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By *uietlykinkyme OP   Woman  over a year ago

kinky land

For years it's come up we'd like to log in without the dot highlighting we are online.

Some of the longer accounts opted out when this was introduced meaning some are opting out and yet most of us can't.

It should be enough that being logged in takes us to the front of searches and what not.

I've got all filters on and looking to meet unticked but I won't allow anyone to message because I'm highlighted as logged in when I just want to read the forum. It's teasing to those doing searches to see x amount logged in and I can understand why they get arsey at no response from messages as most of this site are unaware of the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The downside to that is so many would do it, that the online count would drop dramatically. Which would give the impression of a site with little activity - not good for business.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The downside to that is so many would do it, that the online count would drop dramatically. Which would give the impression of a site with little activity - not good for business. "

Facebook doesn't have a problem with that. I was always logging on there and choosing to look like I'm actually offline. I can't see any problems with this site doing it either.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"The downside to that is so many would do it, that the online count would drop dramatically. Which would give the impression of a site with little activity - not good for business. "

Maybe not...on another site we use it still counts the people who are logged in but says "users opted to hide from appearing here" on the online list.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The downside to that is so many would do it, that the online count would drop dramatically. Which would give the impression of a site with little activity - not good for business.

Maybe not...on another site we use it still counts the people who are logged in but says "users opted to hide from appearing here" on the online list."

Ah yes, if that is possible then I agree, that would be a good option to have.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple  over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

We pop in and out, mornings read the forums afternoon chat rooms, evenings read message and respond..any message that

" get arsey at no response "

obviously that member are not going to be for us ..

we have open filters so anyone has the chance to message. Connie x

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"The downside to that is so many would do it, that the online count would drop dramatically. Which would give the impression of a site with little activity - not good for business.

Maybe not...on another site we use it still counts the people who are logged in but says "users opted to hide from appearing here" on the online list.

Ah yes, if that is possible then I agree, that would be a good option to have. "

I wasn't putting it forward as a suggestion, I was more saying your reason may not be the reason why.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World


"The downside to that is so many would do it, that the online count would drop dramatically. Which would give the impression of a site with little activity - not good for business. "

The online counter has been there as long as I've been on here but the now blue online icon is only a recent addition, that I could happily do without.

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By *j_markCouple  over a year ago
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Totteridge/Whetstone


"For years it's come up we'd like to log in without the dot highlighting we are online.

Some of the longer accounts opted out when this was introduced meaning some are opting out and yet most of us can't.

It should be enough that being logged in takes us to the front of searches and what not.

I've got all filters on and looking to meet unticked but I won't allow anyone to message because I'm highlighted as logged in when I just want to read the forum. It's teasing to those doing searches to see x amount logged in and I can understand why they get arsey at no response from messages as most of this site are unaware of the forums.

"

Why does hiding your profile not work for you? (my account, privacy, hide profile)

Admin x

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By *uietlykinkyme OP   Woman  over a year ago

kinky land


"For years it's come up we'd like to log in without the dot highlighting we are online.

Some of the longer accounts opted out when this was introduced meaning some are opting out and yet most of us can't.

It should be enough that being logged in takes us to the front of searches and what not.

I've got all filters on and looking to meet unticked but I won't allow anyone to message because I'm highlighted as logged in when I just want to read the forum. It's teasing to those doing searches to see x amount logged in and I can understand why they get arsey at no response from messages as most of this site are unaware of the forums.

Why does hiding your profile not work for you? (my account, privacy, hide profile)

Admin x"

Because im contacting those that catch my eye. If my profile is hidden then those I contact can't see it I hide it when I'm taking a break from meeting

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By *j_markCouple  over a year ago
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Totteridge/Whetstone

Understood. We will have a think on this one

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Understood. We will have a think on this one

Admin x"

maybe an option to be visible to someone for a short time - like the photos

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Understood. We will have a think on this one

Admin x"

Perhaps an option where it shows 'Last online: Within a week/ day'. -Vague enough to stop people mailing thinking we are online right NOW.

If it didn't give any information at all about when someone was last online, people might be mailing profiles that hadn't been used in months.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

already says when last online -

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

ignore me haha - i misread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For years it's come up we'd like to log in without the dot highlighting we are online.

Some of the longer accounts opted out when this was introduced meaning some are opting out and yet most of us can't.

It should be enough that being logged in takes us to the front of searches and what not.

I've got all filters on and looking to meet unticked but I won't allow anyone to message because I'm highlighted as logged in when I just want to read the forum. It's teasing to those doing searches to see x amount logged in and I can understand why they get arsey at no response from messages as most of this site are unaware of the forums.

"

I actually like the green dot because I only message when I see my friends are online

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm glad I opted out when I could

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By *uietlykinkyme OP   Woman  over a year ago

kinky land


"I'm glad I opted out when I could "

You will be when you move down

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By *renchbambi xWoman  over a year ago

Need to know basis

Has this been resolved or is it hanging in the ether?

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By *lighty1Woman  over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"Has this been resolved or is it hanging in the ether?"

Admin said 6 days ago that they would think about it, but if they decide to implement this idea it will probably be bundled into the next site update, so it could be some time before the facility is available.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For years it's come up we'd like to log in without the dot highlighting we are online.

Some of the longer accounts opted out when this was introduced meaning some are opting out and yet most of us can't.

It should be enough that being logged in takes us to the front of searches and what not.

I've got all filters on and looking to meet unticked but I won't allow anyone to message because I'm highlighted as logged in when I just want to read the forum. It's teasing to those doing searches to see x amount logged in and I can understand why they get arsey at no response from messages as most of this site are unaware of the forums.

"

Simple... Don't login then you've nowt to be "Arseyed " about

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By *uietlykinkyme OP   Woman  over a year ago

kinky land


"For years it's come up we'd like to log in without the dot highlighting we are online.

Some of the longer accounts opted out when this was introduced meaning some are opting out and yet most of us can't.

It should be enough that being logged in takes us to the front of searches and what not.

I've got all filters on and looking to meet unticked but I won't allow anyone to message because I'm highlighted as logged in when I just want to read the forum. It's teasing to those doing searches to see x amount logged in and I can understand why they get arsey at no response from messages as most of this site are unaware of the forums.

Simple... Don't login then you've nowt to be "Arseyed " about "

Yup.my girlfriends don't log in very often and I've got all filters on

We'll see what happens

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By *uietlykinkyme OP   Woman  over a year ago

kinky land

Let me know if this ever happens & I might return to using fabs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ok bye xx

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By *renchbambi xWoman  over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Ok bye xx "

OK bye is a worthy trademark... Care to actually give an opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ok bye xx

OK bye is a worthy trademark... Care to actually give an opinion?"

I have many opinions but is this worthy of one yes ok I like the green dot because I only message when a person is online

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