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"As a relative newbie and not a hardened swinger I'm interested in some soft swing meets with some friendly people. My impression from reading profiles is that many members are rude, demanding and dismissive of newbies. Hardly a welcome! I wonder if there could be a filter for members to say if they're prepared to meet newbies? It would help save embarrassment all round. Just a thought?" What gives you that impression? I really don't see any prejudice being expressed towards new folk. | |||
"As a relative newbie and not a hardened swinger I'm interested in some soft swing meets with some friendly people. My impression from reading profiles is that many members are rude, demanding and dismissive of newbies. Hardly a welcome! I wonder if there could be a filter for members to say if they're prepared to meet newbies? It would help save embarrassment all round. Just a thought? What gives you that impression? I really don't see any prejudice being expressed towards new folk." There are quite a few threads at the moment about can we have filters to stop new/un-veried from viewing our profile, unable to mail our profile. Shouldn't newbies be able to send x amount of messages etc etc There isn't at the moment, but just read the profile, see if you potentially match and send a message that consists of more than hi, hows you? It is a numbers game  | |||
"As a relative newbie and not a hardened swinger I'm interested in some soft swing meets with some friendly people. My impression from reading profiles is that many members are rude, demanding and dismissive of newbies. Hardly a welcome! I wonder if there could be a filter for members to say if they're prepared to meet newbies? It would help save embarrassment all round. Just a thought? What gives you that impression? I really don't see any prejudice being expressed towards new folk. There are quite a few threads at the moment about can we have filters to stop new/un-veried from viewing our profile, unable to mail our profile. Shouldn't newbies be able to send x amount of messages etc etc There isn't at the moment, but just read the profile, see if you potentially match and send a message that consists of more than hi, hows you? It is a numbers game "What does a crap message have to do with whether the sender is new? And if some folk would prefer not to receive messages from new members, that is fine. I would prefer not to receive messages from hairy blokes but there are many people on here with many preferences and we can't please everyone all of the time. | |||
