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By *orny.hottie OP Woman
over a year ago
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Why can't the verifications from members who've left the site still be displayed on active members profiles ????
Even if they don't keep the name maybe just say "user no longer a member" like the messages already do 
It's rather frustrating to constantly loose veris just because the other person has left  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't the verifications from members who've left the site still be displayed on active members profiles ????
Even if they don't keep the name maybe just say "user no longer a member" like the messages already do
It's rather frustrating to constantly loose veris just because the other person has left xx "
First world problems.
If you are verified does it really matter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can't the verifications from members who've left the site still be displayed on active members profiles ????
Even if they don't keep the name maybe just say "user no longer a member" like the messages already do
It's rather frustrating to constantly loose veris just because the other person has left xx
First world problems.
If you are verified does it really matter?"
Yes. I love re-reading good reviews of my work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, you have plenty of veris, is it really likely to be a deal breaker that you lost one or two?
Some people have one or few. The idea is a good one."
It's a very good idea which has been raised quite a few times...most with many veris cannot appreciate the value attached to the OPs request. For some they've had to start all over again...It happened to me and know the difficulties... its not much of an issue for women (sure they all get hundreds or requests daily) .....but for guys it's an issue  |
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"Why can't the verifications from members who've left the site still be displayed on active members profiles ????
Even if they don't keep the name maybe just say "user no longer a member" like the messages already do
It's rather frustrating to constantly loose veris just because the other person has left xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only had 1 veri and the person left so now i have none which people now dont want to meet "
Your summary shows you have 1 meet with a couple..
Perhaps it's another reason? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only had 1 veri and the person left so now i have none which people now dont want to meet
Your summary shows you have 1 meet with a couple..
Perhaps it's another reason? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why some people get so hung up about a bit of writing."
Well you display your summary and one of yours is public. Why? If you don't understand it, just have it so it says 'verified genuine profile' and that's it.
Veris are an important part of a site like this, I'd say a vital part actually, and I think it's fairly obvious why. |
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To be fair Id meet a woman if she didn't have any verifies, Well just meeting a woman would be good lol
Its today that counts not what happened 10 years ago
But I guess it would be ok if verifies said User no Longer on site and hides their name if they have left site etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair Id meet a woman if she didn't have any verifies"
On our couple account we've had socials with single men and we've heard many a tale of going to meet a single female who was unverified and it turned out to be a bloke. |
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"To be fair Id meet a woman if she didn't have any verifies
On our couple account we've had socials with single men and we've heard many a tale of going to meet a single female who was unverified and it turned out to be a bloke."
Really Men pretending to be woman what has the world come too lol
I will just check if they stand up to pee then lol |
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"Why can't the verifications from members who've left the site still be displayed on active members profiles ????
Even if they don't keep the name maybe just say "user no longer a member" like the messages already do
It's rather frustrating to constantly loose veris just because the other person has left xx "
Well maybe you need to stop scaring them away. 
Only kidding, we agree if a verification has been sent it would be nice to leave it up. After all they chose to send it.
And if you stay on the site and change your mind about someone you can't remove a verification once sent.
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"I don't understand why some people get so hung up about a bit of writing.
Well you display your summary and one of yours is public. Why? If you don't understand it, just have it so it says 'verified genuine profile' and that's it.
Veris are an important part of a site like this, I'd say a vital part actually, and I think it's fairly obvious why."
I will run my profile how I like but thank you for your concern. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will run my profile how I like but thank you for your concern. "
No concern dear, just pointing out the hypocrisy of your comment. You say they're worthless yet still display them. If you didn't see the point I was making then, hopefully the meaning is clear now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why some people get so hung up about a bit of writing.
Well you display your summary and one of yours is public. Why? If you don't understand it, just have it so it says 'verified genuine profile' and that's it.
Veris are an important part of a site like this, I'd say a vital part actually, and I think it's fairly obvious why.
I will run my profile how I like but thank you for your concern. "
We all run our profiles as we see fit irrespective of how the admin sets it up so if their are changes such as leaving unlock veris to bee seen, some will use them, some won't, but we will all continue to use our profiles as we see fit. It's natural. |
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I will run my profile how I like but thank you for your concern.
No concern dear, just pointing out the hypocrisy of your comment. You say they're worthless yet still display them. If you didn't see the point I was making then, hopefully the meaning is clear now."
Where did I say it's worthless? Your throwing words out there. I said I don't understand why people worry about a few words. I much prepare the summery to someone saying how wonderful I am |
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"OP, you have plenty of veris, is it really likely to be a deal breaker that you lost one or two?
Some people have one or few. The idea is a good one.
It's a very good idea which has been raised quite a few times...most with many veris cannot appreciate the value attached to the OPs request. For some they've had to start all over again...It happened to me and know the difficulties... its not much of an issue for women (sure they all get hundreds or requests daily).....but for guys it's an issue "
 That implies I pick up and can replace verifications quickly because I am female and have fuck every guy who messages! I through choice don't meet often so losing a verification is painful. I don't have many and I try to ensure that there's at least a couple of resent ones .
I would like the site changed please so I don't lose them when people leave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recently broke up with an fb. Had to start new profile while she kept old profile and renamed it. Kept all the verifications. I now have none. Have to start the long road to get verified again. How fair is that surely I could have kept veris as well |
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I agree it's a good thing..
On another site all feed back stays even if they leave so I guess it's just a programming thing ..
It's the verification that validates the profile not the person that has left .
It's good for those that don't go to events etc and only have odd ones I |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently broke up with an fb. Had to start new profile while she kept old profile and renamed it. Kept all the verifications. I now have none. Have to start the long road to get verified again. How fair is that surely I could have kept veris as well "
If the couple from your cool social are on Fab then get them to veri you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently broke up with an fb. Had to start new profile while she kept old profile and renamed it. Kept all the verifications. I now have none. Have to start the long road to get verified again. How fair is that surely I could have kept veris as well
If the couple from your cool social are on Fab then get them to veri you
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sounded a bit catty that remark. Could be spent too long with ex fb. It was cool cause we had few drinks watched football and very stress free. Like me unverified at moment but I don't think they will be for long |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I thought they stayed on as a number in the summary but the actual veri will disappear itself?
They do.
I don't understand why some people get so hung up about a bit of writing."
They do - Actuall, I find that quite annoying because poeple thebn ask why you only display some of your veris etc etc, I wish you could knock them off the summary. I've had a few repeat veris where people have been off and on fabs too, and if I display my summary, I look like the worlds biggest manwhore... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, you have plenty of veris, is it really likely to be a deal breaker that you lost one or two?
Some people have one or few. The idea is a good one.
It's a very good idea which has been raised quite a few times...most with many veris cannot appreciate the value attached to the OPs request. For some they've had to start all over again...It happened to me and know the difficulties... its not much of an issue for women (sure they all get hundreds or requests daily).....but for guys it's an issue
That implies I pick up and can replace verifications quickly because I am female and have fuck every guy who messages! I through choice don't meet often so losing a verification is painful. I don't have many and I try to ensure that there's at least a couple of resent ones .
I would like the site changed please so I don't lose them when people leave "
Well if you interpret. ..its easier for women than men as you fuck every messenger then that's your problem you have to deal with and maybe more of a reflection on how you view something than what is actually said....
I hope for all the woman's sake on here you don't imply that all their verifications are all fucks...as I'm sure most are actually socials. I've many friends with 100s of veris but most are from socials that they have been too and they've definately not fucked all their veris.
Now if I may just repeat what I said and obviously need to put it more clearly for some with issues so they can't misunderstand something so simple......You get hundreds of messages a day...out of that it's much easier to get a verification....you could very quickly as a result arrange a few social meets and bingo in a day or two you could replace a few veris lost...However most men can spend weeks some months to just get a social and then sometimes last minute they change their mind. So I stand by what I said...It's much harder for men to replace veris that are lost. Now I hope that has made it clearer for you...If you still think I'm being offensive. ..i give up. |
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By *illnatMan
over a year ago
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"Most of my original ones have left - it's one of those things. If you are active it shouldn't matter "
I had a couple that dropped off the site so got refused an invite to a social because of it. The veris were in my total but the text had gone. I think it's a grand idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently broke up with an fb. Had to start new profile while she kept old profile and renamed it. Kept all the verifications. I now have none. Have to start the long road to get verified again. How fair is that surely I could have kept veris as well "
I'm unclear how that would have worked if she kept the original profile the veris were attached to? Are you suggesting you should have been able to transfer them to your new profile? Perhaps the people who verified you as part of a couple might not want to verify a single man? After all they were verifying that you were part of a couple surely? |
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By *uttleyMan
over a year ago
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I fully understand both sides of the coin here but I have to say I'm with the OP on this occasion I have some really lovely veris from people I've met both socially and sexually and each paints a picture of the person I am and to lose a heartfelt message from someone who put the effort in because of perhaps a change in their personal circumstances is really quite a shame and a situation I'd love to see rectified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would be nice for someone from admin to respond to this question to see if its possible in the first place.....
Maybe it should be down to the profile holder. If the person leaves you choose to keep the verification or not and it changes to say "User no longer on site" if you do.
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By *j_markCouple
over a year ago
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It works like this by design. We appreciate it's frustrating (for some) but we've made a judgement it's better than the alternative.
No one loses verifications (they show in the summary) you just can't show the text if someone leaves. We've posted more on this previously many times including on this recent thread:
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/466433
Admin x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As an extremely choosy female I agree with this too! Would also like to see the site changed to enable us to keep verifications from those who have left. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought they stayed on as a number in the summary but the actual veri will disappear itself?
They do.
I don't understand why some people get so hung up about a bit of writing."
Don't be saying that,whole religious groups are defined by a bit of writing  |
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"Why can't the verifications from members who've left the site still be displayed on active members profiles ????
Even if they don't keep the name maybe just say "user no longer a member" like the messages already do
It's rather frustrating to constantly loose veris just because the other person has left xx "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I fully understand both sides of the coin here but I have to say I'm with the OP on this occasion I have some really lovely veris from people I've met both socially and sexually and each paints a picture of the person I am and to lose a heartfelt message from someone who put the effort in because of perhaps a change in their personal circumstances is really quite a shame and a situation I'd love to see rectified "
Just to add to this.... just because they've left for whatever reason...does it change the veri? Don'tthink Iit does in any way so I cannot see any justifiable argument for having them removed other than the often over quoted...'It saves server space'. If that is the argument. ..then a lot of very old forum posts could be deleted which are really never looked at and probably has been repeated infinitum by newer members over the years. |
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"It works like this by design. We appreciate it's frustrating (for some) but we've made a judgement it's better than the alternative.
No one loses verifications (they show in the summary) you just can't show the text if someone leaves. We've posted more on this previously many times including on this recent thread:
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/466433
Admin x"
Yes I appreciate that but if you can show the text on the threds in the fòrums and on the clubs reviews by (user no longer on site) I figure ot should be possible to do the same on the verifications? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It works like this by design. We appreciate it's frustrating (for some) but we've made a judgement it's better than the alternative.
No one loses verifications (they show in the summary) you just can't show the text if someone leaves. We've posted more on this previously many times including on this recent thread:
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/466433
Admin x
Yes I appreciate that but if you can show the text on the threds in the fòrums and on the clubs reviews by (user no longer on site) I figure ot should be possible to do the same on the verifications?"
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"Why can't the verifications from members who've left the site still be displayed on active members profiles ????
Even if they don't keep the name maybe just say "user no longer a member" like the messages already do
It's rather frustrating to constantly loose veris just because the other person has left xx "
Your a single lady with 73 meets..........
tis true most would meet you unless you were at least at 75 meets, you really do need those other veri's
Admin please help this poor lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fully understand both sides of the coin here but I have to say I'm with the OP on this occasion I have some really lovely veris from people I've met both socially and sexually and each paints a picture of the person I am and to lose a heartfelt message from someone who put the effort in because of perhaps a change in their personal circumstances is really quite a shame and a situation I'd love to see rectified
Just to add to this.... just because they've left for whatever reason...does it change the veri? Don'tthink Iit does in any way so I cannot see any justifiable argument for having them removed other than the often over quoted...'It saves server space'. If that is the argument. ..then a lot of very old forum posts could be deleted which are really never looked at and probably has been repeated infinitum by newer members over the years."
Totally agree... I've looked through this thread and spotted a post from someone who's now left. God knows how many old posts are from users no longer on the site and still taking space up!.
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"It works like this by design. We appreciate it's frustrating (for some) but we've made a judgement it's better than the alternative.
No one loses verifications (they show in the summary) you just can't show the text if someone leaves. We've posted more on this previously many times including on this recent thread:
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/466433
Admin x"
As someone who helps organise events, veries are important, and not being able to follow a veri chain for someones profile can mean we will refuse to allow them to come to the event.
The summary means nothing to us in this instance, we need to be able to vet people by checking what type of veri it is, plus then look at who left the veri to check that it is not a fake.
Admin often are quoted as saying that there are enough tools on site to be able to sort the wheat from the chaff, yet on this issue they don't seem to have fully thought it through.  |
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"I recently broke up with an fb. Had to start new profile while she kept old profile and renamed it. Kept all the verifications. I now have none. Have to start the long road to get verified again. How fair is that surely I could have kept veris as well
I'm unclear how that would have worked if she kept the original profile the veris were attached to? Are you suggesting you should have been able to transfer them to your new profile? Perhaps the people who verified you as part of a couple might not want to verify a single man? After all they were verifying that you were part of a couple surely?"
Think its more of the point of being verified as genuine then anything else, so transfering not the issue just to be verified as been verified bfre as soo many people dismiss anyone more so without any verifacations (cant spell)
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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago
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"I fully understand both sides of the coin here but I have to say I'm with the OP on this occasion I have some really lovely veris from people I've met both socially and sexually and each paints a picture of the person I am and to lose a heartfelt message from someone who put the effort in because of perhaps a change in their personal circumstances is really quite a shame and a situation I'd love to see rectified
Just to add to this.... just because they've left for whatever reason...does it change the veri? Don'tthink Iit does in any way so I cannot see any justifiable argument for having them removed other than the often over quoted...'It saves server space'. If that is the argument. ..then a lot of very old forum posts could be deleted which are really never looked at and probably has been repeated infinitum by newer members over the years.
Totally agree... I've looked through this thread and spotted a post from someone who's now left. God knows how many old posts are from users no longer on the site and still taking space up!.
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Club reviews also remain after a profile leaves too. If someone's verification can't be shown, how is a club review different? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way I look at veris is that they are an extension of your profile...you write your own profile...In a verification one writes about the other person. ..i always look to see if they match up or not. It's like an affidavit. I think if people wrote good and better veris then the fakes will shine out more. If someone hides their veris then I won't look beyond that and move on without reading a profile. They may show them some other time and maybe I'll be looking then. If not then there are plenty more to peruse who are more open. |
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By *orny.hottie OP Woman
over a year ago
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having read the post left by admin iv gotta say im not convinced if ppl have left the veri they clearly wanted to write it in the first place so if they leave the site for what ever reason their veri should stay but remain 'user no longer on site'
as for the whole oh your a single fem with however many veris .... quite a few are from socials whereas most the ones that iv lost were from fantastic moresums ..... sad times man lmao xx |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"having read the post left by admin iv gotta say im not convinced if ppl have left the veri they clearly wanted to write it in the first place so if they leave the site for what ever reason their veri should stay but remain 'user no longer on site'
as for the whole oh your a single fem with however many veris .... quite a few are from socials whereas most the ones that iv lost were from fantastic moresums ..... sad times man lmao xx"
Quite ironic that people's thoughts on this very thread remain as useful yet their veris don't after they've gone unlos.
I do understand that a thread with linked posts removed would look odd but would have thought seeing as probably less than 5% of the site use the forums & almost everyone uses veris one was a lot more important than the other?
Especially so for those not into clubs or social events.
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"Admin I understand your reasons, but I disagree. I for one would vote to keep the verification just take the user name off.
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That would be great
All that wasted effort writing them just to disappear, not only that just because someone leaves the site doesn't mean they want to remove verifications the block button can do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the privacy of the person leaving the site should take precedence. If it were me, I would want any evidence I was ever here removed: profile, pics, forum posts, club reviews, veris etc. The fact that not all of these are removed when someone goes UNLOS is an issue, IMO. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The verification comment goes but the actual verification stays. Which is why if you have one verification and they leave you are still left with a tick.
I know this from my old profile. Back after a break before anyone asks |
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