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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When ever i ask for a face picture within the first few messages it seems to get up the Black Silhouettes noses. Not too much to ask for do any others have the same problem n women say no pic no reply yet have not got one themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst I think that many would not wish to "jump in" with the response of a face pic we do feel that those with "black silhouette" profiles are taking the piss.  Yet a face pic exchange should be the norm before even a social meet?
These days everyone has a camera . . they call them phones now . . and some limited ability to "blob out" identity if they simply can't pose the right way. It's more than laziness, it's an excuse many employ to use this web-site as a one way mirror.
Bad "black silhouette's"!!! |
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"When ever i ask for a face picture within the first few messages it seems to get up the Black Silhouettes noses. Not too much to ask for do any others have the same problem n women say no pic no reply yet have not got one themselves "
There,s no excuse for anyone not to have a face pic no one else see it only the person they are messaging, we are all on here for the same reason. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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"There,s no excuse for anyone not to have a face pic no one else see it only the person they are messaging, we are all on here for the same reason."
I disagree. Don't get me wrong, I think Fab is great, and one of the things that makes it great is the fact that it is free. But firstly, that means we're NOT all on here for the same reason (some are on here just for the free porn! And they might take great delight in 'outing' people as swingers). More importantly, the fact that the site is free means there are limited funds for maintaining site security. I'm sure we all remember that the Ashely Madison site got hacked, and that site charged something like £160. And there have been other high-profile 'hacks' of commercial sites, such as TalkTalk. So I won't put my face-pic on Fab, where there is a risk that my pic could be accessed and circulated with "fabswingers.com" marked onto it.
I don't expect people to meet without seeing a face-pic, but I send it privately via email (to a select few), where I can be sure that it can never be proven to be associated with swinging. |
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"When ever i ask for a face picture within the first few messages it seems to get up the Black Silhouettes noses. Not too much to ask for do any others have the same problem n women say no pic no reply yet have not got one themselves
There,s no excuse for anyone not to have a face pic no one else see it only the person they are messaging, we are all on here for the same reason."
How would you know that every single person on this site is on here for the same reason?
Some are here just to chat, some are here just for the cams, others just put up pics. Then there are those like me who don't use Fab to arrange meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that people with blank avatars always demand for a face pic in their profile. "Those people who don't have a face pic will be ignored" "
Then just ignore them, there, that'll learn them!! If anyone gets funny with sending one but keeps chatting then leave them to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find that people with blank avatars always demand for a face pic in their profile. "Those people who don't have a face pic will be ignored"
Then just ignore them, there, that'll learn them!! If anyone gets funny with sending one but keeps chatting then leave them to it. "
I always have the gut feeling that they are fakes. I've encountered a few. They get close to me, and this is "straight" women, and then ask to see any pics of local girls I have, which I don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is one of the multiple issues that always rise their ugly head to cause problems.
Undoubtedly most "black silhouettes" are free-loaders feeling smug behind their "one way mirror" . . . yet we do know that, for their own security, some couples we've met also have no pix.
Read the WHOLE profile and look at it as a COMPLETE PICTURE . . then decide.
For us though? No pix at all is almost "negative feedback".  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't have a problem with black silhouettes or lack of face picture on profiles, I understand peoples wish for anonymity (I am one of those people) only they know if the people in their lives (partners, family, friends, neighbors, work colleagues etc) will accept the swinging lifestyle or the need to find someone for a little fun, we all have our own reasons.
However I do have a problem with people asking for a face pic when they don't have one on their profiles and aren't willing to send one first or expect one after a couple of messages
I'm more than willing to send a face pic after I'm comfy with the person I'm chatting to though |
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