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By *emjo OP Couple
over a year ago
Reading |
The majority of couples on here do not reply to messages or party invites. A good feature would be to mark them or remove from searches so you don't waste your time messaging them again.
You can block them but that penalises the couples that genuinely hit delete by mistake or don't have the time to reply on that occassion. |
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By *emjo OP Couple
over a year ago
Reading |
We've had messages weeks after the original message starting "Sorry for late reply, we've been very busy...". That has ended in a fun meet we wouldn't have had if we used the block mechanism. |
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By *emjo OP Couple
over a year ago
Reading |
"So what happens if the people you want to flag up as being rude eventually answer your mail?
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Then you unflag them. I'm thinking only of a feature personal to yourself just to keep track of those who reply and those who don't. As two of us on this profile we don't know exactly who we have both contacted and not to contact the ones who don't reply again.
Could also can it a waiting to reply flag. |
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By *j_markCouple
over a year ago
Forum Mod Totteridge/Whetstone |
"So what happens if the people you want to flag up as being rude eventually answer your mail?
Then you unflag them. I'm thinking only of a feature personal to yourself just to keep track of those who reply and those who don't. As two of us on this profile we don't know exactly who we have both contacted and not to contact the ones who don't reply again.
Could also can it a waiting to reply flag."
Site supporters already see who they've contacted (and who has replied) via the profile page they're viewing. This would do what you want.
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
We messaged a couple in Newcastle last december, never got a reply. Then last week they sent us a message apologising for the delay! What would you propose to do in a situation like that? |
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By *emjo OP Couple
over a year ago
Reading |
Exactly my p
oint. Don't want to block. Just flag so you can see on browse list. There are two of us and we lose track of who we have contacted and we do not want to pester genuine people who haven't gone around to replying for whatever reason. |
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By *b586Couple
over a year ago
pemberton twp |
"I use the private notes section to make a note of those that said no or just deleted without a response so I dont bother them again."
Yes this.
I put a date and comment so I remember what I like or don't like
And possibly my expectation.see below
I have high hopes sometimes so I don't always block right away. Maybe I'm too curious. Lol
Feb21 responded to party invite - they never replied back.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exactly my p
oint. Don't want to block. Just flag so you can see on browse list. There are two of us and we lose track of who we have contacted and we do not want to pester genuine people who haven't gone around to replying for whatever reason. "
Why not utilise the hotlist feature, just because its titled hotlist it could be your flag list just put people in there you want to tag |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
North of Okehampton, South of Bideford |
We try to answer all messages, but the sender must of read our profile to get a response.
The ones that seem to moan the most are the ones that will fire off a one liner, (or even a one worder...lol.)...
We look at it this way, if they cant be arsed, then nor can we.(That is why we use the private note system)
last week a guy messaged and gave us a abusive message, just because we said "thanks for the interest, but it will be a sorry from us"..(so we cant win either)
Then yesterday sent a message saying he had just come across our profile...lol.
No point reporting them, the site just blocks them from you and you from them...our friends can still see them..
Just move on we say  |
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