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By *j_mark OP Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod Totteridge/Whetstone |
We're looking at making improvements to the mailbox and messaging.
Please post ideas/feedback in this thread 
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Seperate inbox for friends/non friends.
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When you open a profile and see you have messaged them or they messaged you in the past it would be great to be able to click the message symbol and read the messages that you've sent/received. |
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By *hloversCouple
over a year ago
Merseyside & Isle of Man |
We would simply like to see a bigger inbox as even with the best possible management of the existing inbox we still have valuable messages unavoidably "dropping off the bottom"
We have regular parties which involve a lot of personal messaging as we only invite our friends or people we'd like to get to know better. Simply deleting a message after we've read it isn't really an option for us as we like to keep a thread going over several days or weeks even with any particular couple as they often contain a lot of information regarding arrangements which is useful to both us and them. This applies to our private meets too. It would also be useful to us if there was a group message facility so we could send the same message (e.g.party invite) out to many couples at once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could allow videos to be posted & sent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could allow videos to be posted & sent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have seperate mail boxes for site supporters n non supporters have little or no access to that which others pay for 2 tier system it seems to be but cud get more supporters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A friends mailbox "
good idea |
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By *ifted guyMan
over a year ago
North side of tyne |
I think it will be beneficial if the person you have sent a msg to before get some kind of flag up to notify them that you have msged them again
This especially applies to msging women as I've found that your reply gets lost in there inbox as they get 100s of msgs resulting in them doing a mass delete
The same goes to friends list too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Need to put more of a filter on what kind of people u want to hide ur profile from |
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By *ill2k82Man
over a year ago
Carmarthen |
Able to send pictures directly from your phone or computer instead of from your pictures on your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A flag to say you have messaged before especially as friends |
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Give people a time limit to upload a photo if there profile is blank or they get deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make mine fuller  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When so many accounts ain't Photo Verified but yet allowed to try deceive genuine people looking to make new yet yet time wasters always spoil this site.
We believe if your not photo verified you shouldn't be able to msg people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just like others said, a friends inbox |
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By *fitmanMan
over a year ago
London |
A notification noise for new incoming msgs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delete all unread ? Please |
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A reply and delete option, so you can reply to the message and delete their message in one go, will help keep inboxes tidy, or reply and archive, so their message isn't lost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you open a profile and see you have messaged them or they messaged you in the past it would be great to be able to click the message symbol and read the messages that you've sent/received. "
This would be great, sometimes you just lose where you are in a conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Defo a friends/hotlist mailbox.
A link to the latest message through the profile would be absolutely ideal. |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
Loughborough |
A bigger inbox.
A way to filter your inbox (tickboxes so you can turn on/off whether mails are from couples/men/women etc
Threaded emails. That way if you're having back/forth with someone they aren't taking up the first half of your inbox.
Group messages. If you're arranging a meet with a group of people your only option is whatsapp/kik
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
Be good to access all your mail till you delete it instead of it dropping off the bottom into the abis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Delete all unread ? Please "
Oh this works fine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take the subject bit of make it easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would simply like to see a bigger inbox as even with the best possible management of the existing inbox we still have valuable messages unavoidably "dropping off the bottom"
We have regular parties which involve a lot of personal messaging as we only invite our friends or people we'd like to get to know better. Simply deleting a message after we've read it isn't really an option for us as we like to keep a thread going over several days or weeks even with any particular couple as they often contain a lot of information regarding arrangements which is useful to both us and them. This applies to our private meets too. It would also be useful to us if there was a group message facility so we could send the same message (e.g.party invite) out to many couples at once."
I totally agree with you Julie it would make it much easier |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
We have all filters for non verified, not site supporters, no public pics on profile set to block.
Yet we still receive loads of messages from people. How do people get around these filters. It's so annoying.
We would like to see a more rigorous system, that completely stops these messages getting through. Thanks xxxx Suzi |
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Can message accumulate rather than spread all over the inbox page and take all the space
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A friend's or hotlist filter would be good. Separate inboxes may not be necessary.
But threaded messages similar to SMS or WhatsApp would save a lot of inbox space rather than the new message arriving at the top with older messages further down needing to be deleted. |
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A friends inbox.
An icon on the message before you open it to say if they have mailed you before and if you answered.
To have my own version of a polite thanks but no thanks rejection message saved so at the touch of a button that message is sent and their message is deleted.
Not sure this is entirely relevent to mailbox, but the ability to reset message filters. This is one of the main reasons I don't reply with a no thanks, they can mail me again after I reapply filters, if I could mail them with a no thanks and tick a box to filter them out again, that would be helpful. |
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"I think it will be beneficial if the person you have sent a msg to before get some kind of flag up to notify them that you have msged them again
This especially applies to msging women as I've found that your reply gets lost in there inbox as they get 100s of msgs resulting in them doing a mass delete
The same goes to friends list too "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A mass send option also agree with the friends inbox idea also a auto profile delete if not met anyone in a certain time limit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Consider grouping messages by thread rather than seeing all of a thread separately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An app for the site would be nice |
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Ability to sort by date/time received so not newer messages appear first as older messages drop off the page.
Messages to be under profile name rather than subjects so all messages from that member appear in one continuous thread within the mailbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A no thanks/not my type massage, saves time to tell them i aint interested |
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A group message feature would also be great. Would come in handy when having a few members attending a meet. |
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A bulk delete and not interested button so people know if they've been deleted cos not interested or just overwhelmed and worth trying again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Filter or sort by user/message string/date would be very useful for those whose inbox overflow so you can find older messages much easier without having to delete newer ones to retrieve |
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Email trial so can see all previous conversations rather than separate message for each message. |
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This is not really related to inbox but still interwoven
The rate at which fake profiles message you is abnormally ok the increase,
Guys who somehow got verified, creates a couple profile and start acting as a couple, there should be some improvement of picture verification and also people verifications |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree. New members have to verify they re pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is not really related to inbox but still interwoven
The rate at which fake profiles message you is abnormally ok the increase,
Guys who somehow got verified, creates a couple profile and start acting as a couple, there should be some improvement of picture verification and also people verifications "
Admin don't seem to be bothered with fake photos. There one guy who puts his face on women's bodies and says hes a TV lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be great if we could link conversations to the profile of the people we have them with. If there was a link on a profile that took you straight to messages you have sent, and received, from that person it would make life a lot easier . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ensure the current mailbox features work first. Blocked single guys yet always get messages? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No messages allowed twice. I cannot begin to explain how annoying it is when a man messages you up to 4 times a day. Despite the big message saying 'YOU HAVE ALREADY MESSAGED THIS PERSON BEFORE AND THEY HAVE NOT REPLIED'.
Yeah, even fab says take the hint. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"When you open a profile and see you have messaged them or they messaged you in the past it would be great to be able to click the message symbol and read the messages that you've sent/received.
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Please...x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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leave it how it is why change it |
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U could du people on ur hot list and friends a different colour even different colours for women men couples etc |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
an ability to send group messages could be helpful for those who run parties and meet and greets |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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"Take the subject bit of make it easy"
I hadn't realised that the difficulty in thinking of a subject line, prevented messaging.
Definitely the ability to recall previous mails, even the subject and first line. Agreed that most are barely a line anyway on here, so won't take up much server space |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More message filters:
Option to stop people sending short messages on the first time they mail! (Hi, how are you)? (Message too short warning)
Or optional spam folder for short messages for people who don't make much effort.
Stop people sending messages if pics are not attached for first time messaging. |
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"No messages allowed twice. I cannot begin to explain how annoying it is when a man messages you up to 4 times a day. Despite the big message saying 'YOU HAVE ALREADY MESSAGED THIS PERSON BEFORE AND THEY HAVE NOT REPLIED'.
Yeah, even fab says take the hint. "
Totally agree with plus two seperate inboxes for friends & non friends would be good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Message string should be saved by profile rather than message title then if you saved a message you could read the whole string |
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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago
Suffolk |
"A friends mailbox "
Do this if you do nothing else |
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The ability to "mailshot" a large number of people with one message, ideal for those planning a party, social or (in our case) weekend event.
I know this could be used to spam the site, so perhaps limit it to those who are verified, or perhaps get them to register with admin before having the ability. There would need to be the facility to "tag" those on a list (in the forums maybe, or a secondary "friends" list) so you don't end up sending to those who have changed their minds after initially registering for the event.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friends and hot list mailbox and also one click buttons with standard replies. Eg. Thank you for your email but I am not interested so please do not message me again. or busy at the moment but will reply later or Not interested as you do not match my profile.....etc etc... |
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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago
Suffolk |
When looking at a profile - click on the last message sent icon to takes you to that message if it still exists in your sent/ incoming mailbox |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you open a profile and see you have messaged them or they messaged you in the past it would be great to be able to click the message symbol and read the messages that you've sent/received. |
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Definitely collapsed threads
Bigger/better retention of messages
Link from profiles to message threads or a mail box search |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A no thanks/not my type massage, saves time to tell them i aint interested"
Yup. With the ability to tailor the "No thanks" type text and auto-deleting the received message (with the option to block, as well). |
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By *DF430Man
over a year ago
Cardiff (Bay) |
A not interested button or no thanks auto reply function. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with the friends/non friends idea |
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A full view of conversations, even if you've deleted the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't allow people who aren't photo verified to send messages |
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Apply a filter system, so you can choose to see all, friends only, couple only, new sender etc.
Also group messages together (threads), so that the same one sender only appears once and will not fill the inbox.
Maybe add a group messaging system too.
Pre-written and custom options for message headlines.
One click user pre-typed replies. E.g 'I am sorry but you are not my type'.
And add a: hide message/user in both mailbox and searches as an alternative to block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Instant messages would be a faster way of communicating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A thread of conversation with the person rather than separate emails, chat rather than inbox.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Give people a time limit to upload a photo if there profile is blank or they get deleted."
Whats that got to do with mailbox improvements ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A friends mailbox "
Brilliant idea!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apply a filter system, so you can choose to see all, friends only, couple only, new sender etc.
Also group messages together (threads), so that the same one sender only appears once and will not fill the inbox.
Maybe add a group messaging system too.
Pre-written and custom options for message headlines.
One click user pre-typed replies. E.g 'I am sorry but you are not my type'.
And add a: hide message/user in both mailbox and searches as an alternative to block. "
Group messaging and one click auto responses would be awesome- great idea!! |
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Allow subscribers to attach files from their device such as photos, text, PDF and a "how to find us" map.
Thanks
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On some messages we find half the conversation has disappeared and makes it difficult trying to keep up with what has and hasn't been discussed.
Also agree with a friend's/hotlist/single/couples option.
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"Instant messages would be a faster way of communicating "
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Could you program a confirmation option on the "Delete all" process.
It's too easy to delete all messages by accident. |
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"When you open a profile and see you have messaged them or they messaged you in the past it would be great to be able to click the message symbol and read the messages that you've sent/received. "
This!! Would be so useful! |
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"This is not really related to inbox but still interwoven
The rate at which fake profiles message you is abnormally ok the increase,
Guys who somehow got verified, creates a couple profile and start acting as a couple, there should be some improvement of picture verification and also people verifications
Admin don't seem to be bothered with fake photos. There one guy who puts his face on women's bodies and says hes a TV lol"
Really annoying |
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PLEEEASE can we have threaded messages so people don't 'drop off the bottom' as soon as you get into a conversation with someone - just the top message showing from each person on the cover page.
Aside from that it would be good to have an automatic 'Thanks for your message but no thank you' and simultaneous delete button. |
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No harm in looking to copy the functionality from a successful web mail service (such as Gmail) as a template for ideas, as save re-inventing the wheel! This should incorporate most of the excellent suggestions on here:
1. Threaded Messages
2. Focused Inbox (Friends)
3. Other Inbox
4. Some type of 'action flag' for read mails to indicate you need to do something with them (like reply later on...)
5. Archived email - so messages aren't stuck in inbox for ages, but equally aren't deleted so you can always find something from a few month back if needed. (probably need something this to do the "show all messages" from a profile button people have requested)
6. Rules - would allow current filters to be enhanced.
7. Quick Action Buttons - "not interested" reply/block/report etc.
8. Labels - can add keyword info to emails and then archive them making them easier to find - i.e. Party-Guest Dec-2016 etc.
Sorry, I've probably bored everyone now so I'll leave it there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you open a profile and see you have messaged them or they messaged you in the past it would be great to be able to click the message symbol and read the messages that you've sent/received. "
This ^^^^^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the mailbox as it is now so see no reason to change it.
I pay my fiver so i have messege history which is good.
I wouldnt want a separate friends mailbox at all. My filters and the block button work well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seperate inbox for friends/non friends.
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This would be so useful. |
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no subject msg
and there should be An app for fab as using safari is annoying lolx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A mailbox just for your friends messages.
Also an option to send a message to everyone on your friends list, or select certain people, to easily invite people to parties and meets.
Separate email boxes for single men, women, couples, so you have Ann option to view them all, or each one separately.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More capacity please!!! |
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hi admin, would it be possible to have a party inbox / outbox so we could send one message to all on the list, like the on used on sdc . thanks connie x  |
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Instant messenger would be the answer . Like other dating sites . |
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"A group message feature would also be great. Would come in handy when having a few members attending a meet."
This with default set so you can create and receive group emails from friends only.
Inboxes for friend / hotlist / meeting verified supporters / everyone else.
Easy access to messages once you look at a profile.
Attachments?
Last one - remove webcam option on verifications. Have a comment button to leave message which you can choose to display or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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disagree with that - there are enough people with verifications from meets or cam who also waste your time and often do. After a while you get to spot the fakes easily enough!
I actually tried to photo verify but it wouldn't happen for some reason even though I followed the correct procedure.
In any event I have friends I chat to on here frequently - have had meets and been to a social, as well as being a site supporter. On your basis though that all counts for nothing?
Personally I like the idea mooted by others of having separate inboxes for friends and site supporters which I think would work well. |
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A way of keeping all Un read at top so they can't easily be missed.
Maybe an auto delete arfter a certain amount of time after being read n not replied to
So the poor guy waiting for a reply knows where he stands.
A limit on how many unread emails you can have and a limit on your inbox in total
So it means you must , read n delete,read n reply or delete full stop |
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"No messages allowed twice. I cannot begin to explain how annoying it is when a man messages you up to 4 times a day. Despite the big message saying 'YOU HAVE ALREADY MESSAGED THIS PERSON BEFORE AND THEY HAVE NOT REPLIED'.
Yeah, even fab says take the hint. "
I totally agree with this!! There should be something that if you haven't responded twice they can't mail you again! My inbox is full of repeat messages so time consuming and then you miss the ones you have been talking too!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No messages allowed twice. I cannot begin to explain how annoying it is when a man messages you up to 4 times a day. Despite the big message saying 'YOU HAVE ALREADY MESSAGED THIS PERSON BEFORE AND THEY HAVE NOT REPLIED'.
Yeah, even fab says take the hint.
I totally agree with this!! There should be something that if you haven't responded twice they can't mail you again! My inbox is full of repeat messages so time consuming and then you miss the ones you have been talking too!!"
What if you delete a message in error ? |
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"I like the mailbox as it is now so see no reason to change it.
I pay my fiver so i have messege history which is good.
I wouldnt want a separate friends mailbox at all. My filters and the block button work well. "
. Please could you tell me how you have message history, I've always believed when they drop off the bottom they are gone, is this because you save them, if it is then how many is it possible to save? We don't save them as we thought that we would have the same dropping off problem, but if saving will give message history then we will start thanks, Mrs blue eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Instead of individual inboxs when talking to someone make them into one conversation so the inbox doesn't get flooded and then end up losing a message when they have dropped off down the bottom |
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"Instant messenger would be the answer . Like other dating sites . "
you can do this in the chat rooms where you can just PM
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Show messages from same user in one. E.g. if I sent 3 messages to a person, instead of having 3 new messages in the inbox he/she would have 3 unread from me showing in 1. Easier to keep track of who you messaged with before as well. And should keep that inbox a lot easier to maintain. Hope that makes sense. I can send you a screenshot if not. But if you can pull this off it would make it so much better!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A real time instant message service ala FB messenger would e good. Sending gifs videos etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Inbox for:-
Hotlist
Friends
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Already said but the ability to see all messages between yourself and another profile when you go to their profile would be amazing xx |
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The facility of previewing your message prior to sending it as is the facility in Forums  Casanova |
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By *hloversCouple
over a year ago
Merseyside & Isle of Man |
Have already commented on this subject earlier in this thread and we're in favour of a larger inbox and group messaging. Would also support a move to link all messages from a particular person rather than by message subject. It's always frustrating when someone keeps opening a new thread for every message they send.....sometimes on the same day even. Just makes it so difficult to keep track of conversations and arrangements made.
We spend a LOT of time going through the inbox and sent box deleting messages in the same thread just to save room and to keep it fresh and relevant.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get rid off subject box and just put a read button. |
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By *oxoxoWoman
over a year ago
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"A friends mailbox "
Agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be able to tag user names in order to enable a link to their profile.
For example, if there is a large guest list to a party you are attending, it would be helpful to be able to click on the names rather than having to search each one individually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Site supporters inbox and non supporters inbox |
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Why not simply create additional features for site supporters or put more limits in place for those that are not site supporters?
Adding more email functionality in my opinion is pointless. |
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A mailbox that looks and feels and behaves like a mailbox.
Also link mail to user profile so it is possible to navigate from a user profile to the conversations with that person. |
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By *ooboo62Man
over a year ago
Driffield |
No limit on adding photos for any site supporter. |
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By *hloversCouple
over a year ago
Merseyside & Isle of Man |
We fully appreciate the increased privacy that auto - delete provides when people send us their face pics but it's frustrating when one of us opens the message while the other is at work or otherwise unavailable only to find that it has disappeared due to auto-delete by the time the second person has an opportunity to view it themselves. Leads to us having to send a second request for face pics which is a little uncomfortable to do with people who we've yet to meet.
How about an indicator to show that a message has been sent on auto-delete so we can then take the option to only open it when we're both together? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to find vids. On here. And yuo. Dont have. But yuor site is awesome |
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By *oxoxoWoman
over a year ago
london |
Just a little thing...
when individuals choose to hide their profiles yet still send messages.
Perhaps a little reminder before they press send asking ' do you u really want to make contact??!!' |
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Stop senders from being able to delete THEIR part of the conversation (leaving you with only your messages to them). |
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Ability to add reminders or tags to messages to help manage contacts and arrangements. |
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Yeah separate friends message and non friends message.
And to be able to retrieve some old messages too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you open a profile and see you have messaged them or they messaged you in the past it would be great to be able to click the message symbol and read the messages that you've sent/received. "
This this this
Also, it would be great if there was a way to say thanks but no thanks to people without then allowing them to be able to get around your filters forever. I regret sending so many rejection messages because our filters are useless now.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you open a profile and see you have messaged them or they messaged you in the past it would be great to be able to click the message symbol and read the messages that you've sent/received. "
This^^^^^ |
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By *hloversCouple
over a year ago
Merseyside & Isle of Man |
"Stop senders from being able to delete THEIR part of the conversation (leaving you with only your messages to them)."
We have to do this to prevent our sent box getting clogged up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It wud b good 2 have a box were u can write and store pre written messages 2 questions ur asked over and over again especially wen they need lengthy replies.. |
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By *hloversCouple
over a year ago
Merseyside & Isle of Man |
"It wud b good 2 have a box were u can write and store pre written messages 2 questions ur asked over and over again especially wen they need lengthy replies.. "
Copy & paste from a Word document works for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry..meant 2 say that message stays in its box no matter how many times u send it 2 someone. But u can delete the original if u like.. |
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By *ury bumMan
over a year ago
Wyth/Roch |
Group messaging or ability to set up group event for easy organising of group meets. Tricky to keep track sometimes otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah rite. Must try it. Cheers. |
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having received a message in a conversation it should flag up in a noticeable position and colour and not have to keep going back to My Account to see if you have had a reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Defo a friends mailbox. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"When you open a profile and see you have messaged them or they messaged you in the past it would be great to be able to click the message symbol and read the messages that you've sent/received.
this is the best suggestion! Couldn't agree more "
This would help. Sometimes, I have had people respond to an approach or they've contacted me, but through circumstances we don't meet. In time, trying to "reconnect" and pick up where we left off can be a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Show how far away from you the sender of a message is. ( Distance in miles) |
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To be able to see all conversations with anyone that has wrote to you. Sometimes you can't remember conversations if it's been a few weeks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stop messages from people that dont match your chosen preferences from your profile |
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Separate mailbox for friends and hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For housekeeping :
On Read and Sent Messages be able to enter the profile name which would then bring up a full list for that profile making it easy for reading and deleting, rather than trolling through messages for that particular profile name.
Think a lot of Supporters would like this, especially if your getting a lot of Messages to . Cheers x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An instant delete option, Could be shift del or other safe method. This would avoid having to scroll to top or bottom to confirm after check one or more messages. |
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By *esley_CTV/TS
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Is there some way that new messages in a thread could arrive in the existing message window rather than all the messages in the thread having their own window and thereby filling up you inbox! x |
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By *oandWexCouple
over a year ago
arklow |
We organise parties and send out invites so would be great if we could send messages to more than one profile at the same time.
Thanks xx |
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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago
Chester |
Definitely threaded mails so that if someone sends 3 in a short time, I don't get 3 new headers. Just 1 new message header with all 3 mail's grouped. |
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By *pricotwineMan
over a year ago
Second star to the right |
I have always found this a bit lacking on this site as it is a person centric site, then you should be able to access the messages you have sent and received via individual profiles. This also means you can delete and read message from that person without having to plough through all the other messages. However the existing messaging facility should remain in place as you will need the option to manage the messages as a whole. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A search facility in messages as you may know you've spoken to someone but can't remember convo and would be able to find messages again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree on this
On a few occasions the Mrs has been chatting away and when I go to read the messages and catch up the first half of the messages no longer exist |
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By *a35ukMan
over a year ago
Hailsham |
Friends mail highlighted would help immensely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A friend's or hotlist filter would be good. Separate inboxes may not be necessary.
But threaded messages similar to SMS or WhatsApp would save a lot of inbox space rather than the new message arriving at the top with older messages further down needing to be deleted. "
I agree although site supporters have similar. Would be good if you get a message from someone yes it stays in the thread no matter the subject ' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More messages as no one ever messages me!  |
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By *rowsing2016Woman
over a year ago
somewhere in beautiful Pennsylvania, USA |
^hanks for looking into improvements for the mailboxes. I've read each post, and totally agree with every suggested improvement. Msgs dropping off at the bottom is probably number one for me.. but as many of the suggestions you can incorporate for new mailboxes would be FAB. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
More than one 'page'of messages. If they're there anyway we should be able to access them without deleting newer messages.
Ability to group message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be able to post comments privately about other people on here so you do not keep messaging them about same things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people should have to reply...ignorance shouldn't be an answer  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Oh yes, when deleting messages using the desktop site can it not go to next unread but back to inbox, like on the mobile site? |
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"A mailbox that looks and feels and behaves like a mailbox.
Also link mail to user profile so it is possible to navigate from a user profile to the conversations with that person."
one two tabs , then pop from one to the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why don't you add search function to the mail box so a user can dictate what he or she wants to see so such option are as follow should be a simple SQL lookup
View Message from friends
- this will populate the list and show only them message
But also could be done for people with or with out attachments couples gays males females ect |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I think people should have to reply...ignorance shouldn't be an answer "
You know there are several topics about this on the forums. Why derail this post? Also, familiarise yourself with the FAQs. |
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I suggest having a filter for viewing email messages eg 'friends only'. Very easy to miss friends' messages if you have a volume of messages to wade through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would like to see all the messages exchanged between the person and I. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not make fab a lot like Facebook. .. in that we can like (fab) each others status
Share pics more easily ....
Hell. ..
Even "go live" at some point lol
Options are endless with right web software developer |
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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago
a straightjacket |
Not sure if this has been mentioned but mail from friends stay at the top of inbox until read. Lots of my female friends'lose' my replies as they get so much random other mail |
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By *TC2UMan
over a year ago
Andreas |
Friends Mailbox + longer retention of contents for Site Supporters - currently messages disappear after a while |
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TBH I would rather see the features that are already there being implemented properly before introducing more features. The "regions" spring to mind. |
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Prioritise Site Supporters - similar with Searches SSs should be at top |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
swingers clubs |
Blocking non photo verified users from messaging, non photo verified users should not be allowed photos either to send in a message or on their profile!
Would really help out time wasters and ensure photos are genuine.
To be honest, giving the option to prevent non photo verified users from even looking at your profile could be good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Able to send pictures directly from your phone or computer instead of from your pictures on your profile. "
All photos need to be checked first though |
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By *j_mark OP Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod Totteridge/Whetstone |
Thanks all for the feedback so far
We're reviewing this and that received privately. Feel free to use CONTACT link or create a new thread since this is very nearly full
We're committed to making improvements to how mailbox works, this year.
Admin x |
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