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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
yes, ive opened up a part two, because i dont think this request should go away.
i think it makes good business sense and i have sent the link to part one, directly to admin. if i hear anything back i shall let you know at once.
i have been overwhelmed by the support for this shown here and i hope it continues to gather more names and more positive comments.
so this is the original request....
while this is ultimately a swinger site the bridging of the gap between BDSM and swinging is happeneing and while extremist against BDSM are present, it would be nice to have a BDSM support subforum, for us who bridge both scenes to share info and experiences without resorting to the lounge, where those with no interest, troll the threads..
it worked for the politics forum and it would be nice not to have to direct them off site for the support and education, some of us would like to impart.
please think about it FAB. x
please stick to FAB rules when commenting here, thankyou xx |
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Makes sense. Big thumbs up for this from me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be nice if more people knew what BDSM S&M and rollplay are, before ticking boxes. 
 because half of em on here don't know what I'm saying in my profile and I think the other half don't read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great idea x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Listen fab... do as Daddy says and let us have a BDSM forum... you know it makes sense |
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Suzy, we support you because your such a nice chick! Good luck! Come on admin, open up a forum for the nice people! Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely think it would be a massive plus to the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes please! |
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"yes, ive opened up a part two, because i dont think this request should go away.
i think it makes good business sense and i have sent the link to part one, directly to admin. if i hear anything back i shall let you know at once.
i have been overwhelmed by the support for this shown here and i hope it continues to gather more names and more positive comments.
so this is the original request....
while this is ultimately a swinger site the bridging of the gap between BDSM and swinging is happeneing and while extremist against BDSM are present, it would be nice to have a BDSM support subforum, for us who bridge both scenes to share info and experiences without resorting to the lounge, where those with no interest, troll the threads..
it worked for the politics forum and it would be nice not to have to direct them off site for the support and education, some of us would like to impart.
please think about it FAB. x
please stick to FAB rules when commenting here, thankyou xx"
We still agree, whole heartedly. Did admin reply to the last thread that was clearly full up, at all?
Just a reply with reasons would be nice. I think they can see it has more than enough support. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like a great idea to me |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
This sounds a useful addition to the site. |
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By *andeCouple
over a year ago
Bognor area |
Come on fabs - pleeeeeaaassseeee
And if any Dommes near by lookng for fem sub...... |
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By *ushIronMan
over a year ago
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OP, Love your sentiment, encourage by your bravado.
I am willing to wholeheartedly agree somewhat.
However, if , and only if we (meaning, Like-minded and interested parties) could get a B/D, D/s, as well as a S&M section into the interest area would be an Excellent start to gaining further understanding of the government of the site. It would also stop the flight of person/s from the site, to seek solace elsewhere, forming a bridged community.
I thank you for bringing this subject up, and to the forefront of 'ALL' our minds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes please. Definitely required imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be nice if more people knew what BDSM S&M and rollplay are, before ticking boxes.
because half of em on here don't know what I'm saying in my profile and I think the other half don't read. "
No one can read your profile its hidden so thats a non starter. |
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We'd support your ideas too
S&E |
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"yes, ive opened up a part two, because i dont think this request should go away.
i think it makes good business sense and i have sent the link to part one, directly to admin. if i hear anything back i shall let you know at once.
i have been overwhelmed by the support for this shown here and i hope it continues to gather more names and
more positive comments.
so this is the original request....
while this is ultimately a swinger site the bridging of the gap between BDSM and swinging is happeneing and while extremist against BDSM are present, it would be nice to have a BDSM support subforum, for us who bridge both scenes to share info and experiences without resorting to the lounge, where those with no interest, troll the threads..
it worked for the politics forum and it would be nice not to have to direct them off site for the support and education, some of us would like to impart.
please think about it FAB. x
please stick to FAB rules when commenting here, thankyou xx"
Yes, to everything she just said...
Met my partner on Fab, stumbled into BDSM ... Got it, live it... Couldn't possibly swing with anyone' who's not into it... |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"yes, ive opened up a part two, because i dont think this request should go away.
i think it makes good business sense and i have sent the link to part one, directly to admin. if i hear anything back i shall let you know at once.
i have been overwhelmed by the support for this shown here and i hope it continues to gather more names and more positive comments.
so this is the original request....
while this is ultimately a swinger site the bridging of the gap between BDSM and swinging is happeneing and while extremist against BDSM are present, it would be nice to have a BDSM support subforum, for us who bridge both scenes to share info and experiences without resorting to the lounge, where those with no interest, troll the threads..
it worked for the politics forum and it would be nice not to have to direct them off site for the support and education, some of us would like to impart.
please think about it FAB. x
please stick to FAB rules when commenting here, thankyou xx
We still agree, whole heartedly. Did admin reply to the last thread that was clearly full up, at all?
Just a reply with reasons would be nice. I think they can see it has more than enough support. "
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hello people, no i haven't heard anything publicly or privately, if i had , i would share it.x i sent the link to the first full thread,via the contact link to admin direct. with a synopsis of what we were asking for.nada. but im not interested in focusing on that here, just asking for more support..
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thank you once again, everyone, who is adding their comments..
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it really shows me and i hope fab, the amount of people who are in this cross over group and i love that, its so popular, with so many xx
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By *imandlinCouple
over a year ago
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This is a great idea..... let's hope it happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am in x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Count us in x |
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yes please its something that's really needed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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still got my full support on this Suzy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This would be a brilliant idea. We'd love to have a chat about our new toys and stuff like that.. its a big old yes from us xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are newbies too this and BDSM but we would love that...totally not to steal ideas  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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S&M
Sausage & Mash ?
BD Blooming Marvellous
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would so be up for this most clubs which are primarily swingers clubs have playspaces/dungeons primarily for bdsm and kink and some even have kink events these people know and identify their market and run an inclusion service for us swingers with a taste for the exotic that comes under the bdsm umbrella. Come on now fab it's an option to display on our profiles so please also run an equal playing field like clubs do and allow us a bdsm forum/sub forum/section however it's described. It's good business sense to run an inclusion policy with a safe discussion area |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
bumpity bump x |
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Fab we want this! Fab we need this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very true, it does make a lot of sense, let's face it almost all the swinging clubs also do fetish and kink too. But the gap is being closed more from swingers with an open appetite that kinksters who can be - well, surely you've met some at some time - anally retarded?
Don't expect Fab to jump on ANY changes yet . . if their sensible their waiting until they see what the "Amendments" to the "Digital Economy Bill" will have as an effect upon the industry in the Spring.  |
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Do admin not bother replying to the membership on this site?
I'm really not understanding why all these user requesting this forum arn't being answered.
Actually wondering what I lay my supporters fee for... |
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"OP, Love your sentiment, encourage by your bravado.
I am willing to wholeheartedly agree somewhat.
However, if , and only if we (meaning, Like-minded and interested parties) could get a B/D, D/s, as well as a S&M section into the interest area would be an Excellent start to gaining further understanding of the government of the site. It would also stop the flight of person/s from the site, to seek solace elsewhere, forming a bridged community.
I thank you for bringing this subject up, and to the forefront of 'ALL' our minds."
Whole heartedly agree with this. |
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"OP, Love your sentiment, encourage by your bravado.
I am willing to wholeheartedly agree somewhat.
However, if , and only if we (meaning, Like-minded and interested parties) could get a B/D, D/s, as well as a S&M section into the interest area would be an Excellent start to gaining further understanding of the government of the site. It would also stop the flight of person/s from the site, to seek solace elsewhere, forming a bridged community.
I thank you for bringing this subject up, and to the forefront of 'ALL' our minds.
Whole heartedly agree with this."
Oh Yes Please!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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got my vote xx |
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Yes please to this fantastic suggestion- |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another yes please here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes from me too |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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absolutely nothing from admin on this so far, it would be respectful if they are waiting for law amendments, or for, or against the idea, to have some feedback.
being ignored by a site you support, is disappointing.
however, please continue your support, i shall be sending another message to Admin with the thread links, shortly x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still in support of this, don't understand why admin wouldn't be either!
Ruby |
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"absolutely nothing from admin on this so far, it would be respectful if they are waiting for law amendments, or for, or against the idea, to have some feedback.
being ignored by a site you support, is disappointing.
however, please continue your support, i shall be sending another message to Admin with the thread links, shortly x
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I'll confess I've given a fair bit of money to this site since we've been supporters over the last 6 years and it is really irritating me that Admin don't seem arsed to even acknowledge something that a lot of members are keen to see happen. Deciding not to implement it is one thing, ignoring paying supporters is something else entirely. Just plain rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just starting out in the joys bdsm so would look forward to it !! |
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"absolutely nothing from admin on this so far, it would be respectful if they are waiting for law amendments, or for, or against the idea, to have some feedback.
being ignored by a site you support, is disappointing.
however, please continue your support, i shall be sending another message to Admin with the thread links, shortly x
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from the faq page.. anyway why not just join a bdsm site ??
You don't respond to any of our mails.
We do this for fun and get hundreds of mails a day so we can't respond personally to questions about the site or your account. We recommend if you have a problem or can't figure out how something works, you post to the site help forum. If we responded to everything that people sent us, we'd spend all our time (and more!) doing that and not improving/running/fixing the site. Or, we'd have to employ customer service goons to read and respond to questions from a minority of users at everyone's expense and we'd not be able to do as much as we can for so little cost to you. We do read all mail you send and encourage feedback. If you have reported a problem with the site we will fix it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Suzy, we support you because your such a nice chick! Good luck! Come on admin, open up a forum for the nice people! Xxx"
Daddy's are always right unless your baby girl becomes BRATTY !!!
Definitely support this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"absolutely nothing from admin on this so far, it would be respectful if they are waiting for law amendments, or for, or against the idea, to have some feedback.
being ignored by a site you support, is disappointing.
however, please continue your support, i shall be sending another message to Admin with the thread links, shortly x
from the faq page.. anyway why not just join a bdsm site ??
You don't respond to any of our mails.
We do this for fun and get hundreds of mails a day so we can't respond personally to questions about the site or your account. We recommend if you have a problem or can't figure out how something works, you post to the site help forum. If we responded to everything that people sent us, we'd spend all our time (and more!) doing that and not improving/running/fixing the site. Or, we'd have to employ customer service goons to read and respond to questions from a minority of users at everyone's expense and we'd not be able to do as much as we can for so little cost to you. We do read all mail you send and encourage feedback. If you have reported a problem with the site we will fix it."
Reads like a kick to the privates (which some bdsm people would enjoy). |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"absolutely nothing from admin on this so far, it would be respectful if they are waiting for law amendments, or for, or against the idea, to have some feedback.
being ignored by a site you support, is disappointing.
however, please continue your support, i shall be sending another message to Admin with the thread links, shortly x
from the faq page.. anyway why not just join a bdsm site ??
You don't respond to any of our mails.
We do this for fun and get hundreds of mails a day so we can't respond personally to questions about the site or your account. We recommend if you have a problem or can't figure out how something works, you post to the site help forum. If we responded to everything that people sent us, we'd spend all our time (and more!) doing that and not improving/running/fixing the site. Or, we'd have to employ customer service goons to read and respond to questions from a minority of users at everyone's expense and we'd not be able to do as much as we can for so little cost to you. We do read all mail you send and encourage feedback. If you have reported a problem with the site we will fix it."
thankyou for this comment smnd for your information i am on a bdsm site, however its uk and usa mixed, does not run on a profile based platform and is not that user friendly. plus i like sex with my kink, so prefer swingers club scene and dungeons to do it in, with the mix of other people joining in.
i could start up a group on the bdsm site, its true, however, id like to support here as its uk based and would like specific feedback before considering taking other action.
kink is booming and the crossover is growing and its good business sense membership wise. no one wants to direct anyone to another site, for what i see as a simple request..maybe its not such a simple request, however id like to hear that from admin themselves.x |
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How about meeting say every Thursday night in the UK forum for chat,
and use the site supporters chatroom for face to face chat..at least then you would not have some many wanking men. ( just a compromise) |
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"How about meeting say every Thursday night in the UK forum for chat,
and use the site supporters chatroom for face to face chat..at least then you would not have some many wanking men. ( just a compromise) "
Is there a reason why there couldn't be a seperate forum on here for the topic?
Like we have ti discuss politics?
Doesn't this thread demonstrate that enough people would like and support that? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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In the last three weeks alone I and other mods have removed 17 threads that contained subjects that are not allowed on the forum but were described as BDSM related.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes, ive opened up a part two, because i dont think this request should go away.
i think it makes good business sense and i have sent the link to part one, directly to admin. if i hear anything back i shall let you know at once.
i have been overwhelmed by the support for this shown here and i hope it continues to gather more names and more positive comments.
so this is the original request....
while this is ultimately a swinger site the bridging of the gap between BDSM and swinging is happeneing and while extremist against BDSM are present, it would be nice to have a BDSM support subforum, for us who bridge both scenes to share info and experiences without resorting to the lounge, where those with no interest, troll the threads..
it worked for the politics forum and it would be nice not to have to direct them off site for the support and education, some of us would like to impart.
please think about it FAB. x
please stick to FAB rules when commenting here, thankyou xx"
If you want a "support" forum then why don't you post under support and advice?
If you put BDSM into every thread title then it's easily searchable too.
I'm no expert but isn't the site limited by law as to the sort of images and discussions it can host? I think certain more fetishy key words might also be filtered automatically which might make kinky chat more difficult. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I'm no expert but isn't the site limited by law as to the sort of images and discussions it can host? ."
Yes |
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"In the last three weeks alone I and other mods have removed 17 threads that contained subjects that are not allowed on the forum but were described as BDSM related.
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Thanks you, a valid reason. I don't really understand why the laws applicable to this site are different to others but heyho clearly it's a no. |
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Is there a link to explain what is and isn't permissable? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"In the last three weeks alone I and other mods have removed 17 threads that contained subjects that are not allowed on the forum but were described as BDSM related.
Thanks you, a valid reason. I don't really understand why the laws applicable to this site are different to others but heyho clearly it's a no."
I can't decide whether it is a no or not, I was just saying that a lot of the subjects wouldn't be allowed on the forum anyway.The reason for that is because of the laws ( and are being added to again this year ) that were set not long ago plus advice Admin have had from their lawyers.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Is there a link to explain what is and isn't permissable? "
https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules |
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"In the last three weeks alone I and other mods have removed 17 threads that contained subjects that are not allowed on the forum but were described as BDSM related.
Thanks you, a valid reason. I don't really understand why the laws applicable to this site are different to others but heyho clearly it's a no.
I can't decide whether it is a no or not, I was just saying that a lot of the subjects wouldn't be allowed on the forum anyway.The reason for that is because of the laws ( and are being added to again this year ) that were set not long ago plus advice Admin have had from their lawyers.
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Having reread those rules I'd be interested to see where those 17 threads broke them?
I don't actually see anything there that would be a problem for the discussion of bdsm. Unless you want to take the general opinion that consensual spanking or flogging for example is abuse. Then obviously that's going to rule out a whole host of stuff. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Having reread those rules I'd be interested to see where those 17 threads broke them?
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To be fair, how do you know what they were?
Also to be honest I am not wanting to get into the discussion of why people want a sub forum or why they think they should have one , I was just saying that some things that come under the BDSM umbrella isn't allowed on the site anyway. |
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Having reread those rules I'd be interested to see where those 17 threads broke them?
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To be fair, how do you know what they were?
Also to be honest I am not wanting to get into the discussion of why people want a sub forum or why they think they should have one , I was just saying that some things that come under the BDSM umbrella isn't allowed on the site anyway."
I don't that's why I said I'd be interested to know... |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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havn't read all of the blurb on whats allowed in the way of the laws so I can't answer that.
But I can say as one of the forum mods that the threads were removed as they broke this sites rules that Admin have set |
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Just want to show my support for this. |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" havn't read all of the blurb on whats allowed in the way of the laws so I can't answer that.
But I can say as one of the forum mods that the threads were removed as they broke this sites rules that Admin have set "
To be fair to this - or any other adult themed web-site - nobody yet knows how the ramifications of the combination of "The Snoopers Charter" (on statute books since end of last year) added to the revised Sexual Offences (on statute books since late 2014) will be brought into one probable savage and restrictive censorship when the Digital Economy Bill and it's amendments get Royal Approval and thus go onto the Statute Books in the early Spring.
Until that day I would not be too harsh at all on ANY adult web-site wherever they are based if they would rather wait and see what happens next.
But . . but . .
The answer you have given on behalf of this web-site is a little too . . wide spread, a little too much of an excuse. Let's be VERY clear even the most restrictive of censorship is NOT going to make "BDSM" - or other effected fetishes - illegal to put on-line in a sensible manner . . and all the OP is asking for is a dedicated place for that to be provided within this web-site.
After all, when either the present financial problems or the Government blocking access to web access to their Canadian servers mean that the VERY popular fetish site that starts with the letter as yours but has over 5.5 MILLION members can no longer be used by British citizens . . there will be huge numbers seeking a new home.
Keeping these fetishists clean would be easier if ALL BDSM/SM/CP topics are restricted to one Group/Forum thread . . . and think of the potential new paying members too.
Ask Admin to think it over please? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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" havn't read all of the blurb on whats allowed in the way of the laws so I can't answer that.
But I can say as one of the forum mods that the threads were removed as they broke this sites rules that Admin have set
To be fair to this - or any other adult themed web-site - nobody yet knows how the ramifications of the combination of "The Snoopers Charter" (on statute books since end of last year) added to the revised Sexual Offences (on statute books since late 2014) will be brought into one probable savage and restrictive censorship when the Digital Economy Bill and it's amendments get Royal Approval and thus go onto the Statute Books in the early Spring.
Until that day I would not be too harsh at all on ANY adult web-site wherever they are based if they would rather wait and see what happens next.
But . . but . .
The answer you have given on behalf of this web-site is a little too . . wide spread, a little too much of an excuse. Let's be VERY clear even the most restrictive of censorship is NOT going to make "BDSM" - or other effected fetishes - illegal to put on-line in a sensible manner . . and all the OP is asking for is a dedicated place for that to be provided within this web-site.
After all, when either the present financial problems or the Government blocking access to web access to their Canadian servers mean that the VERY popular fetish site that starts with the letter as yours but has over 5.5 MILLION members can no longer be used by British citizens . . there will be huge numbers seeking a new home.
Keeping these fetishists clean would be easier if ALL BDSM/SM/CP topics are restricted to one Group/Forum thread . . . and think of the potential new paying members too.
Ask Admin to think it over please?"
The thread has already asked them to.
They read every suggestion on the forum. If they are going to implement any they will let us all know.
PS there are no "excuses" on any of my posts. I will repeat, I was letting people know that threads have been removed because of the rules set by Admin. All of the threads had a BDSM theme and wouldn't be allowed on the forum anyway.
Disclaimer. I am not answering for Admin on the subject of a new forum nor saying whether it will happen or not.I was commenting on what is allowed on the site right this minute.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes please Admin ??
It would allow this site to expand and crossover into BDSM on a lighter note that some fear to join another well known site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes please Admin ??
It would allow this site to expand and crossover into BDSM on a lighter note that some fear to join another well known site. "
We'd love to get into and know more about some of the antics involved I'd BDSM. So this would be great! Also if any couples or so single ladies into this want to start to help now please get in touch! |
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over a year ago
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"Yes please Admin ??
It would allow this site to expand and crossover into BDSM on a lighter note that some fear to join another well known site. "
I joined that 'well known site' but just couldn't get to grips with it. I've done much better on here. A support forum on here would be fantastic |
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I can't use the aforementioned bdsm site. Unusable on my phone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" . . .
The thread has already asked them to.
They read every suggestion on the forum. If they are going to implement any they will let us all know.
PS there are no "excuses" on any of my posts. I will repeat, I was letting people know that threads have been removed because of the rules set by Admin. All of the threads had a BDSM theme and wouldn't be allowed on the forum anyway.
Disclaimer. I am not answering for Admin on the subject of a new forum nor saying whether it will happen or not.I was commenting on what is allowed on the site right this minute.
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@Rugby does MFM . . . Apologies if our words were seen as a personal complaint or criticism, they were in NO WAY that. We, and others, know you have a difficult balancing act to do as a Moderator and you do so fairly.
Our word "excuse" was more of a comment about the high probability that this web-site's owners are simply taking an umbrella view or shot-gun response to valid and honest comments made by site members. The natural trepidation in making ANY comment on what this web-site has to do in order to withstand just about the worst sexual censorship that British citizens may be forced to fall in line with seems to have created a "say nothing" attitude in the vast majority of adult web-sites.
By fair the greater proportion of Fab users haven't even heard of this coming storm and thus continue in a blinkered manner . . but they would also be the first to bleat like stuck pigs if, one day, they found they couldn't sign-in to Fab . . true? 
Yet, it DOES make great sense for the site owners to consider a trial project for a BDSM flavoured Group/Forum and enough is known about the forthcoming laws to say now what to ban. So . . it is feasible to try.
. . . and, as they say, better the Devil you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't use the aforementioned bdsm site. Unusable on my phone "
The "aforementioned site" has this as a regular issue, I believe it is because it is listed as "porn" so widely that phone companies will filter out access.
Sometimes you may simply need to ensure that your phone is "unlocked" to use/view "adult content".
Equally the "aforementioned site" is presently a house of cards built upon sand. Their fault too! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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" . . .
The thread has already asked them to.
They read every suggestion on the forum. If they are going to implement any they will let us all know.
PS there are no "excuses" on any of my posts. I will repeat, I was letting people know that threads have been removed because of the rules set by Admin. All of the threads had a BDSM theme and wouldn't be allowed on the forum anyway.
Disclaimer. I am not answering for Admin on the subject of a new forum nor saying whether it will happen or not.I was commenting on what is allowed on the site right this minute.
@Rugby does MFM . . . Apologies if our words were seen as a personal complaint or criticism, they were in NO WAY that.
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I didn't take it as one I just wanted to clarify what I was responding too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there any where to purely meet Sub/Dommes? I find it extremely difficult!! |
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"Is there any where to purely meet Sub/Dommes? I find it extremely difficult!!"
Try fet nights at clubs in your local area |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on the other site as well, who are also having trouble with the probable new laws. Lots of groups and discussions were wiped off recently and they are hoping to stay under the radar.
Would appreciate a forum on here for BDSM as it's part of our kink and would be better to find likeminded people. So fully support this request. |
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Count us in, and we'll overdue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely something that's needed for those who want to explore beyond swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey all here to show my support, hope everyone is well with enough traction and interest we can keep a thread going and hopefully achieve your goal too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"S&M
Sausage & Mash ?
BD Blooming Marvellous
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UNLOS not surprised really
Still keeping fingers crossed for this Suzy. Full support from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally support this thread for a Bdsm Forum. |
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"S&M
Sausage & Mash ?
BD Blooming Marvellous
UNLOS not surprised really
Still keeping fingers crossed for this Suzy. Full support from me "
Who's gone Unlos, admin?! |
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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago
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Very interested in being part of this. |
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By *oneDoeWoman
over a year ago
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Completely support you on this!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put his balls in that vice.... or ... yes from us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whats BDSM ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I support this request for a separate forum on BDSM too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats BDSM ???? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would certainly find this a welcome addition to the site and would keep us coming back even more.
We are on another site but its no where near as easy to navigate around as this one, so be nice to have it all in one place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes please x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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count us in too, definitely -
mandy and ian xxx |
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By *ybMan
over a year ago
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A very good idea and gets my support
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big thumbs up from us |
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We are tagging in to say we agree with OP xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep sounds like a great idea x |
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By *ushIronMan
over a year ago
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Hope this happens in our Lifetime ....., Adddddmiiiiiiiinn
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Where for art thou  |
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yes would be good as long as it relates to free meets as this site is just becoming a sex for sale site but yes great idear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great idea but will never be allowed on fab sadly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Adding our support. Let's be honest, with the 50 shades phenomenon, more people than ever are interested in trying BDSM. Would be nice to be able to discuss it without breaking any rules. |
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It would be a great idea and much needed by so many. I do hope fab agrees. |
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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago
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Massive thumbs up from us! If the box is there to tick then a forum should be available to discuss, we love it and can't do kinkless anymore come on FAB |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Count us in and behind you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a kink/bdsm forum would be a great addition to the forums |
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YES! This is such a good idea! I've recently started to explore BDSM and really wanting to meet people that have the same interests.
Tried electro for the first time the other week... WOW |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm we shall keep an eye on this. While we are also elsewhere we do love other avenues to explore our twisted desires
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Here here count me in even though I'm new to BDSM but really want to try my darkside out . It's one of my biggest fantasies. |
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That is very interesting topic about setting a BDSM forum. But I have just sent a enquiry to the site owners for setting up a specific chat room for BDSM members.
I was in general chat room yesterday and I asked the chatters who would like a specific chat room for BDSM. I got quite a response with a lot of thumbs up. |
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I'm very much in favour of this... |
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Unfortunately many swingers just swing, and many BDSM'ers seem to view the sex as a separate issue. For us, and apparently a few more here too (thank you op for highlighting it) sex and BDSM go hand in hand. Pain, and my submission to Sir is a huge turn on for me, and for Him as Dom.
So here we are talking about it - who wants to play? |
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"That is very interesting topic about setting a BDSM forum. But I have just sent a enquiry to the site owners for setting up a specific chat room for BDSM members.
I was in general chat room yesterday and I asked the chatters who would like a specific chat room for BDSM. I got quite a response with a lot of thumbs up."
We would definitely support and be part of that.
Have you had a response from the site yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in! Would love to make some more local kink friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it happening.
Are we getting a Fet or BDSM room.
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I'd fully support this too, would be great to group somw us more fetsishy members together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes please. We love talking to others who understand us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shame fab owners have never provided a formal response to a popular idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shame fab owners have never provided a formal response to a popular idea."
Got to agree with this. Is this forum not moderated by the owners running the site? |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"Shame fab owners have never provided a formal response to a popular idea.
Got to agree with this. Is this forum not moderated by the owners running the site?"
yeah they read stuff and change things based on that.
it's not a popular idea, that's the reality. take a look around the forums as they are now and take a look at when this topic was started, BDSM isn't a popular subject on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree it would be a great idea. Would be awesome to be able to chat to people who share similar interests rather than talk to some of the posers who dont even like the idea of spanking
~Mia |
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"Shame fab owners have never provided a formal response to a popular idea.
Got to agree with this. Is this forum not moderated by the owners running the site?
yeah they read stuff and change things based on that.
it's not a popular idea, that's the reality. take a look around the forums as they are now and take a look at when this topic was started, BDSM isn't a popular subject on fab."
Surely this thread in itself proves that there is a need for it. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"Shame fab owners have never provided a formal response to a popular idea.
Got to agree with this. Is this forum not moderated by the owners running the site?
yeah they read stuff and change things based on that.
it's not a popular idea, that's the reality. take a look around the forums as they are now and take a look at when this topic was started, BDSM isn't a popular subject on fab.
Surely this thread in itself proves that there is a need for it. "
there's a want for it.
if the forums had loads of BDSM topics in it then i'm sure site owners would consider creating a forum specifically for that, but this isn't happening and hasn't happened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would definitely love to see a proper BDSM forum page.
Most people freak when you say anything about this.
Hopefully owners of fab will sort something out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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. if it happens it would be great addition to site |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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im afraid we arent going to get a formal response from the site, they will let this run and run without comment because they dont want it..(my conclusion) i am elsewhere with same name anyway and if someone starts up one, i shall probably join it..cant say, i didnt ask though
happy kinky swinging to you all xx
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"im afraid we arent going to get a formal response from the site, they will let this run and run without comment because they dont want it..(my conclusion) i am elsewhere with same name anyway and if someone starts up one, i shall probably join it..cant say, i didnt ask though
happy kinky swinging to you all xx
suzy xx"
Thanks for trying tho! |
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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago
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"im afraid we arent going to get a formal response from the site, they will let this run and run without comment because they dont want it..(my conclusion) i am elsewhere with same name anyway and if someone starts up one, i shall probably join it..cant say, i didnt ask though
happy kinky swinging to you all xx
suzy xx"
Thank you Suzy for trying. |
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I want this soooooo much. Would really improve the site, don't know how to go about petitioning for this, but I would sign it in a heartbeat. |
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By *uzy444 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I want this soooooo much. Would really improve the site, don't know how to go about petitioning for this, but I would sign it in a heartbeat."
this is the petition its 2 threads long, but they arent interested x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep! The more the merrier! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I am going to shut this as I am forever taking posts off about other sites. Can people please remember you can't do this.
To the OP, Admin read every suggestion, if they are going to roll anything out they will start a thread letting us all know. |
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