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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Just seen in the forums people mentioning how they don't message people out of there league etc.
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So how does that relate to their hotlist? We hotlist people who we have an interest in maybe meeting in the future. It's like a 'holding bay' for potential meets. |
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"Just seen in the forums people mentioning how they don't message people out of there league etc.
So how does that relate to their hotlist? We hotlist people who we have an interest in maybe meeting in the future. It's like a 'holding bay' for potential meets."
Those that hotlist those they feel maybe out of there league might find out its not the case
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Just seen in the forums people mentioning how they don't message people out of there league etc.
So how does that relate to their hotlist? We hotlist people who we have an interest in maybe meeting in the future. It's like a 'holding bay' for potential meets.
Those that hotlist those they feel maybe out of there league might find out its not the case
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If people consider someone is out of their league I would think they would pass them by and contact someone who they thought was in their league and not hotlist them. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"Well I'm not a believer in leagues etc and not very good at explaining either.
Was an idea that wouldn't apply to me anyways so I'll leave it as a bad one "
Me neither, but I do see where you are coming from. If you are interested in someone, I would think the wink button would be a better Idea, so they know you are interested. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Well I'm not a believer in leagues etc and not very good at explaining either.
Was an idea that wouldn't apply to me anyways so I'll leave it as a bad one "
You obviously didn't think it was a bad one and you are in the right section for feedback. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
I see where OP is coming from. I (Dan) will add couples who I feel are out of my league and put them on the hotlist. I know OP says he does not believe in leagues, but to be fair, and in my personal opinion, they do exist. Simply by being 46 years old means I fall into a different league for some couples,45 is a cut off for a lot of 30 somethings. if I see a very attractive couple I would like to follow, onto the hotlist they go....maybe I'm just a perv ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just seen in the forums people mentioning how they don't message people out of there league etc.
So how does that relate to their hotlist? We hotlist people who we have an interest in maybe meeting in the future. It's like a 'holding bay' for potential meets."
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over a year ago
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"Would it be a good feature if when u add someone to your hotlist ud be alerted if they had you on there hotlist?
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Not everyone on my hotlist is someone I'd like to meet,some are people I'd like to avoid ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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