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By *inaTitz OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
What are the rules regarding begging statuses?
I keep seeing one member uploading statuses asking for a meet and if anyone can lend her money. To me it just looks like hooking.
Things such as this:
"Meet today? Must be generous xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not allowed to ask for money on here, you're not even allowed to have a wishlist on your page."
What kind of wish list? And why isn't it allowed please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not allowed to ask for money on here, you're not even allowed to have a wishlist on your page.
What kind of wish list? And why isn't it allowed please?"
you can't do anything for money on here including asking for gifts. it's a free swinging site, not a begging site or money making place.
people do it and break the rules all the time. if other members want to report them for it they're allowed to, in fact it's encouraged as you can see by the above mods answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not allowed to ask for money on here, you're not even allowed to have a wishlist on your page.
What kind of wish list? And why isn't it allowed please?
you can't do anything for money on here including asking for gifts. it's a free swinging site, not a begging site or money making place.
people do it and break the rules all the time. if other members want to report them for it they're allowed to, in fact it's encouraged as you can see by the above mods answer."
Oh I see. I once had up a status asking if anyone was able to help me with my advanced maths assignment. Glad I didn't break any rules with that though.
Had a few guys pretend to know what they were talking about but all the proceeded to do was practically blackmail me for sex. (Said they could help but refused to help unless I met them in a hotel or their house etc). Shame on them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not allowed to ask for money on here, you're not even allowed to have a wishlist on your page.
What kind of wish list? And why isn't it allowed please?
you can't do anything for money on here including asking for gifts. it's a free swinging site, not a begging site or money making place.
people do it and break the rules all the time. if other members want to report them for it they're allowed to, in fact it's encouraged as you can see by the above mods answer.
Oh I see. I once had up a status asking if anyone was able to help me with my advanced maths assignment. Glad I didn't break any rules with that though.
Had a few guys pretend to know what they were talking about but all the proceeded to do was practically blackmail me for sex. (Said they could help but refused to help unless I met them in a hotel or their house etc). Shame on them! "
actually that just made me realise i asked for help with fixing my laptop, didn't offer money but it was a service that costs money usually. not sure if that broke the rules lol. no-one reported me though if it was. all i offered was as many brews as they wanted.
nobody pressured me for sex either. help means just that, help because you're a nice person who is able to do something for others. shit that people tried to take advantage of you for asking, this might explain why they don't encourage transactions between people in case people start expecting sex for services/goods/money on here as it tends to offend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not allowed to ask for money on here, you're not even allowed to have a wishlist on your page.
What kind of wish list? And why isn't it allowed please?
you can't do anything for money on here including asking for gifts. it's a free swinging site, not a begging site or money making place.
people do it and break the rules all the time. if other members want to report them for it they're allowed to, in fact it's encouraged as you can see by the above mods answer.
Oh I see. I once had up a status asking if anyone was able to help me with my advanced maths assignment. Glad I didn't break any rules with that though.
Had a few guys pretend to know what they were talking about but all the proceeded to do was practically blackmail me for sex. (Said they could help but refused to help unless I met them in a hotel or their house etc). Shame on them!
actually that just made me realise i asked for help with fixing my laptop, didn't offer money but it was a service that costs money usually. not sure if that broke the rules lol. no-one reported me though if it was. all i offered was as many brews as they wanted.
nobody pressured me for sex either. help means just that, help because you're a nice person who is able to do something for others. shit that people tried to take advantage of you for asking, this might explain why they don't encourage transactions between people in case people start expecting sex for services/goods/money on here as it tends to offend."
I think so too. It's just sad that a lady can't ask for help without that required help being twisted in to something that isn't being offered. I too merely offered drinks and meal as a gesture of my thanks. Won't make that mistake again.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not allowed to ask for money on here, you're not even allowed to have a wishlist on your page.
What kind of wish list? And why isn't it allowed please?
you can't do anything for money on here including asking for gifts. it's a free swinging site, not a begging site or money making place.
people do it and break the rules all the time. if other members want to report them for it they're allowed to, in fact it's encouraged as you can see by the above mods answer.
Oh I see. I once had up a status asking if anyone was able to help me with my advanced maths assignment. Glad I didn't break any rules with that though.
Had a few guys pretend to know what they were talking about but all the proceeded to do was practically blackmail me for sex. (Said they could help but refused to help unless I met them in a hotel or their house etc). Shame on them!
actually that just made me realise i asked for help with fixing my laptop, didn't offer money but it was a service that costs money usually. not sure if that broke the rules lol. no-one reported me though if it was. all i offered was as many brews as they wanted.
nobody pressured me for sex either. help means just that, help because you're a nice person who is able to do something for others. shit that people tried to take advantage of you for asking, this might explain why they don't encourage transactions between people in case people start expecting sex for services/goods/money on here as it tends to offend.
I think so too. It's just sad that a lady can't ask for help without that required help being twisted in to something that isn't being offered. I too merely offered drinks and meal as a gesture of my thanks. Won't make that mistake again. "
wish i could do maths, i would've loved a meal. 
it did cross my mind that anyone would help me for sex but everyone who offered just seemed genuinely into computers, despite this being a sex site. funny how some people think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not allowed to ask for money on here, you're not even allowed to have a wishlist on your page.
What kind of wish list? And why isn't it allowed please?
you can't do anything for money on here including asking for gifts. it's a free swinging site, not a begging site or money making place.
people do it and break the rules all the time. if other members want to report them for it they're allowed to, in fact it's encouraged as you can see by the above mods answer.
Oh I see. I once had up a status asking if anyone was able to help me with my advanced maths assignment. Glad I didn't break any rules with that though.
Had a few guys pretend to know what they were talking about but all the proceeded to do was practically blackmail me for sex. (Said they could help but refused to help unless I met them in a hotel or their house etc). Shame on them!
actually that just made me realise i asked for help with fixing my laptop, didn't offer money but it was a service that costs money usually. not sure if that broke the rules lol. no-one reported me though if it was. all i offered was as many brews as they wanted.
nobody pressured me for sex either. help means just that, help because you're a nice person who is able to do something for others. shit that people tried to take advantage of you for asking, this might explain why they don't encourage transactions between people in case people start expecting sex for services/goods/money on here as it tends to offend.
I think so too. It's just sad that a lady can't ask for help without that required help being twisted in to something that isn't being offered. I too merely offered drinks and meal as a gesture of my thanks. Won't make that mistake again.
wish i could do maths, i would've loved a meal.
it did cross my mind that anyone would help me for sex but everyone who offered just seemed genuinely into computers, despite this being a sex site. funny how some people think."
I understand. I just thought help could and can be found in the most unusual places. Didn't hurt to ask...but actually on here it did lol. I would of offered that meal to women or anyone on here but no one decent enough offered to help. I hate being so rubbish at maths! Lol. Essays, my trade and other subjects I'm fine with.
A friends step brother helped me in the end. He has a degree in advanced mathematics. I now owe him a bottle of wine!  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not allowed to ask for money on here, you're not even allowed to have a wishlist on your page.
What kind of wish list? And why isn't it allowed please?
you can't do anything for money on here including asking for gifts. it's a free swinging site, not a begging site or money making place.
people do it and break the rules all the time. if other members want to report them for it they're allowed to, in fact it's encouraged as you can see by the above mods answer.
Oh I see. I once had up a status asking if anyone was able to help me with my advanced maths assignment. Glad I didn't break any rules with that though.
Had a few guys pretend to know what they were talking about but all the proceeded to do was practically blackmail me for sex. (Said they could help but refused to help unless I met them in a hotel or their house etc). Shame on them!
actually that just made me realise i asked for help with fixing my laptop, didn't offer money but it was a service that costs money usually. not sure if that broke the rules lol. no-one reported me though if it was. all i offered was as many brews as they wanted.
nobody pressured me for sex either. help means just that, help because you're a nice person who is able to do something for others. shit that people tried to take advantage of you for asking, this might explain why they don't encourage transactions between people in case people start expecting sex for services/goods/money on here as it tends to offend.
I think so too. It's just sad that a lady can't ask for help without that required help being twisted in to something that isn't being offered. I too merely offered drinks and meal as a gesture of my thanks. Won't make that mistake again.
wish i could do maths, i would've loved a meal.
it did cross my mind that anyone would help me for sex but everyone who offered just seemed genuinely into computers, despite this being a sex site. funny how some people think.
I understand. I just thought help could and can be found in the most unusual places. Didn't hurt to ask...but actually on here it did lol. I would of offered that meal to women or anyone on here but no one decent enough offered to help. I hate being so rubbish at maths! Lol. Essays, my trade and other subjects I'm fine with.
A friends step brother helped me in the end. He has a degree in advanced mathematics. I now owe him a bottle of wine! . "
yeah same. i wasn't bothered who helped me so long as they helped.
i've even had teenagers help me with computer programming before now, they're actually dead keen coz nobody has acknowledged their talents really so they want to help and educate others as it makes them feel good about being able to do what they can do. some sites they just offer help you never even asked for, lol.
good you got sorted in the end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I replied to a plea to kill a sick pet fish on here once.
I had a brew and a chat, nowt more than that...
You killed a fish 
I'm not sure whether I hope that's a euphemism or not..."
It's true. I had a chat over a drink, then took the fish, wrapped it up in toilet paper and hit it with the base of a glass. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
I find it funny the number of people on the verge of setting up GoFundMe's on here - one girl in chat once bragging to her friend how easy it was to get guys give her stuff: car lifts, freebies, mobile phone pop-ups, "emergency bill payments", and all she had to do was promise to "return the favour". On the other hand, yes I did report her, and yes the profile disappeared days later.
The lifestyle is not and has never been intended as a cheap way to funds.
Now a legit favour, like advice wallpapering, fixing a PC, dealing with a family issue, nothing wrong with that  |
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"I replied to a plea to kill a sick pet fish on here once.
I had a brew and a chat, nowt more than that...
You killed a fish
I'm not sure whether I hope that's a euphemism or not...
It's true. I had a chat over a drink, then took the fish, wrapped it up in toilet paper and hit it with the base of a glass."
We euthenase our fish by putting them in water in the fridge, then when they're comatose in the freezer. |
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"not allowed to ask for money on here, you're not even allowed to have a wishlist on your page.
What kind of wish list? And why isn't it allowed please?"
It means Lovehoney or Amazon wish lists, not the kind of sexy wish lists lots of people have |
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