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"Slim !! Not fat. Athletic !! Muscles, even if they're small ones. Average !! Idk what this means exactly but most people will be this coz average means what is usual. Curvy!! Round parts. Ample !! Fat. Fabulous !! Opted out of classifying yourself option. I'm not measuring myself with tapes unless you're buying me clothes. "  | |||
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"Slim !! Not fat. Athletic !! Muscles, even if they're small ones. Average !! Idk what this means exactly but most people will be this coz average means what is usual. Curvy!! Round parts. Ample !! Fat. Fabulous !! Opted out of classifying yourself option. I'm not measuring myself with tapes unless you're buying me clothes. "  | |||
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"Slim !! Not fat. Athletic !! Muscles, even if they're small ones. Average !! Idk what this means exactly but most people will be this coz average means what is usual. Curvy!! Round parts. Ample !! Fat. Fabulous !! Opted out of classifying yourself option. I'm not measuring myself with tapes unless you're buying me clothes. " Well put | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either!" Why should people put their dress size. Unless as feir says you're buying them clothes. I think the words are clear enough. | |||
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"Slim !! Not fat. Athletic !! Muscles, even if they're small ones. Average !! Idk what this means exactly but most people will be this coz average means what is usual. Curvy!! Round parts. Ample !! Fat. Fabulous !! Opted out of classifying yourself option. I'm not measuring myself with tapes unless you're buying me clothes. " True but what if somene wanted to surprise you with a lovely dress to wear on the night? He could end up buying you an M and you could be an XXL you see the Point? | |||
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"Slim !! Not fat. Athletic !! Muscles, even if they're small ones. Average !! Idk what this means exactly but most people will be this coz average means what is usual. Curvy!! Round parts. Ample !! Fat. Fabulous !! Opted out of classifying yourself option. I'm not measuring myself with tapes unless you're buying me clothes. True but what if somene wanted to surprise you with a lovely dress to wear on the night? He could end up buying you an M and you could be an XXL you see the Point?" Yes i forgot about that, despite getting so many offers from guys wanting to buy me clothes...  | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either!" European sizes? British? American?Australian? generic SML? is that a slim cut? a fitted one? loose fit? high waist? a line? could you really honestly tell the difference between a 14 and a 16? an 18 or a 20? 38? 39? because next or marks and Spencer can't either...I bought 2 bras the other day. they nothing fit but one is a 38E and the other a 40DD. | |||
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"Slim !! Not fat. Athletic !! Muscles, even if they're small ones. Average !! Idk what this means exactly but most people will be this coz average means what is usual. Curvy!! Round parts. Ample !! Fat. Fabulous !! Opted out of classifying yourself option. I'm not measuring myself with tapes unless you're buying me clothes. True but what if somene wanted to surprise you with a lovely dress to wear on the night? He could end up buying you an M and you could be an XXL you see the Point?" Grey bought me some things to wear from Lovehoney. I made sure he knew my size  | |||
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"There are some very 'free form' interpretations of the categories :/" | |||
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"Does this also apply to guys cock sizes? The amount of VVWE profiles have pics of a 5 inch cock." | |||
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"If anyone is that bothered about EXACTLY what size and shape I am, I don't want to meet them. I am "fabulous", by which I mean that no-one is putting me in a box. " Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? " I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either!" Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop." Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion?" You don't need to see me. | |||
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"Slim !! Not fat. Athletic !! Muscles, even if they're small ones. Average !! Idk what this means exactly but most people will be this coz average means what is usual. Curvy!! Round parts. Ample !! Fat. Fabulous !! Opted out of classifying yourself option. I'm not measuring myself with tapes unless you're buying me clothes. True but what if somene wanted to surprise you with a lovely dress to wear on the night? He could end up buying you an M and you could be an XXL you see the Point?" I think most women on here are more than capable of buying their own | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? You don't need to see me." Because you have a beautiful mind | |||
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"Slim !! Not fat. Athletic !! Muscles, even if they're small ones. Average !! Idk what this means exactly but most people will be this coz average means what is usual. Curvy!! Round parts. Ample !! Fat. Fabulous !! Opted out of classifying yourself option. I'm not measuring myself with tapes unless you're buying me clothes. True but what if somene wanted to surprise you with a lovely dress to wear on the night? He could end up buying you an M and you could be an XXL you see the Point? I think most women on here are more than capable of buying their own "You mean... a Gigolo? | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? You don't need to see me. Because you have a beautiful mind "Probably but this is a sex site not a Marriage site! lol | |||
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"Slim !! Not fat. Athletic !! Muscles, even if they're small ones. Average !! Idk what this means exactly but most people will be this coz average means what is usual. Curvy!! Round parts. Ample !! Fat. Fabulous !! Opted out of classifying yourself option. I'm not measuring myself with tapes unless you're buying me clothes. True but what if somene wanted to surprise you with a lovely dress to wear on the night? He could end up buying you an M and you could be an XXL you see the Point? I think most women on here are more than capable of buying their own
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business." Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List?" Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed" No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!!" lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me." Hmmm... somehow I don't find that hard to believe you!!! | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!!" I'm also a winner and get to choose from very lovely men. I don't want men who only want the popular ladies,to boost their egos. | |||
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"What about Being literal? - skin and bones - slim - average - toned - larger - BBW - SSBBW - chunky - extremely wobbly - can't get out of bed" Yeah that's more like it! | |||
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"What about Being literal? - skin and bones - slim - average - toned - larger - BBW - SSBBW - chunky - extremely wobbly - can't get out of bed Yeah that's more like it!" Shouldn't toned come before average? | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me." Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear...  | |||
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"What about Being literal? - skin and bones - slim - average - toned - larger - BBW - SSBBW - chunky - extremely wobbly - can't get out of bed Yeah that's more like it! Shouldn't toned come before average?" Toned or... Toes!!! | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear... "Are all the men at your parties young,muscular and as fit as the women who work for you? Men who pay to attend I mean. | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear... "lol, i can buy my own clothes. am a strong independent woman. i am not revealing my clothes size for OP haha. meets have offered to buy me things they want me to wear for them but i declined because i don't like being dressed up like that, they were ok about it. | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear...
Are all the men at your parties young,muscular and as fit as the women who work for you? Men who pay to attend I mean."Yeah! | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear...
Are all the men at your parties young,muscular and as fit as the women who work for you? Men who pay to attend I mean.
Yeah!"Oh really lol | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear...
Are all the men at your parties young,muscular and as fit as the women who work for you? Men who pay to attend I mean.
Yeah!
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear...
Are all the men at your parties young,muscular and as fit as the women who work for you? Men who pay to attend I mean.
Yeah!
Oh really lol
... and you ought to see their feet!!! "I hate feet! | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear...
Are all the men at your parties young,muscular and as fit as the women who work for you? Men who pay to attend I mean.
Yeah!
Oh really lol
... and you ought to see their feet!!!
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"What about Being literal? - skin and bones - slim - average - toned - larger - BBW - SSBBW - chunky - extremely wobbly - can't get out of bed Yeah that's more like it! Shouldn't toned come before average?" . Could be either way...i used to be skinny then toned, now I'm average, but i intend to get back to toned | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? You don't need to see me. Because you have a beautiful mind
Probably but this is a sex site not a Marriage site! lol"And I am currently not looking for sex, which is why neither you, nor anyone else, needs to see me. Besides, having been told I'm a 1 out of 10 on here a few days ago, clearly there would be no point. As a "bog standard munter with a wizard's sleeve", (something I've also been called on the fora), it's obvious nobody would want to meet me. Mind you, since I've never had photos of my lady parts on here, how they would know I have a wizard's sleeve is unclear. Oh, and as it happens, I've reached the top hot pics pages a few times, reaching page 2 at one point, (despite being a 1/10). I couldn't pick and choose from anyone I couldn't have met before I appeared there. Hot pics is great for the egos of certain people and a competition/obsession for some, but for most of us being on there does not give us any sort of advantage. | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List?" I haven't the slightest interest in getting on the Most Fab'd List. | |||
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"OP if a woman's size is important to you then ask the woman individually quite how fat they are "How fat are you really? | |||
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"I would suggest looking at pics & then having a social meet 1st. If someone isn't marching what they look like on here then it will be blindingly obvious." That's why we look at pictures and we gather them together to Parties... We actually call them Adult Social Events for Busy People  | |||
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"Are you comfortable in your own skin? Well who really cares. We are all different. genetics play a huge part in what shape we are. I think I'm average... Some folk would say curvy... Some would say overweight. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. " True it's just happens to be the eyes of most beholders that would fab more pictures than others and those can be notes and appreciated in the Top Fabbed Photos or is it not? Would you argue that is also discriminating on those photos NOT sufficiently clicked? | |||
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"I would suggest looking at pics & then having a social meet 1st. If someone isn't marching what they look like on here then it will be blindingly obvious. That's why we look at pictures and we gather them together to Parties... We actually call them Adult Social Events for Busy People "I tick the boxes of ~ adult / social & busy! | |||
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"There is absolutely no need to have any size definition on a profile, the answer is simple a full body shot from a reasonable distance will show everyone what shape, size anybody is....simple and then no need to put people in categories. We go on the rule, the closer the shot the bigger the person, presently...." I totally agree | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? I haven't the slightest interest in getting on the Most Fab'd List. " Yes it's easy Said than achieved! | |||
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"There are about 8 different female body types (pear, hourglass, striaght, apple etc) Then height and build make these body types different again I'm the same clothes size as a friend, but we have completely different body types and look very different The sizes on here I see as a guide, you pick the category that you believe you fit into, " The trouble is what you 'believe' you git in dies not necessarily fit others... Does it not? | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? You don't need to see me. Because you have a beautiful mind
Probably but this is a sex site not a Marriage site! lol
And I am currently not looking for sex, which is why neither you, nor anyone else, needs to see me.
Besides, having been told I'm a 1 out of 10 on here a few days ago, clearly there would be no point. As a "bog standard munter with a wizard's sleeve", (something I've also been called on the fora), it's obvious nobody would want to meet me.
Mind you, since I've never had photos of my lady parts on here, how they would know I have a wizard's sleeve is unclear.
Oh, and as it happens, I've reached the top hot pics pages a few times, reaching page 2 at one point, (despite being a 1/10). I couldn't pick and choose from anyone I couldn't have met before I appeared there.
Hot pics is great for the egos of certain people and a competition/obsession for some, but for most of us being on there does not give us any sort of advantage."So why on earth are you taking part of this thread for? Umbelievable some people!!! | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear...
Are all the men at your parties young,muscular and as fit as the women who work for you? Men who pay to attend I mean.
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? You don't need to see me. Because you have a beautiful mind
Probably but this is a sex site not a Marriage site! lol
And I am currently not looking for sex, which is why neither you, nor anyone else, needs to see me.
Besides, having been told I'm a 1 out of 10 on here a few days ago, clearly there would be no point. As a "bog standard munter with a wizard's sleeve", (something I've also been called on the fora), it's obvious nobody would want to meet me.
Mind you, since I've never had photos of my lady parts on here, how they would know I have a wizard's sleeve is unclear.
Oh, and as it happens, I've reached the top hot pics pages a few times, reaching page 2 at one point, (despite being a 1/10). I couldn't pick and choose from anyone I couldn't have met before I appeared there.
Hot pics is great for the egos of certain people and a competition/obsession for some, but for most of us being on there does not give us any sort of advantage.
So why on earth are you taking part of this thread for? Umbelievable some people!!!"Because she can and wants to besides the op was not about getting on the top of the fabbed list, it was about dealing with the ambiguity of sizing | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? You don't need to see me. Because you have a beautiful mind
Probably but this is a sex site not a Marriage site! lol
And I am currently not looking for sex, which is why neither you, nor anyone else, needs to see me.
Besides, having been told I'm a 1 out of 10 on here a few days ago, clearly there would be no point. As a "bog standard munter with a wizard's sleeve", (something I've also been called on the fora), it's obvious nobody would want to meet me.
Mind you, since I've never had photos of my lady parts on here, how they would know I have a wizard's sleeve is unclear.
Oh, and as it happens, I've reached the top hot pics pages a few times, reaching page 2 at one point, (despite being a 1/10). I couldn't pick and choose from anyone I couldn't have met before I appeared there.
Hot pics is great for the egos of certain people and a competition/obsession for some, but for most of us being on there does not give us any sort of advantage."I had not heard of the expression "wizards sleeve" before, I had to google it. Challenge now is to get it into a conversation today! | |||
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"There are about 8 different female body types (pear, hourglass, striaght, apple etc) Then height and build make these body types different again I'm the same clothes size as a friend, but we have completely different body types and look very different The sizes on here I see as a guide, you pick the category that you believe you fit into, The trouble is what you 'believe' you git in dies not necessarily fit others... Does it not?" But that can be said for anything used to describe body type. The person completing their profile can put themselves as anything they want, so any descriptors are open for interpretation. Hence why I take the approach that what ever someone as put themselves, that's a guide to how they see themselves | |||
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"There is absolutely no need to have any size definition on a profile, the answer is simple a full body shot from a reasonable distance will show everyone what shape, size anybody is....simple and then no need to put people in categories. We go on the rule, the closer the shot the bigger the person, presently...." Go on whatever rule you like. I have at least 3 full length photos on my profile when it's visible (i.e. when I'm looking), none of which were taken from "clever" or "flattering" angles. Unfortunately, having honest photos attracts a lot of insults from total strangers, some of which have actually driven me away from even having meets at the moment. Personally, from experience, I can well see why women are disincentivised from actually showing what they look like. Some arseholes can't just move on if someone doesn't appeal, they just have to be vile and insulting. | |||
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"OP if a woman's size is important to you then ask the woman individually quite how fat they are
How fat are you really?"My profile, when visible, has 3 full length body shots not from flattering or misleading angles. The text states exactly how much I am overweight and describes, clearly, how the weight is distributed. The result of that has been continual, frequent and vicious abuse by complete strangers, to the extent it's finally worn me down and made me take a break from meeting and consider leaving permanently. I'm not for a lot of people. Why should I have to tolerate continual abuse though? I should add, a lot of the insults come totally out of the blue, from men hundreds of miles away, whose profiles I've never looked at, never mind winked or messaged. I also don't find the majority of these men attractive, ironically, but I'd never dream of sending a spontaneous message to say that. Some men seem to think only people they fancy belong on this site or should have any self confidence at all. They take offence at seeing anyone they consider unattractive and insist on trying to make that person feel like shit. That might well explain why a lot of women aren't absolutely clear about their shape and size. | |||
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"OP if a woman's size is important to you then ask the woman individually quite how fat they are
How fat are you really?
My profile, when visible, has 3 full length body shots not from flattering or misleading angles. The text states exactly how much I am overweight and describes, clearly, how the weight is distributed.
The result of that has been continual, frequent and vicious abuse by complete strangers, to the extent it's finally worn me down and made me take a break from meeting and consider leaving permanently.
I'm not for a lot of people. Why should I have to tolerate continual abuse though? I should add, a lot of the insults come totally out of the blue, from men hundreds of miles away, whose profiles I've never looked at, never mind winked or messaged. I also don't find the majority of these men attractive, ironically, but I'd never dream of sending a spontaneous message to say that.
Some men seem to think only people they fancy belong on this site or should have any self confidence at all. They take offence at seeing anyone they consider unattractive and insist on trying to make that person feel like shit.
That might well explain why a lot of women aren't absolutely clear about their shape and size."No you shouldn't get abuse for being honest, and especially not for just being who you are. Loads of guys don't appeal to me and i'd never dream of telling them they're *whatever insult here* just because i don't find them attractive. Some have loads of meets as well so obviously they're attractive to others and it's just my standard that is the problem when it comes to them being attractive to me. I can't really say don't leave (i don't want you to though) or to put up with it or whatever coz i don't have to deal with that so i'd be a hypocrite there if i did. I hope i never fuck a guy who thinks it's ok to make women feel like shit for being fat though. | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? You don't need to see me. Because you have a beautiful mind
Probably but this is a sex site not a Marriage site! lol
And I am currently not looking for sex, which is why neither you, nor anyone else, needs to see me.
Besides, having been told I'm a 1 out of 10 on here a few days ago, clearly there would be no point. As a "bog standard munter with a wizard's sleeve", (something I've also been called on the fora), it's obvious nobody would want to meet me.
Mind you, since I've never had photos of my lady parts on here, how they would know I have a wizard's sleeve is unclear.
Oh, and as it happens, I've reached the top hot pics pages a few times, reaching page 2 at one point, (despite being a 1/10). I couldn't pick and choose from anyone I couldn't have met before I appeared there.
Hot pics is great for the egos of certain people and a competition/obsession for some, but for most of us being on there does not give us any sort of advantage.
So why on earth are you taking part of this thread for? Umbelievable some people!!!"Because I have something to say. Something pertinent to the subject. Possibly more pertinent even than anything you've said. Why should I not take part? Particularly as being totally honest about my shape has resulted in those not wanting to meet me trying to destroy my self-confidence and force me off the site through sheer malice. There were plenty of people interested but I don't feel confident enough to meet anyone right now. That means that the ratio of men to women is worsened and the men who would meet those another guy doesn't want to meet are now more likely to be competing for those he is interested in. So many guys totally shoot themselves in the foot on here. And then you all wonder why women are economic with the truth of how they look and put up flattering photos. | |||
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? I haven't the slightest interest in getting on the Most Fab'd List. " Nope. us neither. our pictures are there to give an impression of us for people to decide whether they want to meet us or not. I personally think that the ability to fab pictures leads to the site being full of exhibitionists looking for attention for their pictures who aren't particularly looking to meet. nothing wrong with that but it does sometimes make it hard to filter out the different groups. | |||
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"OP if a woman's size is important to you then ask the woman individually quite how fat they are
How fat are you really?
My profile, when visible, has 3 full length body shots not from flattering or misleading angles. The text states exactly how much I am overweight and describes, clearly, how the weight is distributed.
The result of that has been continual, frequent and vicious abuse by complete strangers, to the extent it's finally worn me down and made me take a break from meeting and consider leaving permanently.
I'm not for a lot of people. Why should I have to tolerate continual abuse though? I should add, a lot of the insults come totally out of the blue, from men hundreds of miles away, whose profiles I've never looked at, never mind winked or messaged. I also don't find the majority of these men attractive, ironically, but I'd never dream of sending a spontaneous message to say that.
Some men seem to think only people they fancy belong on this site or should have any self confidence at all. They take offence at seeing anyone they consider unattractive and insist on trying to make that person feel like shit.
That might well explain why a lot of women aren't absolutely clear about their shape and size.
No you shouldn't get abuse for being honest, and especially not for just being who you are.
Loads of guys don't appeal to me and i'd never dream of telling them they're *whatever insult here* just because i don't find them attractive. Some have loads of meets as well so obviously they're attractive to others and it's just my standard that is the problem when it comes to them being attractive to me.
I can't really say don't leave (i don't want you to though) or to put up with it or whatever coz i don't have to deal with that so i'd be a hypocrite there if i did.
I hope i never fuck a guy who thinks it's ok to make women feel like shit for being fat though."I haven't left yet. My health is dodgy at the moment and my hormones are screwy so I'm probably more sensitive than usual. I won't make a final decision until I'm back on form again. I've unhidden my profile temporarily though, but left my filters on, so those who want to see just how honest I am can. | |||
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"OP if a woman's size is important to you then ask the woman individually quite how fat they are
How fat are you really?
My profile, when visible, has 3 full length body shots not from flattering or misleading angles. The text states exactly how much I am overweight and describes, clearly, how the weight is distributed.
The result of that has been continual, frequent and vicious abuse by complete strangers, to the extent it's finally worn me down and made me take a break from meeting and consider leaving permanently.
I'm not for a lot of people. Why should I have to tolerate continual abuse though? I should add, a lot of the insults come totally out of the blue, from men hundreds of miles away, whose profiles I've never looked at, never mind winked or messaged. I also don't find the majority of these men attractive, ironically, but I'd never dream of sending a spontaneous message to say that.
Some men seem to think only people they fancy belong on this site or should have any self confidence at all. They take offence at seeing anyone they consider unattractive and insist on trying to make that person feel like shit.
That might well explain why a lot of women aren't absolutely clear about their shape and size.
No you shouldn't get abuse for being honest, and especially not for just being who you are.
Loads of guys don't appeal to me and i'd never dream of telling them they're *whatever insult here* just because i don't find them attractive. Some have loads of meets as well so obviously they're attractive to others and it's just my standard that is the problem when it comes to them being attractive to me.
I can't really say don't leave (i don't want you to though) or to put up with it or whatever coz i don't have to deal with that so i'd be a hypocrite there if i did.
I hope i never fuck a guy who thinks it's ok to make women feel like shit for being fat though.
I haven't left yet. My health is dodgy at the moment and my hormones are screwy so I'm probably more sensitive than usual. I won't make a final decision until I'm back on form again.
I've unhidden my profile temporarily though, but left my filters on, so those who want to see just how honest I am can."It's ok to be sensitive even if it is your hormones, i am too although i don't let anybody know that usually - plus when things get too much it switches off. | |||
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"There is absolutely no need to have any size definition on a profile, the answer is simple a full body shot from a reasonable distance will show everyone what shape, size anybody is....simple and then no need to put people in categories. We go on the rule, the closer the shot the bigger the person, presently.... I totally agree "A lot of my photos are close ups because I've been recognised on here from the vanilla world. So I take photos up close of my boobs etc to hide tattoos etc | |||
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"There is absolutely no need to have any size definition on a profile, the answer is simple a full body shot from a reasonable distance will show everyone what shape, size anybody is....simple and then no need to put people in categories. We go on the rule, the closer the shot the bigger the person, presently.... I totally agree
A lot of my photos are close ups because I've been recognised on here from the vanilla world. So I take photos up close of my boobs etc to hide tattoos etc "
My tattoos are as recognisable as my face, and I have large areas of me that have them
So every photo I show on here I'm very careful not to show them
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"There is absolutely no need to have any size definition on a profile, the answer is simple a full body shot from a reasonable distance will show everyone what shape, size anybody is....simple and then no need to put people in categories. We go on the rule, the closer the shot the bigger the person, presently.... I totally agree
A lot of my photos are close ups because I've been recognised on here from the vanilla world. So I take photos up close of my boobs etc to hide tattoos etc
My tattoos are as recognisable as my face, and I have large areas of me that have them
So every photo I show on here I'm very careful not to show them
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"There is absolutely no need to have any size definition on a profile, the answer is simple a full body shot from a reasonable distance will show everyone what shape, size anybody is....simple and then no need to put people in categories. We go on the rule, the closer the shot the bigger the person, presently.... I totally agree
A lot of my photos are close ups because I've been recognised on here from the vanilla world. So I take photos up close of my boobs etc to hide tattoos etc
My tattoos are as recognisable as my face, and I have large areas of me that have them
So every photo I show on here I'm very careful not to show them
Good excuse! I bet everyone would believe that!"Wow, aren't you just a delightful person?  | |||
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"There is absolutely no need to have any size definition on a profile, the answer is simple a full body shot from a reasonable distance will show everyone what shape, size anybody is....simple and then no need to put people in categories. We go on the rule, the closer the shot the bigger the person, presently.... I totally agree
A lot of my photos are close ups because I've been recognised on here from the vanilla world. So I take photos up close of my boobs etc to hide tattoos etc
My tattoos are as recognisable as my face, and I have large areas of me that have them
So every photo I show on here I'm very careful not to show them
Good excuse! I bet everyone would believe that!"It's a fact, I have heavily tattooed selected for that very reason I also have all custom pieces and work in an environment that means I can't be open about this lifestyle I've had no issues with anyone I meet, I don't hide my size or body type Sadly there's no option to automatically filter out prejudiced dickwads.... but they tend to show themselves soon enough any way | |||
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"There is absolutely no need to have any size definition on a profile, the answer is simple a full body shot from a reasonable distance will show everyone what shape, size anybody is....simple and then no need to put people in categories. We go on the rule, the closer the shot the bigger the person, presently.... I totally agree
A lot of my photos are close ups because I've been recognised on here from the vanilla world. So I take photos up close of my boobs etc to hide tattoos etc
My tattoos are as recognisable as my face, and I have large areas of me that have them
So every photo I show on here I'm very careful not to show them
Good excuse! I bet everyone would believe that!
It's a fact, I have heavily tattooed selected for that very reason
I also have all custom pieces and work in an environment that means I can't be open about this lifestyle
I've had no issues with anyone I meet, I don't hide my size or body type
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"Yes but you have hidden your profile... This is not Blind Date you know? I only meet through the Chat Room function, so I hide my profile whenever I'm not in chat, so that I don't come up in people's searches. Not that it's any of your business. Yes but how are you going to get on the Top Public Photos: Most Fab'd List? Maybe some people don't care about being fabbed No but those figured in the Top Fabbed pictures can literally pick and chose anyone to fuck as they please... and this is a sex site they are the winners!!! lol. highest i've ever got to is page 3 on there. and even when i didn't get on there i could pick and choose easily. you don't need to get on top fabbed, trust me. Though nobody offered to buy you clothes because they did not have your size!!! Oh dear... dear...
Are all the men at your parties young,muscular and as fit as the women who work for you? Men who pay to attend I mean.
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Did you know that by the lol of your feet I can actually tell the size of your body?"Ooh I missed this. You're probably not online but go on then,tell me my vital statistics
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"I have narrow, slim feet with a great instep, slim ankles and slim legs. I've got clear photos and I've said how much overweight I am. I've also said on previous threads my bust is 5 dress sizes larger than my hips and 4 dress sizes larger than my waist. Even with all that I'd happily bet nobody could accurately deduce my vital statistics." I wouldn't have a scooby do tbh but I'm rubbish when it comes to judging sizes & ages. I have ridiculously tiny ankles, wrists, calves & forearms balanced out with very broad shoulders, sturdy thighs & a tummy. I vary in dress from shop to shop so can't really give an accurate dress size either. | |||
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"I have narrow, slim feet with a great instep, slim ankles and slim legs. I've got clear photos and I've said how much overweight I am. I've also said on previous threads my bust is 5 dress sizes larger than my hips and 4 dress sizes larger than my waist. Even with all that I'd happily bet nobody could accurately deduce my vital statistics. I wouldn't have a scooby do tbh but I'm rubbish when it comes to judging sizes & ages. I have ridiculously tiny ankles, wrists, calves & forearms balanced out with very broad shoulders, sturdy thighs & a tummy. I vary in dress from shop to shop so can't really give an accurate dress size either. " Yeah, my wrists are also very slim. My calves are big though, but are solid and muscular. My shoulders are very broad. My dress size varies by a lot depending on manufacturer and cut. I couldn't give one accurate dress size if I wanted to. I can't even give individual dress sizes for bust, waist and hips that would be meaningful to anyone. It's a ridiculous concept. A 5 ft size 16 will look totally different to a 6 ft size 16. Two women of the same height and weight, but one with 15% body fat and one with 40% body fat will also look completely different. Hell, weight distribution varies so even two women of the same height, weight AND body fat can look very different. I'd be a smaller dress size and would look smaller if a chunk of my weight was on my bum and thighs rather than on my stomach. The bottom line is people ate going to have to stick to using photos to decide if someone is attractive to them, and having a social if they want to be sure. Really, anyone would think it's astrophysics or brain surgery or something. | |||
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"I have narrow, slim feet with a great instep, slim ankles and slim legs. I've got clear photos and I've said how much overweight I am. I've also said on previous threads my bust is 5 dress sizes larger than my hips and 4 dress sizes larger than my waist. Even with all that I'd happily bet nobody could accurately deduce my vital statistics. I wouldn't have a scooby do tbh but I'm rubbish when it comes to judging sizes & ages. I have ridiculously tiny ankles, wrists, calves & forearms balanced out with very broad shoulders, sturdy thighs & a tummy. I vary in dress from shop to shop so can't really give an accurate dress size either. Yeah, my wrists are also very slim. My calves are big though, but are solid and muscular. My shoulders are very broad. My dress size varies by a lot depending on manufacturer and cut. I couldn't give one accurate dress size if I wanted to. I can't even give individual dress sizes for bust, waist and hips that would be meaningful to anyone. It's a ridiculous concept. A 5 ft size 16 will look totally different to a 6 ft size 16. Two women of the same height and weight, but one with 15% body fat and one with 40% body fat will also look completely different. Hell, weight distribution varies so even two women of the same height, weight AND body fat can look very different. I'd be a smaller dress size and would look smaller if a chunk of my weight was on my bum and thighs rather than on my stomach. The bottom line is people ate going to have to stick to using photos to decide if someone is attractive to them, and having a social if they want to be sure. Really, anyone would think it's astrophysics or brain surgery or something." Exactly, if we stop over analysing it's really quite simple | |||
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"i could be classed as stocky. Why's that?" i'm not very tall and well built. | |||
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" i'm not very tall and well built. Indeed if i get rid of my belly i can athletic. "What belly? | |||
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" i'm not very tall and well built. Indeed if i get rid of my belly i can athletic.
What belly?
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" my belly is bigger than my boobs, if i get that flatter i will put athletic. "Will your boobs not shrink as well though? | |||
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" my belly is bigger than my boobs, if i get that flatter i will put athletic.
Will your boobs not shrink as well though?"they're already small so no-one will notice anyway. 
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion?" Apparently people who hide their profile or don't have tons of photos on their profile have a poor self image .... | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? Apparently people who hide their profile or don't have tons of photos on their profile have a poor self image .... " Whereas I think it's about people who aren't seeking validation from others. I've no need to put myself on display to make myself feel better .... | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? Apparently people who hide their profile or don't have tons of photos on their profile have a poor self image .... Whereas I think it's about people who aren't seeking validation from others. I've no need to put myself on display to make myself feel better .... " | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? Apparently people who hide their profile or don't have tons of photos on their profile have a poor self image .... " Rubbish, people hide their profiles for all sorts of reason, nothing to do with poor self image | |||
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? Apparently people who hide their profile or don't have tons of photos on their profile have a poor self image .... Rubbish, people hide their profiles for all sorts of reason, nothing to do with poor self image" | |||
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"Frankly my dear- I don't give a damn what you think of me, there are very few people who have a right to discuss my body size with me and people on here do not number among them! "
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"Please define the following! Slim !! Athletic !! Average !! Curvy!! Ample !! Fabulous !! Its the same for all us guys as well, so dont get upset everyone. Its just PC gone mad. Lets get back to "vital statistics" ! Chest, waist, height and weight measurements for everyone and maybe include dress size for Ladies. Is Joanna Lumley "Absolutely Enormous" ? Nuff said sweety!! If not sure about you body size, nip out to Next and buy a Mirror and B&Q for a tape rule. Im sure most on here, dont own either! Yes, please do define athletic because your idea of it is apparently vastly different to mine. Sweetie. Alternatively, since most blokes only look at the photos anyway, look at the photos and make up your own mind if you're interested or not. There's no fucking way I'm putting my weight and vital statistics on here. As for dress size, my bust, waist and hips are all different dress sizes and even that depends on the cut of the clothing and can vary from shop to shop. Hell-o? I can't see you! Honestly all these hidden profiles... What is it a New Fashion? Apparently people who hide their profile or don't have tons of photos on their profile have a poor self image .... Rubbish, people hide their profiles for all sorts of reason, nothing to do with poor self image" Of course, but some of us have heard this all before .... and also totally disagree, but it's useful to know where some people are coming from | |||
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"What an incredibly sad thread to read, bullying and nasty derogatory comments should really have no place on an adults website especially one such as this. Have your personal preferences by all means but having to voice those nasty thoughts repeatedly says far more about the bully than the victim. There are far more ugly attitudes than bodies on this thread" | |||
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"I must confess that I feel rather embarrassed by the turn of events in recent threads related to the judgment of someone's size and overall appearance. I am starting to rethink my decision about attending certain events as I don't want be feel I am really reinforcing the idea that is OK to be rude and disrespectful to people just because I happen to be slim. I wish to make it clear that I do not think it is ok for anyone to be rude and nasty to anyone because of their appearance. I do believe in the right to personal preferences and indeed, if that means some wish to hold parties to attract a certain type, then I don't think that is intrinsically wrong. But I do take exception to demeaning others and insulting them. I can't be part of that. " I can only speak for myself, obviously, but I, too, am an ardent defender of the right of every person on this site, (and in the world in general), to have preferences; even if they exclude me. I've no issue, at all, with the existence of elite events with entry requirements I do not meet. The only people who should be ashamed or embarrassed about insulting those who do not match their preferences are those that actually do it, or that clearly support doing it. The choice of whether to attend an event organised by someone whose behaviour you find objectionable is yours, of course. However, in my opinion at least, doing so is in no way an endorsement of the unpleasant behaviour. I'm well able to see that attending an event you enjoy in no way suggests you support any aspect of the organiser's behaviour. If I judged you in such a way, I'd have to shoot myself for subscribing to Sky TV! I respect anyone who has strong moral values and sticks to them, and I can understand why someone would opt to boycott the OPs events; but I wouldn't think badly of them for not doing so. | |||
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"I must confess that I feel rather embarrassed by the turn of events in recent threads related to the judgment of someone's size and overall appearance. I am starting to rethink my decision about attending certain events as I don't want be feel I am really reinforcing the idea that is OK to be rude and disrespectful to people just because I happen to be slim. I wish to make it clear that I do not think it is ok for anyone to be rude and nasty to anyone because of their appearance. I do believe in the right to personal preferences and indeed, if that means some wish to hold parties to attract a certain type, then I don't think that is intrinsically wrong. But I do take exception to demeaning others and insulting them. I can't be part of that. I can only speak for myself, obviously, but I, too, am an ardent defender of the right of every person on this site, (and in the world in general), to have preferences; even if they exclude me. I've no issue, at all, with the existence of elite events with entry requirements I do not meet. The only people who should be ashamed or embarrassed about insulting those who do not match their preferences are those that actually do it, or that clearly support doing it. The choice of whether to attend an event organised by someone whose behaviour you find objectionable is yours, of course. However, in my opinion at least, doing so is in no way an endorsement of the unpleasant behaviour. I'm well able to see that attending an event you enjoy in no way suggests you support any aspect of the organiser's behaviour. If I judged you in such a way, I'd have to shoot myself for subscribing to Sky TV! I respect anyone who has strong moral values and sticks to them, and I can understand why someone would opt to boycott the OPs events; but I wouldn't think badly of them for not doing so." | |||
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"I must confess that I feel rather embarrassed by the turn of events in recent threads related to the judgment of someone's size and overall appearance. I am starting to rethink my decision about attending certain events as I don't want be feel I am really reinforcing the idea that is OK to be rude and disrespectful to people just because I happen to be slim. I wish to make it clear that I do not think it is ok for anyone to be rude and nasty to anyone because of their appearance. I do believe in the right to personal preferences and indeed, if that means some wish to hold parties to attract a certain type, then I don't think that is intrinsically wrong. But I do take exception to demeaning others and insulting them. I can't be part of that. " And thats the true spirit of alternative lifestyles IMHO Acceptance of others without the need to belittle or past judgement There are many preferences, lifestyle choices and kinks that i have no interest in, but I would never feel the need to become nasty towards those that hold different views or preferences to mine How a person conducts themselves is the only way I make a judgement about them, and some have conducted themselves in a very ugly manner on this forum | |||
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"I must confess that I feel rather embarrassed by the turn of events in recent threads related to the judgment of someone's size and overall appearance. I am starting to rethink my decision about attending certain events as I don't want be feel I am really reinforcing the idea that is OK to be rude and disrespectful to people just because I happen to be slim. I wish to make it clear that I do not think it is ok for anyone to be rude and nasty to anyone because of their appearance. I do believe in the right to personal preferences and indeed, if that means some wish to hold parties to attract a certain type, then I don't think that is intrinsically wrong. But I do take exception to demeaning others and insulting them. I can't be part of that. "
The nastiness from some posters has been unacceptable, everyone has a choice and preference (ours being based more on personality) but to demean a specific group of people, betrays the perpetrator as someone with low self esteem who feels the need to do so as to raise there own sense of self worth | |||
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