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By *andp01 OP Couple
over a year ago
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3 times lately we've mailed other cpls, all are as yet unread but the cpls have been on line several times since we mailed them! Now I could think that they are just not reading them for whatever reason but I'm not sure that is the case, maybe our mails are not getting out or theres something wrong with the system I don't know but its too much of a coincidence that 3 mails to 3 cpls on 3 different days have gone unread.
Anyone got any ideas? |
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On my couples account I often read the message then mark it as unread until my husband has had the chance to read it himself. If I am not interested in them I send a sorry message, but if I think um maybe I wait to chat with him first to see if they appeal to him also.
I find people can get stroppy if they see that you have read their mail and not bothered to answer it, saves getting a shirty message or blocked.
Alternatively they may not have bothered to read their mail, just cos I'm on here doesn't mean I wanna chat.
Or they looked at your profile first and weren't interested.
Only they can tell you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"3 times lately we've mailed other cpls, all are as yet unread but the cpls have been on line several times since we mailed them! Now I could think that they are just not reading them for whatever reason but I'm not sure that is the case, maybe our mails are not getting out or theres something wrong with the system I don't know but its too much of a coincidence that 3 mails to 3 cpls on 3 different days have gone unread.
Anyone got any ideas?" . If the message is a short one it can be read without opening ,if they've already seen your profile they are maybe not interested ,if they are very popular its maybe gone over the page and lost |
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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago
birmingham |
Site supporters ie gold or silver can read messages on a thread without actually opening up say the last message you sent !!
Not sure if this is what you mean but hope it helps !
But a polite no thanks would be nice either way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Site supporters ie gold or silver can read messages on a thread without actually opening up say the last message you sent !!
Not sure if this is what you mean but hope it helps !
But a polite no thanks would be nice either way."
Well i didn't know this... |
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