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Why can't I block bi or bi curious men
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block all men. Then search for a man yourself. Might need the most effective way for you.
As for the other comments, if OP has stated on their profile no bi men, they should do the decent thing and not waste the op's nor their time by messaging in the first place! They know they're not wanted so they should stop messaging! |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com"
If you haven't gone on fab guys then you wont know what its like. Bi guys like women and men ... are there many women on fab guys these days? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol...
Just say "thanks but no thanks" if they message?
Or is the phobia too irrational?"
Might need to explain your prejudice thinking there? How did you come to that conclusion. ..or is it something you struggle with yourself from the other foot?
I'd like a bi filter. Think it would be good. I can see why they won't do it. It would cut down alot of bandwidth traffic though as it full of bi or bi curious or fab straight guys. The flip side is that most would then remove any mention of it and you would not know if someone was genuinely straight of not.
But many many hide things on here to get fuck. Ones less likely to hide things if one is looking for regular meets with a select few...but most aren't into that to one can hide something. ..get a fuck and then move on quickly.
I think they should remove all filters except the block button. Would make it so much easier for everyone. It would soon find ins natural level then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fear of Bi men usually means there's underlying Bi tendancies .
Any physiologist will tell u ."
lol are you a phycologist?
It could be for host of reasons lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The fear of Bi men usually means there's underlying Bi tendancies .
Any physiologist will tell u .
lol are you a phycologist?
It could be for host of reasons lol "
*psychologist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forgive me if I take the OP's post with a pinch of salt. First of all very few guys girls or those weirdo bi (I include myself in that) guys would inundate anyone with messages when they don't have a single public photo and seem actively hostile to bi guys.
A bi guy filter would be pointless as the vast majority of men here have it in their minds to explore that bi side without being judged for it, threads like this just make the problem worse. Can I ask what puts you off bi guys, do you feel they are unclean or do you feel intimidated in some way. You know you can tell a guy before a meet that you don't play as a bi couple rather than letting it drive you away from a site. We are all entitled to our preferences but this seems to have taken over your profile and any chance of meeting a great guy who "might" want to explore his bi side |
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"Forgive me if I take the OP's post with a pinch of salt. First of all very few guys girls or those weirdo bi (I include myself in that) guys would inundate anyone with messages when they don't have a single public photo and seem actively hostile to bi guys.
A bi guy filter would be pointless as the vast majority of men here have it in their minds to explore that bi side without being judged for it, threads like this just make the problem worse. Can I ask what puts you off bi guys, do you feel they are unclean or do you feel intimidated in some way. You know you can tell a guy before a meet that you don't play as a bi couple rather than letting it drive you away from a site. We are all entitled to our preferences but this seems to have taken over your profile and any chance of meeting a great guy who "might" want to explore his bi side "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are plenty bi/bi curious people who also play straight.
There are also plenty of straight people who play bi/bi curious..."
never now I know that I'm shocked  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We'd love a filter to filter out straight male profiles and messages from the same !"
If forums are to go by there aren't that many on here so shouldn't be that big an issue. so many are fab straight apparently. Maybe the forums aren't that reliable then.
But yes I'd agree that it could be more consistent with filters offered. Would be good to know the reason why only some demographics can be filtered out easier than others. |
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"There are plenty bi/bi curious people who also play straight.
There are also plenty of straight people who play bi/bi curious..."
True. It's like the age old tale of the man if Hetero proportions overly declaring "I'm straight" but they'll go hunting for TV/TS and advertise it on their profiles. Essentially Bi themselves.... *snort*
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose. |
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We have had messages of straight guys on here who want to try something new, Iam a believer if there is no attraction with someone it's easier to block as you can't remember who you spoke to a year ago, I think it's best for both parties. We have had continuous messages of the same guy asking for fun even tho we said not our type, once blocked they open another account in a different name But with the same pics. I think a perfect not intrested and then block is polite. |
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"We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose."
Double edged sword with we three as well . If the profile doesn't state bi then it's always : " bi-bi" . The straight people who don't wish to meet bi people - as is their right - would be simply AMAZED at the 100's upon 100's of messages off straight men who message with : " I'm actually bi but put straight on my profile because it puts women and couples off " |
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"We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose.
Double edged sword with we three as well . If the profile doesn't state bi then it's always : " bi-bi" . The straight people who don't wish to meet bi people - as is their right - would be simply AMAZED at the 100's upon 100's of messages off straight men who message with : " I'm actually bi but put straight on my profile because it puts women and couples off " "
I kind of get that from a certain angle.
I'm a fully bi male but don't advertise it due to the atrocious amount of so-called straight guys who try and get a last minute BJ or shag before their wife or gf are back on the scene. Even worse are the guys who have turned up and look f*** all like their pics.
Kind of off putting. |
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"We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose.
Double edged sword with we three as well . If the profile doesn't state bi then it's always : " bi-bi" . The straight people who don't wish to meet bi people - as is their right - would be simply AMAZED at the 100's upon 100's of messages off straight men who message with : " I'm actually bi but put straight on my profile because it puts women and couples off "
I kind of get that from a certain angle.
I'm a fully bi male but don't advertise it due to the atrocious amount of so-called straight guys who try and get a last minute BJ or shag before their wife or gf are back on the scene. Even worse are the guys who have turned up and look f*** all like their pics.
Kind of off putting. "
But surely that also limits your possibilities of meeting and having fun with bi couples you may wish to do so with. Each to their own but we prefer honesty from the beginning as I'm sure most other people do as well, regardless of bi, straight or any other circumstance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose.
Double edged sword with we three as well . If the profile doesn't state bi then it's always : " bi-bi" . The straight people who don't wish to meet bi people - as is their right - would be simply AMAZED at the 100's upon 100's of messages off straight men who message with : " I'm actually bi but put straight on my profile because it puts women and couples off "
I kind of get that from a certain angle.
I'm a fully bi male but don't advertise it due to the atrocious amount of so-called straight guys who try and get a last minute BJ or shag before their wife or gf are back on the scene. Even worse are the guys who have turned up and look f*** all like their pics.
Kind of off putting.
But surely that also limits your possibilities of meeting and having fun with bi couples you may wish to do so with. Each to their own but we prefer honesty from the beginning as I'm sure most other people do as well, regardless of bi, straight or any other circumstance."
Yes and no. To be honest the level of couples I have spoken to on here from my own different profiles over the years (bi single male, couples profile and now) that I/we've found have been pretty self absorbed and far from how they portray themselves from their write up.
Now I don't tar and feather everyone with the same brush but the sad scenario is that there are many couples who are time wasters or fantasists. But a long way to go yet.
When it happens, it will happen. Comfortability is the key. |
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"We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose.
Double edged sword with we three as well . If the profile doesn't state bi then it's always : " bi-bi" . The straight people who don't wish to meet bi people - as is their right - would be simply AMAZED at the 100's upon 100's of messages off straight men who message with : " I'm actually bi but put straight on my profile because it puts women and couples off "
I kind of get that from a certain angle.
I'm a fully bi male but don't advertise it due to the atrocious amount of so-called straight guys who try and get a last minute BJ or shag before their wife or gf are back on the scene. Even worse are the guys who have turned up and look f*** all like their pics.
Kind of off putting.
But surely that also limits your possibilities of meeting and having fun with bi couples you may wish to do so with. Each to their own but we prefer honesty from the beginning as I'm sure most other people do as well, regardless of bi, straight or any other circumstance.
Yes and no. To be honest the level of couples I have spoken to on here from my own different profiles over the years (bi single male, couples profile and now) that I/we've found have been pretty self absorbed and far from how they portray themselves from their write up.
Now I don't tar and feather everyone with the same brush but the sad scenario is that there are many couples who are time wasters or fantasists. But a long way to go yet.
When it happens, it will happen. Comfortability is the key."
We have had many of nasty messages on this forum because of what we are looking for, it's a shame really as we have been honest on our profile about what interests us. Could of always lied and put crap on. It's a shame really as I think this site is good for everyone's needs.
We are on Fabguys as well and the information is exactly the same. Happy swinging everyone. |
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"We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose.
Double edged sword with we three as well . If the profile doesn't state bi then it's always : " bi-bi" . The straight people who don't wish to meet bi people - as is their right - would be simply AMAZED at the 100's upon 100's of messages off straight men who message with : " I'm actually bi but put straight on my profile because it puts women and couples off "
I kind of get that from a certain angle.
I'm a fully bi male but don't advertise it due to the atrocious amount of so-called straight guys who try and get a last minute BJ or shag before their wife or gf are back on the scene. Even worse are the guys who have turned up and look f*** all like their pics.
Kind of off putting.
But surely that also limits your possibilities of meeting and having fun with bi couples you may wish to do so with. Each to their own but we prefer honesty from the beginning as I'm sure most other people do as well, regardless of bi, straight or any other circumstance.
Yes and no. To be honest the level of couples I have spoken to on here from my own different profiles over the years (bi single male, couples profile and now) that I/we've found have been pretty self absorbed and far from how they portray themselves from their write up.
Now I don't tar and feather everyone with the same brush but the sad scenario is that there are many couples who are time wasters or fantasists. But a long way to go yet.
When it happens, it will happen. Comfortability is the key.
We have had many of nasty messages on this forum because of what we are looking for, it's a shame really as we have been honest on our profile about what interests us. Could of always lied and put crap on. It's a shame really as I think this site is good for everyone's needs.
We are on Fabguys as well and the information is exactly the same. Happy swinging everyone. "
As long as you are honest and your intentions are clear then all the more fun and power to you both. That is whst this site is all about!
Sad that there are nasty messages and posts circulating from judgemental keyboard warriors just as there might be privately. I think we've all experienced that in some denomination online. But don't let it rock the boat too much. |
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"We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose.
Double edged sword with we three as well . If the profile doesn't state bi then it's always : " bi-bi" . The straight people who don't wish to meet bi people - as is their right - would be simply AMAZED at the 100's upon 100's of messages off straight men who message with : " I'm actually bi but put straight on my profile because it puts women and couples off "
I kind of get that from a certain angle.
I'm a fully bi male but don't advertise it due to the atrocious amount of so-called straight guys who try and get a last minute BJ or shag before their wife or gf are back on the scene. Even worse are the guys who have turned up and look f*** all like their pics.
Kind of off putting.
But surely that also limits your possibilities of meeting and having fun with bi couples you may wish to do so with. Each to their own but we prefer honesty from the beginning as I'm sure most other people do as well, regardless of bi, straight or any other circumstance.
Yes and no. To be honest the level of couples I have spoken to on here from my own different profiles over the years (bi single male, couples profile and now) that I/we've found have been pretty self absorbed and far from how they portray themselves from their write up.
Now I don't tar and feather everyone with the same brush but the sad scenario is that there are many couples who are time wasters or fantasists. But a long way to go yet.
When it happens, it will happen. Comfortability is the key.
We have had many of nasty messages on this forum because of what we are looking for, it's a shame really as we have been honest on our profile about what interests us. Could of always lied and put crap on. It's a shame really as I think this site is good for everyone's needs.
We are on Fabguys as well and the information is exactly the same. Happy swinging everyone.
As long as you are honest and your intentions are clear then all the more fun and power to you both. That is whst this site is all about!
Sad that there are nasty messages and posts circulating from judgemental keyboard warriors just as there might be privately. I think we've all experienced that in some denomination online. But don't let it rock the boat too much. "
We don't we just think stupid T--ts we are in a long term relationship and trying new things as we don't want to go out and have Affairs behind each other's backs so fab suits us perfectly. It's about out fantasy and also other people's, don't see anything wrong with that |
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"We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose.
Double edged sword with we three as well . If the profile doesn't state bi then it's always : " bi-bi" . The straight people who don't wish to meet bi people - as is their right - would be simply AMAZED at the 100's upon 100's of messages off straight men who message with : " I'm actually bi but put straight on my profile because it puts women and couples off "
I kind of get that from a certain angle.
I'm a fully bi male but don't advertise it due to the atrocious amount of so-called straight guys who try and get a last minute BJ or shag before their wife or gf are back on the scene. Even worse are the guys who have turned up and look f*** all like their pics.
Kind of off putting.
But surely that also limits your possibilities of meeting and having fun with bi couples you may wish to do so with. Each to their own but we prefer honesty from the beginning as I'm sure most other people do as well, regardless of bi, straight or any other circumstance.
Yes and no. To be honest the level of couples I have spoken to on here from my own different profiles over the years (bi single male, couples profile and now) that I/we've found have been pretty self absorbed and far from how they portray themselves from their write up.
Now I don't tar and feather everyone with the same brush but the sad scenario is that there are many couples who are time wasters or fantasists. But a long way to go yet.
When it happens, it will happen. Comfortability is the key."
Fair enough, i do agree with you on the fantacists part of things sometimes. We are not anything of the above, however we have definitely experienced it.
As you say, being comfortable in the situation, straight or bi is the key, but for me being honest is a part of that. Probably why I prefer to meet in clubs rather than on here, and there is a lot less judgement at clubs as well we've found |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com"
I wouldn't worry about it, from the messages we get all the straight guys are closet bi anyway so makes no difference   |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com
I wouldn't worry about it, from the messages we get all the straight guys are closet bi anyway so makes no difference "
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com
I wouldn't worry about it, from the messages we get all the straight guys are closet bi anyway so makes no difference "
But how bi are they? I'm sure there are many orally bi guys, but there will be tears if they don't expect to be pegged/taken with 9" of silicone or flesh   |
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev"
Who says us bi guys are gonna force our sexuality on you? If you're looking for another guy so your wife can have two guys together, why on earth would you assume the guy ' lol pounce on you at the first opportunity? |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com
I wouldn't worry about it, from the messages we get all the straight guys are closet bi anyway so makes no difference
But how bi are they? I'm sure there are many orally bi guys, but there will be tears if they don't expect to be pegged/taken with 9" of silicone or flesh "
Who cares, bi is bi, if they are lying because they want to hedge their bets and meet women and couples who want straight guys, as well as those who want bi guys it smacks of desperation, and desperation is not sexy  |
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev
Who says us bi guys are gonna force our sexuality on you? If you're looking for another guy so your wife can have two guys together, why on earth would you assume the guy ' lol pounce on you at the first opportunity? "
All these "straight" men think they are irresistible to bi guys. Haha really??? |
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev
Who says us bi guys are gonna force our sexuality on you? If you're looking for another guy so your wife can have two guys together, why on earth would you assume the guy ' lol pounce on you at the first opportunity?
All these "straight" men think they are irresistible to bi guys. Haha really??? "
How true that is |
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By *itzhallMan
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I want a straight man filter...... I get inundated with messages from them wanting to give me bj, be fucked by me etc..... my profile states than I'm bisexual and that should..... or rather I hoped that it would attract other bis wether they're M MF or whatever..... |
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"lol...
Just say "thanks but no thanks" if they message?
Or is the phobia too irrational?
When did a preference become a phobia??"
When it becomes irrational. If a couple want a guy to join them solely for the wife's pleasure and at no point does he do anything sexual to the husband, what difference does it make if he's bi or straight? Or whether or not he's been sexual active with a man in the past? |
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"lol...
Just say "thanks but no thanks" if they message?
Or is the phobia too irrational?
When did a preference become a phobia??
When it becomes irrational. If a couple want a guy to join them solely for the wife's pleasure and at no point does he do anything sexual to the husband, what difference does it make if he's bi or straight? Or whether or not he's been sexual active with a man in the past?"
Still wouldnt say that was a phobia |
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"lol...
Just say "thanks but no thanks" if they message?
Or is the phobia too irrational?
When did a preference become a phobia??
When it becomes irrational. If a couple want a guy to join them solely for the wife's pleasure and at no point does he do anything sexual to the husband, what difference does it make if he's bi or straight? Or whether or not he's been sexual active with a man in the past?
Still wouldnt say that was a phobia"
Okay but definitely irrational. As I've said on these threads before, nobody is asking anyone to play with anyone they don't want to, we're just asking to be judged on our own individual merits rather than being disregarded en masse. |
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"lol...
Just say "thanks but no thanks" if they message?
Or is the phobia too irrational?
When did a preference become a phobia??
When it becomes irrational. If a couple want a guy to join them solely for the wife's pleasure and at no point does he do anything sexual to the husband, what difference does it make if he's bi or straight? Or whether or not he's been sexual active with a man in the past?"
That's no a phobia surely. It's a preference. Many people will not meet bi males, for a number of reasons. This includes personal preference, not being able to donate blood etc. So a preference, not a phobia, something all should respect, just as those who prefer not to meet straight people should respect those who are. It works all ways, and in swinging respect for preferences should always be one of the key things |
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev
Who says us bi guys are gonna force our sexuality on you? If you're looking for another guy so your wife can have two guys together, why on earth would you assume the guy ' lol pounce on you at the first opportunity? "
Hmmmm, yes. All straight guys think Bi guys will take any old cock regardless like they have no preference and they're just greedy. The same as Bi women - surely they must suck any old clit too!
Had an experience at Chams a couple of years ago on Bi Night. Went into the cinema with my buddy and we got settled where one guy started to have a reach around for her. I looked up at him as he was stroking himself and he went in to touch her and he said in a slightly harsh tone "It's not gonna happen, mate. I don't do guys"
All I could say was "Really? Have you seen the state of yourself???"...
He didn't stay after that.
And the moral of this story is *Bi men apparently don't care as long as it's there* |
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You do know that us bisexual men don't want to fuck every guy?  if a woman said no, I wouldn't persist until they said yes, so why do a lot of couples think I would do that if we met up and the guy only wanted to play straight? |
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Just say "thanks but no thanks" if they message?
Or is the phobia too irrational?
When did a preference become a phobia??
When it becomes irrational. If a couple want a guy to join them solely for the wife's pleasure and at no point does he do anything sexual to the husband, what difference does it make if he's bi or straight? Or whether or not he's been sexual active with a man in the past?
Still wouldnt say that was a phobia
Okay but definitely irrational. As I've said on these threads before, nobody is asking anyone to play with anyone they don't want to, we're just asking to be judged on our own individual merits rather than being disregarded en masse."
Completelt agree. There is a difference to exercising your preference, to it just being rediculous. How in any way does someone wanted to have sexual and romantic relations with both sexes make them less attractive or desirable? |
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"Forgive me if I take the OP's post with a pinch of salt. First of all very few guys girls or those weirdo bi (I include myself in that) guys would inundate anyone with messages when they don't have a single public photo and seem actively hostile to bi guys.
A bi guy filter would be pointless as the vast majority of men here have it in their minds to explore that bi side without being judged for it, threads like this just make the problem worse. Can I ask what puts you off bi guys, do you feel they are unclean or do you feel intimidated in some way. You know you can tell a guy before a meet that you don't play as a bi couple rather than letting it drive you away from a site. We are all entitled to our preferences but this seems to have taken over your profile and any chance of meeting a great guy who "might" want to explore his bi side "
well said, in our experience its straight guys that pester when we clearly prefere bi guys. Bi guys are acutely aware of where they're not wanted. There are a lot of so called straight guys who message us, that after saying were not interested in straight guys , come right out of the closet as bi, mostly to get into the missuses knickers i think. In short i dont think you've had any real issues with bi guys... |
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I rather like bi men... But op, that's what just it's like for single women who are contacted by bi ladies, couples or people who just can't read. There's a piece of magic, actually 2 the delete and the block button ? |
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"Forgive me if I take the OP's post with a pinch of salt. First of all very few guys girls or those weirdo bi (I include myself in that) guys would inundate anyone with messages when they don't have a single public photo and seem actively hostile to bi guys.
A bi guy filter would be pointless as the vast majority of men here have it in their minds to explore that bi side without being judged for it, threads like this just make the problem worse. Can I ask what puts you off bi guys, do you feel they are unclean or do you feel intimidated in some way. You know you can tell a guy before a meet that you don't play as a bi couple rather than letting it drive you away from a site. We are all entitled to our preferences but this seems to have taken over your profile and any chance of meeting a great guy who "might" want to explore his bi side well said, in our experience its straight guys that pester when we clearly prefere bi guys. Bi guys are acutely aware of where they're not wanted. There are a lot of so called straight guys who message us, that after saying were not interested in straight guys , come right out of the closet as bi, mostly to get into the missuses knickers i think. In short i dont think you've had any real issues with bi guys..."
I think that is the general consensus of many users on Fab. You have more straight/single men going OTT than bi guys.
Sh*t, in previous profiles through preference (where I was listed as Bi and before I had the heavyweight "straight" chancers looking to empty their sack quickly) can't seem to take "No" for an answer.
If anything it's the straight guys who throw their toys out of the pram when they get rejected to get a disposable fix, even though they are the ones tailing the Bi guys and couples looking for a Bi Man.
If I don't find somebody attractive (and this goes straight across the board) and they don't have a face pic or refuse to send one (as many on here refuse to do) then refusal often offends.
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Not wanting to meet Bi men isn't judging Bi men,no more than not wanting to meet straight women is judging straight women.seems the only people allowed choice on here is the folk that are into everything. |
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"Not wanting to meet Bi men isn't judging Bi men,no more than not wanting to meet straight women is judging straight women.seems the only people allowed choice on here is the folk that are into everything. "
True, but no need to tell bi guys to go elsewhere |
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Im a cd/tv and get lots of messages on here from 'straight' guys who when questioned say they are bi, I used to delete the messages if it had no mention of meeting tv/cd.... But now I do reply and tell them i wont meet unless their profile says the above.... Most dont change their profile, some do for an hour or so ....as i do not do off the cuff meets i get a couple of days to monitor their profiles and see if they change back To 'straight' in which case the meet is off |
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over a year ago
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com"
I wonder why they have put will meet T.V's?
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev
Who says us bi guys are gonna force our sexuality on you? If you're looking for another guy so your wife can have two guys together, why on earth would you assume the guy ' lol pounce on you at the first opportunity? "
It does happen though which may be why some people prefer not to meet bi guys....the same old story, a few spoiling it for the many of which there are a lot of posts of the forums. |
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev
Who says us bi guys are gonna force our sexuality on you? If you're looking for another guy so your wife can have two guys together, why on earth would you assume the guy ' lol pounce on you at the first opportunity?
It does happen though which may be why some people prefer not to meet bi guys....the same old story, a few spoiling it for the many of which there are a lot of posts of the forums."
Never hear of that happening  That's just a case of a man not taking no as an answer. Nothing to do with bisexuality. Straight men are just as bad when told no. |
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev
Who says us bi guys are gonna force our sexuality on you? If you're looking for another guy so your wife can have two guys together, why on earth would you assume the guy ' lol pounce on you at the first opportunity?
It does happen though which may be why some people prefer not to meet bi guys....the same old story, a few spoiling it for the many of which there are a lot of posts of the forums.
Never hear of that happening That's just a case of a man not taking no as an answer. Nothing to do with bisexuality. Straight men are just as bad when told no. "
Simple - doesn't mater how you identify by gender or sexuality. If you can't accept the word "No", you're fucked either way |
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev
Who says us bi guys are gonna force our sexuality on you? If you're looking for another guy so your wife can have two guys together, why on earth would you assume the guy ' lol pounce on you at the first opportunity?
It does happen though which may be why some people prefer not to meet bi guys....the same old story, a few spoiling it for the many of which there are a lot of posts of the forums.
Never hear of that happening That's just a case of a man not taking no as an answer. Nothing to do with bisexuality. Straight men are just as bad when told no.
Simple - doesn't mater how you identify by gender or sexuality. If you can't accept the word "No", you're fucked either way "
Exactly. That's why I've blocked single guys don't mind the bi young guys, but its the "straight" or bisexual men over 50 who were giving me issues |
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OP has a very confusing profile. Says he will meet couples and TV/TS but the text says he is only looking for a single non bi guy. He says he is looking for someone around his age but will meet up to age 99. SallyS |
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"OP has a very confusing profile. Says he will meet couples and TV/TS but the text says he is only looking for a single non bi guy. He says he is looking for someone around his age but will meet up to age 99. SallyS"
I see what you mean. "Sensible Older guy around our age" just does not make sense to me |
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"Not wanting to meet Bi men isn't judging Bi men,no more than not wanting to meet straight women is judging straight women.seems the only people allowed choice on here is the folk that are into everything.
True, but no need to tell bi guys to go elsewhere "
I agree,you are absolutely right,there is no need for that at all but like others have said why can't there be an option to search for straight single men?We are in a world of equality,that means equality for all,not a select few. |
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"Not wanting to meet Bi men isn't judging Bi men,no more than not wanting to meet straight women is judging straight women.seems the only people allowed choice on here is the folk that are into everything.
True, but no need to tell bi guys to go elsewhere
I agree,you are absolutely right,there is no need for that at all but like others have said why can't there be an option to search for straight single men?We are in a world of equality,that means equality for all,not a select few."
And also, people never give a good reason why they don't wanna meet bi men. Like, saying "I can't see myself with one" is good and all, but to me that just does not give a good explanation. And anyway, some of the most attractive men in the world are bisexual. Does that mean you don't wish to play with them? . (Ryan Reynolds btw) |
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev
Who says us bi guys are gonna force our sexuality on you? If you're looking for another guy so your wife can have two guys together, why on earth would you assume the guy ' lol pounce on you at the first opportunity?
It does happen though which may be why some people prefer not to meet bi guys....the same old story, a few spoiling it for the many of which there are a lot of posts of the forums.
Never hear of that happening That's just a case of a man not taking no as an answer. Nothing to do with bisexuality. Straight men are just as bad when told no.
Simple - doesn't mater how you identify by gender or sexuality. If you can't accept the word "No", you're fucked either way
Exactly. That's why I've blocked single guys don't mind the bi young guys, but its the "straight" or bisexual men over 50 who were giving me issues"
The pure reason why I choose not to advertise my bi side on here. I think I've had more luck out and about than the straight boy chancers (and a number of couples) who can't handle the softest of rejections like they are going through the "terrible two's". More drama than a Corrie or Eastenders omnibus...  |
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"No straight females complaining of attention from other bi females "
I'm going to start a thread
Damn couples who keep mailing me with bi woman, who do they think they are |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com"
I put the same sort of post on 3 weeks ago . we are genuinely thinking of leaving fab also. we belong to other sites and both of them you can block and filter out bi and gay guys .. I want a man . not ? well better not say
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.comI put the same sort of post on 3 weeks ago . we are genuinely thinking of leaving fab also. we belong to other sites and both of them you can block and filter out bi and gay guys .. I want a man . not ? well better not say"
Go on. Say it |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.comI put the same sort of post on 3 weeks ago . we are genuinely thinking of leaving fab also. we belong to other sites and both of them you can block and filter out bi and gay guys .. I want a man . not ? well better not say"
Not sure what the implication is there ? |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.comI put the same sort of post on 3 weeks ago . we are genuinely thinking of leaving fab also. we belong to other sites and both of them you can block and filter out bi and gay guys .. I want a man . not ? well better not say
Not sure what the implication is there ? "
I think that it's we are not real men in some way. No idea how |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.comI put the same sort of post on 3 weeks ago . we are genuinely thinking of leaving fab also. we belong to other sites and both of them you can block and filter out bi and gay guys .. I want a man . not ? well better not say
Not sure what the implication is there ?
I think that it's we are not real men in some way. No idea how"
You think ? I got the impression they think all bi men should leave Fab swingers and only frequent Fabguys . Strange though as we though bisexual meant you liked both sexes not just one ? |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.comI put the same sort of post on 3 weeks ago . we are genuinely thinking of leaving fab also. we belong to other sites and both of them you can block and filter out bi and gay guys .. I want a man . not ? well better not say
Not sure what the implication is there ?
I think that it's we are not real men in some way. No idea how
You think ? I got the impression they think all bi men should leave Fab swingers and only frequent Fabguys . Strange though as we though bisexual meant you liked both sexes not just one ? "
Well, seeming as I have had boyfriends and girlfriends, I think you are correct! It is astounding what some people may believe |
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It seems some people are blink. How I see it is as long as there's boundaries set between all parties involved then y does it matter if the guys are bi when it comes to mmf fun surely it makes it easier |
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You'd be surprised at how many "Straight" men contact me to meet up. Had 3 in the last 12 hours! I don't entertain them because I find the dishonesty off putting.
Be who you are, not everybody is for everybody.
I am curious about the reasons some women won't meet bi men tho. |
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I'd like the same
I don't meet bi guys
The thought of a guy sucking another's guy knob turns me off...hey ho I said it..just my preference and il own it we all have them!!
Not in the slightest homophobic just my preference on MY sex life ..if I can filter gay and TVS why not bi ?
The amount of times bi guys message me then say ..I'm not bi? Then go change there profiles is staggering...if your bi own it!! Don't change it just to get a shag?
It's just MY preference |
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"You'd be surprised at how many "Straight" men contact me to meet up. Had 3 in the last 12 hours! I don't entertain them because I find the dishonesty off putting.
Be who you are, not everybody is for everybody. "
Its a VERY common experience, that one !
"I am curious about the reasons some women won't meet bi men tho. "
So am I.
I also wonder how many of those women watch GAY porn?
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"You'd be surprised at how many "Straight" men contact me to meet up. Had 3 in the last 12 hours! I don't entertain them because I find the dishonesty off putting.
Be who you are, not everybody is for everybody.
Its a VERY common experience, that one !
I am curious about the reasons some women won't meet bi men tho.
So am I.
I also wonder how many of those women watch GAY porn?
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Apparantly it's because we are a "higher risk" of catching something, because people still hold the wrong belief thay men who sleep with men are more likely to have an STD |
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"You'd be surprised at how many "Straight" men contact me to meet up. Had 3 in the last 12 hours! I don't entertain them because I find the dishonesty off putting.
Be who you are, not everybody is for everybody.
Its a VERY common experience, that one !
I am curious about the reasons some women won't meet bi men tho.
So am I.
I also wonder how many of those women watch GAY porn?
Apparantly it's because we are a "higher risk" of catching something, because people still hold the wrong belief thay men who sleep with men are more likely to have an STD"
its like some people need to go back to sex ed classes if they live in that frame of mind.
to me everyone has the same level at which they are a risk but its all about risk assessment and safety in the bedroom |
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"Nope..for me 2 guys do nothing for me...same as 2 chicks
Everyone has a preference...or should as if you didn't you would just shag anything??"
But that's one of the points. If you are just playing with a guy by yourself, what does it matter if he is bi? |
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Are you saying that all men are closet bi ? Or would that just be the way you,d have it ? We have two verifications. We just got a message from a gay guy saying one of the verifications was definitely off a bi guy what the guy didn't realize was the verification was my single profile ? How sad that is and seriously doesn't improve the situation for bi or bi curious men . maybe he,s a closet straight guy ?? |
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Ultimately it doesn't boil down to straight gay bi bi curious it boils down to every holes a goal for single men . man or woman doesn't really matter . |
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"Nope..for me 2 guys do nothing for me...same as 2 chicks
Everyone has a preference...or should as if you didn't you would just shag anything??
But that's one of the points. If you are just playing with a guy by yourself, what does it matter if he is bi?"
because as I said earlier...the thought of 2 guys is not my thing ...my preference
For some it's no ample or no skinny everyone has preferences...no bi guys is mine
If I met a bit guy..I'd be thinking wonder if he's thinking about a man just now ? |
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need to go back to sex ed.
Give the ages and location of the OP I guess they barely got any, and certainly wasn't of any quality.
Bet they wern't even taught about the clit or even how to put a condom on. Homosexuality was still illegal at that time, so it was not taught in the curriculum. The Sun was still calling HIV/AIDS the GAY PLAGUE.
Lets face it swinging clubs are i think still illegal under Scottish law.
"because we are a "higher risk" of catching something, because people still hold the wrong belief that men who sleep with men are more likely to have an STD"
So, like so many, they are just victims of their generational indoctrination. |
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"need to go back to sex ed.
Give the ages and location of the OP I guess they barely got any, and certainly wasn't of any quality.
Bet they wern't even taught about the clit or even how to put a condom on. Homosexuality was still illegal at that time, so it was not taught in the curriculum. The Sun was still calling HIV/AIDS the GAY PLAGUE.
Lets face it swinging clubs are i think still illegal under Scottish law.
because we are a "higher risk" of catching something, because people still hold the wrong belief that men who sleep with men are more likely to have an STD
So, like so many, they are just victims of their generational indoctrination."
There are a number of swingers clubs in Scotland in actual fact.
As for not playing with bi guys I personally don't agree with the theory that there is an extra risk of Std's.
I simply don't fantasise about guys getting it on together. I don't like gay porn and I don't have any phobia or fear of them.
It is simple preference that I like straight guys.
Apparently for some however a preference that excludes them is immediately explained away as some kind of prejudice.
Going back the the op's point I would like to see a way to exclude bi and gay guys from searches. It would save me time. |
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"Nope..for me 2 guys do nothing for me...same as 2 chicks
Everyone has a preference...or should as if you didn't you would just shag anything??
But that's one of the points. If you are just playing with a guy by yourself, what does it matter if he is bi?because as I said earlier...the thought of 2 guys is not my thing ...my preference
For some it's no ample or no skinny everyone has preferences...no bi guys is mine
If I met a bit guy..I'd be thinking wonder if he's thinking about a man just now ? "
So it's more of an insecurity thing than anything else? Because the fact that he is playing with you alone, means you don't have to think of him playing with another man. The fact that some people do that just mind boggles me |
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Why does it have to be such a problem...do you not have any preferences?
As Iv said before...it's a preference of my sex life..nothing more
No big deal no drama no end of the world as we know it |
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"Why does it have to be such a problem...do you not have any preferences?
As Iv said before...it's a preference of my sex life..nothing more
No big deal no drama no end of the world as we know it "
But to me, it does not seem to be a preference. Just makes no sense to me |
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"Why does it have to be such a problem...do you not have any preferences?
As Iv said before...it's a preference of my sex life..nothing more
No big deal no drama no end of the world as we know it
But to me, it does not seem to be a preference. Just makes no sense to me"
that's OK...it dosnt have to make sense to you....it's my preference |
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"I am guilty of messaging "straight" guys for a meet but my success rate is so high why would I stop !!! "
They pretend to be straight. You pretend they are straight. Sounds like you are all happy with the pretence so why should anyone else have a problem with it.
Even if we don't buy into the illusion. |
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"Why does it have to be such a problem...do you not have any preferences?
As Iv said before...it's a preference of my sex life..nothing more
No big deal no drama no end of the world as we know it
But to me, it does not seem to be a preference. Just makes no sense to methat's OK...it dosnt have to make sense to you....it's my preference "
Looking at your profile, I actually meet a lot of your criteria - tall, bearded, not over weight, have been verified, fine with a social meet first - yet I'm excluded cos I shagged a couple of guys over a year ago. I know you girls are spoiled for choice but...... |
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"The fear of Bi men usually means there's underlying Bi tendancies .
Any physiologist will tell u .
What total rubbish "
Totally. However it is pointless repudiating irrational nonsense like this with logic.
Just ignore it.
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"Why does it have to be such a problem...do you not have any preferences?
As Iv said before...it's a preference of my sex life..nothing more
No big deal no drama no end of the world as we know it
But to me, it does not seem to be a preference. Just makes no sense to methat's OK...it dosnt have to make sense to you....it's my preference
Looking at your profile, I actually meet a lot of your criteria - tall, bearded, not over weight, have been verified, fine with a social meet first - yet I'm excluded cos I shagged a couple of guys over a year ago. I know you girls are spoiled for choice but......"
shame your bi then
Seriously tho...it's a preference no clue why folk are getting so up tight ?
Some folk won't meet cpls...some folk won't meet ample chicks some folk won't meet brunettes...it's a preference..no right or wrong  |
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"Why does it have to be such a problem...do you not have any preferences?
As Iv said before...it's a preference of my sex life..nothing more
No big deal no drama no end of the world as we know it
But to me, it does not seem to be a preference. Just makes no sense to methat's OK...it dosnt have to make sense to you....it's my preference
Looking at your profile, I actually meet a lot of your criteria - tall, bearded, not over weight, have been verified, fine with a social meet first - yet I'm excluded cos I shagged a couple of guys over a year ago. I know you girls are spoiled for choice but......shame your bi then
Seriously tho...it's a preference no clue why folk are getting so up tight ?
Some folk won't meet cpls...some folk won't meet ample chicks some folk won't meet brunettes...it's a preference..no right or wrong "
I'd say that the fact you're also at the other end of the country might be a more obvious sticking point. Ah, what might have been eh? lol. |
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"Why does it have to be such a problem...do you not have any preferences?
As Iv said before...it's a preference of my sex life..nothing more
No big deal no drama no end of the world as we know it
But to me, it does not seem to be a preference. Just makes no sense to methat's OK...it dosnt have to make sense to you....it's my preference
Looking at your profile, I actually meet a lot of your criteria - tall, bearded, not over weight, have been verified, fine with a social meet first - yet I'm excluded cos I shagged a couple of guys over a year ago. I know you girls are spoiled for choice but......shame your bi then
Seriously tho...it's a preference no clue why folk are getting so up tight ?
Some folk won't meet cpls...some folk won't meet ample chicks some folk won't meet brunettes...it's a preference..no right or wrong "
I agree with you. We choose not to meet straight men or women, our preference, just as yours are your own. I don't see why people are getting upright over your personal life lol. |
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"Think we've found something in between a preference and a phobia - an idiosyncrasy of the human mind, a sexual OCD, lol. "
Agreed. Just seems how we could meet someones criteria perfectly, but the fact that we like men too just puts them off us is complete idiocy |
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"Think we've found something in between a preference and a phobia - an idiosyncrasy of the human mind, a sexual OCD, lol.
Agreed. Just seems how we could meet someones criteria perfectly, but the fact that we like men too just puts them off us is complete idiocy"
What really made me laugh was the comments about worrying the guy was thinking of another guy. Seriously? Hasn't this thread shown how many bi and gay guys are here. Why put the time in to chatting up a single woman on here and getting a meet against the odds, just to fantasise about the guys who e-mail you constantly with offers.  |
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"Think we've found something in between a preference and a phobia - an idiosyncrasy of the human mind, a sexual OCD, lol.
Agreed. Just seems how we could meet someones criteria perfectly, but the fact that we like men too just puts them off us is complete idiocy"
If they aren't looking for Bi men then you aren't meeting their criteria. |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com"
Half the straight men on fab are bi when you read their verification''s about how they like to suck cock etc. |
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"Think we've found something in between a preference and a phobia - an idiosyncrasy of the human mind, a sexual OCD, lol.
Agreed. Just seems how we could meet someones criteria perfectly, but the fact that we like men too just puts them off us is complete idiocy
What really made me laugh was the comments about worrying the guy was thinking of another guy. Seriously? Hasn't this thread shown how many bi and gay guys are here. Why put the time in to chatting up a single woman on here and getting a meet against the odds, just to fantasise about the guys who e-mail you constantly with offers. "
again...? your comming across a tad bitter...why worry about someone you don't know or will never meet?
Toys out the pram springs to mind...Iv no concern about folk that Im not their cup of Tea..accept it and move on to those that are
Why the need to pick apart someone's preferences
Why do some only like black guys?does that bother you also because your white but still have a cock?
Choices mate...all about choices |
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"We my point exactly they should respect your preferences . "
So that includes the 100s upon 100s of bi men with straight profiles who message us claiming to be actually bi ? |
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If you Don't want Bi or gay messaging you, why would you want straight guys getting in touch, just an observation
you can block males in general.
Silly debatable topic me thinks |
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"If you Don't want Bi or gay messaging you, why would you want straight guys getting in touch, just an observation
you can block males in general.
Silly debatable topic me thinks "
Why is it silly.We want to meet straight guys,so blocking all guys defeats that avenue.We choose not to meet Bi guys,we tell folk that on our profile,but hey,who reads profiles? |
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"If you Don't want Bi or gay messaging you, why would you want straight guys getting in touch, just an observation
you can block males in general.
Silly debatable topic me thinks
Why is it silly.We want to meet straight guys,so blocking all guys defeats that avenue.We choose not to meet Bi guys,we tell folk that on our profile,but hey,who reads profiles?"
The trouble is the poor sensitive little petals cannot imagine someone not wanting to have sex with unless they are undeniably homophobic.
Everyone is allowed preferences obviously. But if that preference is not being interested in bi or gay guys then that is clearly homophobic.
Hopefully that clarifies the confusion for you |
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"If you Don't want Bi or gay messaging you, why would you want straight guys getting in touch, just an observation
you can block males in general.
Silly debatable topic me thinks
Why is it silly.We want to meet straight guys,so blocking all guys defeats that avenue.We choose not to meet Bi guys,we tell folk that on our profile,but hey,who reads profiles?
The trouble is the poor sensitive little petals cannot imagine someone not wanting to have sex with unless they are undeniably homophobic.
Everyone is allowed preferences obviously. But if that preference is not being interested in bi or gay guys then that is clearly homophobic.
Hopefully that clarifies the confusion for you "
Wrong?
So we don't want sex with folk as young as our kids,does then make us ageist? NO.
We don't want BDSM sex,does the make us cowards? NO.
We don't want sex with others outside,does that make us agrophobic? NO.
We don't want sex with bi guys,because that's our choice.they have their lifestyle choices,so do we.
So it's clearly NOT homophobic.
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"If you Don't want Bi or gay messaging you, why would you want straight guys getting in touch, just an observation
you can block males in general.
Silly debatable topic me thinks
Why is it silly.We want to meet straight guys,so blocking all guys defeats that avenue.We choose not to meet Bi guys,we tell folk that on our profile,but hey,who reads profiles?
The trouble is the poor sensitive little petals cannot imagine someone not wanting to have sex with unless they are undeniably homophobic.
Everyone is allowed preferences obviously. But if that preference is not being interested in bi or gay guys then that is clearly homophobic.
Hopefully that clarifies the confusion for you
Wrong?
So we don't want sex with folk as young as our kids,does then make us ageist? NO.
We don't want BDSM sex,does the make us cowards? NO.
We don't want sex with others outside,does that make us agrophobic? NO.
We don't want sex with bi guys,because that's our choice.they have their lifestyle choices,so do we.
So it's clearly NOT homophobic.
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"If you Don't want Bi or gay messaging you, why would you want straight guys getting in touch, just an observation
you can block males in general.
Silly debatable topic me thinks
Why is it silly.We want to meet straight guys,so blocking all guys defeats that avenue.We choose not to meet Bi guys,we tell folk that on our profile,but hey,who reads profiles?
The trouble is the poor sensitive little petals cannot imagine someone not wanting to have sex with unless they are undeniably homophobic.
Everyone is allowed preferences obviously. But if that preference is not being interested in bi or gay guys then that is clearly homophobic.
Hopefully that clarifies the confusion for you
Wrong?
So we don't want sex with folk as young as our kids,does then make us ageist? NO.
We don't want BDSM sex,does the make us cowards? NO.
We don't want sex with others outside,does that make us agrophobic? NO.
We don't want sex with bi guys,because that's our choice.they have their lifestyle choices,so do we.
So it's clearly NOT homophobic.
well said "
Its less of a lifestyle choice and more of a "I was born this way and can't control my feelings about some people, be they male or female" thing. Lifestyle choice is if you choose to live like that. I did not choose to find men attractive |
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"Phobia ? Dont blow it out of proportion , I want to know why you can't search for straight seems I hit a nerve with some going by some of these replies , I chose to be straight it says straight on our profile it says no bi or bicurious and still we re inundated . each to there own I Dont force my sexuality on others I won't have there's forced on me . yes I can delete and block , I shouldn't have to ! Our preferences are made clear in the profilev"
because you cant..thats why not... |
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"Not wanting to meet Bi men isn't judging Bi men,no more than not wanting to meet straight women is judging straight women.seems the only people allowed choice on here is the folk that are into everything.
True, but no need to tell bi guys to go elsewhere
I agree,you are absolutely right,there is no need for that at all but like others have said why can't there be an option to search for straight single men?We are in a world of equality,that means equality for all,not a select few.
And also, people never give a good reason why they don't wanna meet bi men. Like, saying "I can't see myself with one" is good and all, but to me that just does not give a good explanation. And anyway, some of the most attractive men in the world are bisexual. Does that mean you don't wish to play with them? . (Ryan Reynolds btw)"
why the need to give a reason ?? |
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"If you Don't want Bi or gay messaging you, why would you want straight guys getting in touch, just an observation
you can block males in general.
Silly debatable topic me thinks
Why is it silly.We want to meet straight guys,so blocking all guys defeats that avenue.We choose not to meet Bi guys,we tell folk that on our profile,but hey,who reads profiles?
The trouble is the poor sensitive little petals cannot imagine someone not wanting to have sex with unless they are undeniably homophobic.
Everyone is allowed preferences obviously. But if that preference is not being interested in bi or gay guys then that is clearly homophobic.
Hopefully that clarifies the confusion for you
Wrong?
So we don't want sex with folk as young as our kids,does then make us ageist? NO.
We don't want BDSM sex,does the make us cowards? NO.
We don't want sex with others outside,does that make us agrophobic? NO.
We don't want sex with bi guys,because that's our choice.they have their lifestyle choices,so do we.
So it's clearly NOT homophobic.
well said
Its less of a lifestyle choice and more of a "I was born this way and can't control my feelings about some people, be they male or female" thing. Lifestyle choice is if you choose to live like that. I did not choose to find men attractive"
and I choose not to meet bi guys
It is that simple |
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"If you Don't want Bi or gay messaging you, why would you want straight guys getting in touch, just an observation
you can block males in general.
Silly debatable topic me thinks
Why is it silly.We want to meet straight guys,so blocking all guys defeats that avenue.We choose not to meet Bi guys,we tell folk that on our profile,but hey,who reads profiles?
The trouble is the poor sensitive little petals cannot imagine someone not wanting to have sex with unless they are undeniably homophobic.
Everyone is allowed preferences obviously. But if that preference is not being interested in bi or gay guys then that is clearly homophobic.
Hopefully that clarifies the confusion for you
Wrong?
So we don't want sex with folk as young as our kids,does then make us ageist? NO.
We don't want BDSM sex,does the make us cowards? NO.
We don't want sex with others outside,does that make us agrophobic? NO.
We don't want sex with bi guys,because that's our choice.they have their lifestyle choices,so do we.
So it's clearly NOT homophobic.
well said
Its less of a lifestyle choice and more of a "I was born this way and can't control my feelings about some people, be they male or female" thing. Lifestyle choice is if you choose to live like that. I did not choose to find men attractiveand I choose not to meet bi guys
It is that simple "
Yes, but you phrased it like we chose to like men. That's just wrong |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com"
as others have said use the filter to block single males which then means you can look for the straight guys you like the look of and message them you know not hard work unless you simply want to lay back and have them do all the work for you after all you get out of fab what you put in |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com
as others have said use the filter to block single males which then means you can look for the straight guys you like the look of and message them you know not hard work unless you simply want to lay back and have them do all the work for you after all you get out of fab what you put in"
But that's the point,they want a filter where they can do the search themselves,and they want t to search for straight single men,not Bi single men.why is that so difficult to understand? |
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Exactly...why is it THAT difficult to understand?
Look way up at the OP SAID post...filters for bi guys
Its not a post in why some don't meet bi guys
Which this has turned out to be
Folks preferences are no one else's business but their own
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com
as others have said use the filter to block single males which then means you can look for the straight guys you like the look of and message them you know not hard work unless you simply want to lay back and have them do all the work for you after all you get out of fab what you put in
But that's the point,they want a filter where they can do the search themselves,and they want t to search for straight single men,not Bi single men.why is that so difficult to understand?"
Who decides whether a feature request will be processed? What's the criteria?
If a minority want a filter then there's no use building it. Fab won't lose much.
You say there is a sister site but there is a need here for females and couples to meet bi men. So blocking bi men from this site is a silly product choice. |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com
as others have said use the filter to block single males which then means you can look for the straight guys you like the look of and message them you know not hard work unless you simply want to lay back and have them do all the work for you after all you get out of fab what you put in
But that's the point,they want a filter where they can do the search themselves,and they want t to search for straight single men,not Bi single men.why is that so difficult to understand?
Who decides whether a feature request will be processed? What's the criteria?
If a minority want a filter then there's no use building it. Fab won't lose much.
You say there is a sister site but there is a need here for females and couples to meet bi men. So blocking bi men from this site is a silly product choice. "
actually the question before it was taken and twisted was why can't you search for straight men , you can search by race etc . it seems the straight man is becoming the minority , as for cpls searching for bi meneven though my suggestion of fabguys was twisted into "kick bi men from the site" surely an account there for couples would ease your search and avoid you making "the mistake" of finding a straight man ?? |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com
as others have said use the filter to block single males which then means you can look for the straight guys you like the look of and message them you know not hard work unless you simply want to lay back and have them do all the work for you after all you get out of fab what you put in
But that's the point,they want a filter where they can do the search themselves,and they want t to search for straight single men,not Bi single men.why is that so difficult to understand?
Who decides whether a feature request will be processed? What's the criteria?
If a minority want a filter then there's no use building it. Fab won't lose much.
You say there is a sister site but there is a need here for females and couples to meet bi men. So blocking bi men from this site is a silly product choice. actually the question before it was taken and twisted was why can't you search for straight men , you can search by race etc . it seems the straight man is becoming the minority , as for cpls searching for bi meneven though my suggestion of fabguys was twisted into "kick bi men from the site" surely an account there for couples would ease your search and avoid you making "the mistake" of finding a straight man ?? "
Perhaps straight men being a "minority" is because more men are becoming more happy to finally admit who they really are |
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"Exactly...why is it THAT difficult to understand?
Look way up at the OP SAID post...filters for bi guys
Its not a post in why some don't meet bi guys
Which this has turned out to be
Folks preferences are no one else's business but their own
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But there are some who feel they need to push their little thang so to speak. I'd say the so called minority isnt as much a minority as is being suggested....All one is going on is the forums and that only represents 2 or 3% of fab profiles...so its rather unrepresentative of the bigger picture. |
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"Seems strange but there is no way of searching for straight men yet you can search for bi or bi curious ?? Starting to niggle the amount of guys I have messaging , thinking of leaving its gone so bad. There is a sister site for the undecided www.fab guys.com
as others have said use the filter to block single males which then means you can look for the straight guys you like the look of and message them you know not hard work unless you simply want to lay back and have them do all the work for you after all you get out of fab what you put in
But that's the point,they want a filter where they can do the search themselves,and they want t to search for straight single men,not Bi single men.why is that so difficult to understand?
Who decides whether a feature request will be processed? What's the criteria?
If a minority want a filter then there's no use building it. Fab won't lose much.
You say there is a sister site but there is a need here for females and couples to meet bi men. So blocking bi men from this site is a silly product choice. actually the question before it was taken and twisted was why can't you search for straight men , you can search by race etc . it seems the straight man is becoming the minority , as for cpls searching for bi meneven though my suggestion of fabguys was twisted into "kick bi men from the site" surely an account there for couples would ease your search and avoid you making "the mistake" of finding a straight man ?? "
There is already a bisexual filter in advanced search. So it's possible in fab to find bisexual guys or couples. Just not the other way round.
I'm intrigued in what the response from admins are. I'm a product person in my work life. Usually we learn to say no to everything unless it's valuable to all, increases conversion etc. |
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To be honest there are so many men on here who claim straight on their prof , just so they dont put women off them. But they are happy to hit me up for casual bj or more , so straight may not mean what you think. |
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"We can understand your thinking behind wishing you had the sort of filter you suggest. Personally I think it would be good to have one so you can either block straight or bi persons based on personal preferences.
We would then be able to block those who identify as straight on their profiles but tell us they are bi in messages
At the moment a lot of bi or bi curious men do identify as straight on their profiles due to stigma or because people don't meet bi men and they think it limits their choices. However with us it has the opposite because if they say straight we delete straight away. Double edged sword really I suppose.
Double edged sword with we three as well . If the profile doesn't state bi then it's always : " bi-bi" . The straight people who don't wish to meet bi people - as is their right - would be simply AMAZED at the 100's upon 100's of messages off straight men who message with : " I'm actually bi but put straight on my profile because it puts women and couples off "
I kind of get that from a certain angle.
I'm a fully bi male but don't advertise it due to the atrocious amount of so-called straight guys who try and get a last minute BJ or shag before their wife or gf are back on the scene. Even worse are the guys who have turned up and look f*** all like their pics.
Kind of off putting.
But surely that also limits your possibilities of meeting and having fun with bi couples you may wish to do so with. Each to their own but we prefer honesty from the beginning as I'm sure most other people do as well, regardless of bi, straight or any other circumstance.
Yes and no. To be honest the level of couples I have spoken to on here from my own different profiles over the years (bi single male, couples profile and now) that I/we've found have been pretty self absorbed and far from how they portray themselves from their write up.
Now I don't tar and feather everyone with the same brush but the sad scenario is that there are many couples who are time wasters or fantasists. But a long way to go yet.
When it happens, it will happen. Comfortability is the key.
We have had many of nasty messages on this forum because of what we are looking for, it's a shame really as we have been honest on our profile about what interests us. Could of always lied and put crap on. It's a shame really as I think this site is good for everyone's needs.
We are on Fabguys as well and the information is exactly the same. Happy swinging everyone. "
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