you actually read what i said, i was only asking if bareback should be listed in

Profile interests,

You should actually read and comprehend.. That way, you will be able to base your reply relevant to the context and not opinioned drivel"

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman  over a year ago

East


"If we are putting in a 'Bareback' interest, can you also put in a 'Preaching' interest as well?"

LMAO

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman  over a year ago

East


"Been on and off here over last 4 years and majority of guys I've meet didn't have a condom handy and when asked they had to go looking to find one usually tucked away at the back over a cupboard full of rubbish!

I've found fab profiles may say safe sex but few actively practice it."

Didn't your Mammy not tell you to always have your own condoms? Mine is still giving lectures on practising safe sex 30 years on

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By *ettyboop61Woman  over a year ago

St Neots


"Our profile prefence is safe sex. Our profile insists on safe sex.

We verbally instill safe sex and yet STILL get asked to play Bareback.

Makes you wonder sometimes if people are taken seriously here.....

maybe because you are posting on a thread about bareback

There are more chances to get hit by a car and die than die from bb sex. EDUCATE YOURSELVES BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH

You may have missed the fact but this is a forum in which people post views and opinions. You may not like them but you have no right to be rude to anyone.

STI's don't have to kill to be a big problem or pose a risk to health. You may not die from HIV/AIDS but years or a lifetime on drugs isn't fun. More people getting run over is cold comfort I'd have thought. There are numerous STD's which pose a threat to health and fertility in one way or another. Yes, these can be contracted in various ways but the riskier the sex the more likely they are.

The fact is that gonorrhea, syphilis and chlamydia are on the increase and becoming drug resistant and that's according to the World Health Organisation who really ought to know. These are serious diseases."

(th

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is nothing like bareback but with your regular partner . Other than that you playing with your life . I hate having to stop in the middle to put a condom on but it's both of your life's at stake . "

You can do what I or we do, make putting it on part of the fore play, there is something erotic in a woman rolling on a condom for you ,,,,,, or is it just me

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

The FabSwingers and FabGuys interests lists could do with being brought into alignment. Obviously not all of the options work for both, but several that do are on one site but not the other. There's no watersports option on FabGuys, for example.

I agree with some of the comments above, that listing "safe sex" doesn't automatically mean you won't do bareback too if it's on offer. Personally, I think it's needed on here purely to highlight the barebackers for those who don't want to even risk safer sex with them. There is no safe sex, only safer sex. Low risk activities with low risk partners is the safest way to play.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't include safe sex as a preference"

just because you don't tick a box means you like bareback ?? I never ticked any of my boxes until recently

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit?

Why on earth would anyone deliberately try to contract HIV?!"

Ive not heard of that but there have been cases of people going around and not telling people they have HIV and fucking people to intentially give them HIV

A woman was fone for it a few years ago now

Something like 100 charges of manslaguter or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

http://thoughtcatalog.com/jim-goad/2015/11/hiv-terrorism-13-cases-where-people-deliberately-infected-others/

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By *imetoexplore69Couple  over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Just wondering how many of those who practice bareback sex with different partners get checked for STI's on a very regular basis and make sure those they have sex with do likewise. If they don't how on earth do they know what they may be carrying?"
i take it that guy going down on you In your pics has a condom over his tounge .oral sex is not 100% safe either so if you don't like the thought of bareback there are just as many people who don't like the the thought of you doing oral unprotected...just saying .

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Bexley

No he wasn't. He was a long term regular and exclusive partner for a 3 year period so trusted accordingly. For the record we don't engage in fellatio with other people under any circumstances.

Nothing is 100% safe but some forms of sex (and any form of bodily contact) are far riskier than others and the risk of oral sex of the form we practised is minimal especially when compared with indiscriminate bareback vaginal/anal penetrative sex and various other practices which we would never indulge in.

Of course there are people with other opinions and that's up to them. This place would be very boring if there weren't. Facts are facts however. Just saying...

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By *imetoexplore69Couple  over a year ago

Aberdeen


"No he wasn't. He was a long term regular and exclusive partner for a 3 year period so trusted accordingly. For the record we don't engage in fellatio with other people under any circumstances.

Nothing is 100% safe but some forms of sex (and any form of bodily contact) are far riskier than others and the risk of oral sex of the form we practised is minimal especially when compared with indiscriminate bareback vaginal/anal penetrative sex and various other practices which we would never indulge in.

Of course there are people with other opinions and that's up to them. This place would be very boring if there weren't. Facts are facts however. Just saying...

"

yea to be fair I was just taking the piss a little.thing is atleast with condoms you know the risk is minimal but you say you trusted a regular swinger.to some that may seem equally foolish than bareback itself.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple  over a year ago

Bexley

He wasn't a 'swinger' at all but he was our regular and exclusive partner who was well known to us before we started having fun together.

There's always a scale of risk, even with kissing.

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit?

Why on earth would anyone deliberately try to contract HIV?!

Ive not heard of that but there have been cases of people going around and not telling people they have HIV and fucking people to intentially give them HIV

A woman was fone for it a few years ago now

Something like 100 charges of manslaguter or something like that"

Here's the situation, as I think happens most often.

Person A is HIV+ and knows that they are. They also know that if they volunteer the information to a potential shag, then they're likely to pull out of the whole thing. They're a lot less likely to bareback, if that's what person A is after.

Person B, right here and now, couldn't care less about HIV. They just want to have sex with person A. They don't even ask person A's sexual history before jumping into bed and doing unsafe things with them. Months later, when they test positive, they care. A lot.

Seems like a classic case of joint responsibility. If person A knows they're infectious (you can be HIV and non-infectious on medication) then they really ought to tell person B. Equally, person B should be taking some responsibility for their own sexual health, and shouldn't be doing high risk things with person A without trust and testing. If person B asks and person A lies, then that should be a criminal assault, but if they don't, then person B has to accept some responsibility for becoming infected.

As for why some might deliberately try to get infected: it isn't much fun having to treat everyone's bodily fluids as biohazardous. I find it rather tedious myself. While I don't intend to do it, I can see the twisted appeal of getting it over with, putting up with 3 weeks of flu symptoms (that not everyone gets) and coming out of the other side just popping a few pills every day, and no longer living in fear.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In my opinion and the bottom line for me (but each to their own).

I would never have unsafe sex with a stranger or even a friend for that matter that plays around with multiple partners, most on here clearly.

I value my health and the wellbeing of any person that comes into contact with me too much and it's a sad fact that the risks are just too high. I so wish things were different.

That said it's personal choice and the options should be there for all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This site has horseback riding?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit?

Why on earth would anyone deliberately try to contract HIV?!

Ive not heard of that but there have been cases of people going around and not telling people they have HIV and fucking people to intentially give them HIV

A woman was fone for it a few years ago now

Something like 100 charges of manslaguter or something like that

Here's the situation, as I think happens most often.

Person A is HIV+ and knows that they are. They also know that if they volunteer the information to a potential shag, then they're likely to pull out of the whole thing. They're a lot less likely to bareback, if that's what person A is after.

Person B, right here and now, couldn't care less about HIV. They just want to have sex with person A. They don't even ask person A's sexual history before jumping into bed and doing unsafe things with them. Months later, when they test positive, they care. A lot.

Seems like a classic case of joint responsibility. If person A knows they're infectious (you can be HIV and non-infectious on medication) then they really ought to tell person B. Equally, person B should be taking some responsibility for their own sexual health, and shouldn't be doing high risk things with person A without trust and testing. If person B asks and person A lies, then that should be a criminal assault, but if they don't, then person B has to accept some responsibility for becoming infected.

As for why some might deliberately try to get infected: it isn't much fun having to treat everyone's bodily fluids as biohazardous. I find it rather tedious myself. While I don't intend to do it, I can see the twisted appeal of getting it over with, putting up with 3 weeks of flu symptoms (that not everyone gets) and coming out of the other side just popping a few pills every day, and no longer living in fear."

Ahh yes, I hadn't thought of it from that angle... I'd heard of people deliberately passing it on to others but hadn't considered you don't have to worry about it if you already have it

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By *ricky700Woman  over a year ago

Swansea

Bare-backing is totally irresponsible and mind numbingly stupid in this day and age!

Yet alone on a site,

Of this nature!

Anyone who advocates and practices it, should be kicked off the site, permanently!

We are all directly and indirectly at risk of STD's due to they're irresponsible activities!

Administration,

Really need to step up and stop it!

Or at least try!!

Rather than being seen to condone it,

As a personal choice!

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By *appysunflowerWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Bare-backing is totally irresponsible and mind numbingly stupid in this day and age!

Yet alone on a site,

Of this nature!

Anyone who advocates and practices it, should be kicked off the site, permanently!

We are all directly and indirectly at risk of STD's due to they're irresponsible activities!

Administration,

Really need to step up and stop it!

Or at least try!!

Rather than being seen to condone it,

As a personal choice!

To

"

Have to totally agree with you on this. Are they just totally stupid!!!???

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Bare-backing is totally irresponsible and mind numbingly stupid in this day and age!

Yet alone on a site,

Of this nature!

Anyone who advocates and practices it, should be kicked off the site, permanently!

We are all directly and indirectly at risk of STD's due to they're irresponsible activities!

Administration,

Really need to step up and stop it!

Or at least try!!

Rather than being seen to condone it,

As a personal choice!

"

How are you at risk if you practice safe sex?

I suggest you are more at risk if you make people wary of declaring that they practice bare back sex, you effectively drive it underground and remove the opportunity for all of us to choose whether to meet them or not.

I would much rather people were encouraged to state that they don't use condoms.

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By *ricky700Woman  over a year ago

Swansea

Even a cheeky kiss,

Becomes a serious risk.

And needs a second thought with these individuals,

And all the people they meet... Etc!

The whole domino effect,

Throughout the site!

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By *ricky700Woman  over a year ago

Swansea

What some people lack,

With intelligence!

They obviously make up for, with sheer stupidity hun.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Been on and off here over last 4 years and majority of guys I've meet didn't have a condom handy and when asked they had to go looking to find one usually tucked away at the back over a cupboard full of rubbish!

I've found fab profiles may say safe sex but few actively practice it."

Thats true happened to me over the years as well.

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By *ricky700Woman  over a year ago

Swansea

Always carry your own,

Absolutely no excuses,

That way! ;D

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Our profile prefence is safe sex. Our profile insists on safe sex.

We verbally instill safe sex and yet STILL get asked to play Bareback.

Makes you wonder sometimes if people are taken seriously here..... !-

maybe because you are posting on a thread about bareback

There are more chances to get hit by a car and die than die from bb sex. EDUCATE YOURSELVES BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR MOUTH

You may have missed the fact but this is a forum in which people post views and opinions. You may not like them but you have no right to be rude to anyone.

STI's don't have to kill to be a big problem or pose a risk to health. You may not die from HIV/AIDS but years or a lifetime on drugs isn't fun. More people getting run over is cold comfort I'd have thought. There are numerous STD's which pose a threat to health and fertility in one way or another. Yes, these can be contracted in various ways but the riskier the sex the more likely they are.

The fact is that gonorrhea, syphilis and chlamydia are on the increase and becoming drug resistant and that's according to the World Health Organisation who really ought to know. These are serious diseases."

Took the words right out of my mouth, well said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit?"
wtf.... Are you for real ???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I keep that safe sex box ticked. If I were to go BB I'd have to see recent evidence to show said woman was clean. Ain't a cat in hells chance I'm risking my health and hygeine. I'm not that reckless.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple  over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Bare-backing is totally irresponsible and mind numbingly stupid in this day and age!

Yet alone on a site,

Of this nature!

Anyone who advocates and practices it, should be kicked off the site, permanently!

We are all directly and indirectly at risk of STD's due to they're irresponsible activities!

Administration,

Really need to step up and stop it!

Or at least try!!

Rather than being seen to condone it,

As a personal choice!

"

how could barebackers put you at risk if you practise safe sex.for the amount of people like you who judge barebackers on their sex life you do realise there will be twice as many who judge a woman like yourself for the same reason just by being promiscuous with multiple partners on a sex site does this mean we are barebackers.....No but I do like to observe,not judge and see the bigger picture .

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By *razedcatMan  over a year ago

London / Herts


"I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit? wtf.... Are you for real ??? "

Bugchasing and gifting. It's a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit? wtf.... Are you for real ??? "

I occasionally visit a local gay/bi sauna and yesterday watched two guys in an open area having bareback anal sex.

There are condoms everywhere so no excuse.

Talk about shocked!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Safe sex is the way to go, don't forget one night of pleasure and the rest of your life in pain and regret

.

Too true and for other partners possibly too.

Same gere as my previous comment. Educate yourselves and stop giving inaccurate facts ffs. There is none life threatening std today. Just keep your phobias to yourselves"

Only HIV syphilis to name but 2.......

We are very much into BB fun but are not deluded about the risk and serious health implications

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS  over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"how could barebackers put you at risk if you practise safe sex.for the amount of people like you who judge barebackers on their sex life you do realise there will be twice as many who judge a woman like yourself for the same reason just by being promiscuous with multiple partners on a sex site does this mean we are barebackers.....No but I do like to observe,not judge and see the bigger picture ."

I tend to look at it as a maths problem. There is no 'safe sex', only 'safer sex'. It's all about risk mitigation.

I'll speak of anal sex between men, because that's what I know the figures for:

Chances of an infectious partner passing on HIV by ejaculating inside their partner during bareback anal: 1 in 60 (yes, even with bareback, transmission is far from guaranteed.)

Chances a man who has sex with men is HIV+: 1 in 20. But many who know their status are on medication and non-infectious now, so let's guess 1 in 50.

Chances that a condom, used correctly, won't protect you from HIV: 1 in 50.

So, risk from bareback with a guy whose status is unknown: 1 in 3,000 (60 x 50)

Factor in correctly and consistently used condoms: 1 in 150,000 (60 x 50 x 50)

Still not exactly lottery odds. It's still possible to be really unlucky and beat those 1 in 150,000 odds on the first go. I can kind of get on board with the idea that those who bareback are making things less safe, even for those who act responsibly. Double the number of infectious people, double the risk, even to those who do their best to play safe.

The official 'safe sex' advice is based on disease control within the population. It aims for the most effective means of limiting spread, rather than giving a hoot whether you personally get infected. So while they might just say 'use condoms for anal or vaginal sex and you'll be fine' it's up to you just how safe you want to play.

New HIV infections are on the decline in the 'men who have sex with men' population. They're still on the rise amongst heterosexuals.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Safe sex is the way to go, don't forget one night of pleasure and the rest of your life in pain and regret

.

Too true and for other partners possibly too. "

Safe Sex is always the best way to go from a health and safety prospective.

My problem is Condoms always snap on me and they are so uncomfortably tight. Bareback gives me the best sensation ever.

Note: Before undertaking the eating of pussy and riding bareback one must always do the "Pussy Smell Test" (PST). .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe that in the gay community there are a few people that deliberately engage in bareback sex with the intention of contracting HIV. Should we include this as well, or assume it's possibly implicit?

Why on earth would anyone deliberately try to contract HIV?!"

Here, Here, I second that emotion sexy lady. What alot of Cod Wallops I hear the uneducated one above speak.

News Flash, they have stopped building tall structures in the U.K. and all the fast trains have stopped running. . .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Safe sex is the way to go, don't forget one night of pleasure and the rest of your life in pain and regret

.

Too true and for other partners possibly too.

Safe Sex is always the best way to go from a health and safety prospective.

My problem is Condoms always snap on me and they are so uncomfortably tight. Bareback gives me the best sensation ever.

Note: Before undertaking the eating of pussy and riding bareback one must always do the "Pussy Smell Test" (PST). . "

get bigger condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Safe sex is the way to go, don't forget one night of pleasure and the rest of your life in pain and regret

. "

I bet you also have a condom on when you masturbate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Safe sex is the way to go, don't forget one night of pleasure and the rest of your life in pain and regret

.

Too true and for other partners possibly too.

Same gere as my previous comment. Educate yourselves and stop giving inaccurate facts ffs. There is none life threatening std today. Just keep your phobias to yourselves

Only HIV syphilis to name but 2.......

We are very much into BB fun but are not deluded about the risk and serious health implications "

HIV is now a chronic disease not a terminal illness and a patient on meds will not die from the virus because it will not escalate to AIDS.

Syphilis was life threatening in the early 60’s and is extremely rare today. Fully treatable.

There are no others to name.

Education vs Phobia

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