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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is one already. 
There isn't.
You can choose on your profile, non drinker, social drinker or alcoholic ( ), but you can't search for non drinkers as you can smokers."
Wish we could!  |
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"There is one already.
There isn't.
You can choose on your profile, non drinker, social drinker or alcoholic ( ), but you can't search for non drinkers as you can smokers.
Wish we could! "
Agree, this would be a useful option. If you don't drink, then looking for a play partner is difficult. I've played with people who do drink but would prefer the option of looking for those who don't. Makes the meet more intense as you are in control of your biggest sexual organ, the brain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is one already.
There isn't.
You can choose on your profile, non drinker, social drinker or alcoholic ( ), but you can't search for non drinkers as you can smokers.
Wish we could!
Agree, this would be a useful option. If you don't drink, then looking for a play partner is difficult. I've played with people who do drink but would prefer the option of looking for those who don't. Makes the meet more intense as you are in control of your biggest sexual organ, the brain "
I think if you need a drink to swing then are you really a swinger?...would some of these drinkers do the same thing sober? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is one already.
There isn't.
You can choose on your profile, non drinker, social drinker or alcoholic ( ), but you can't search for non drinkers as you can smokers.
Wish we could!
Agree, this would be a useful option. If you don't drink, then looking for a play partner is difficult. I've played with people who do drink but would prefer the option of looking for those who don't. Makes the meet more intense as you are in control of your biggest sexual organ, the brain
I think if you need a drink to swing then are you really a swinger?...would some of these drinkers do the same thing sober?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think for some it's the socialising before any play that people enjoy, although a heavy drinker, or someone d*unk would put me off.
The first time I went to a club, Will asked me what I wanted to drink - water was my answer. I just thought that if I was going to do this, then I was going to do it sober x
We had a brilliant time
Sara |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just like "straight" guys you only got to put non drinker! pointless or do you really think people will be honest?  even non smokers have actually been smokers! but whilst on subject of options can guys have a sloppy fanny option? not all of us want tight holes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If anyone ever opened a "dry" swinging club it would be an empty club. Alcohol is a social lubricant for a lot of people. I rarely see anyone falling down d*unk in swingers clubs, nowhere near the number I see in mainstream clubs so dont really see it as an issue. This is, of course, my opinion and other opinions are available  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is one already.
There isn't.
You can choose on your profile, non drinker, social drinker or alcoholic ( ), but you can't search for non drinkers as you can smokers.
Wish we could!
Agree, this would be a useful option. If you don't drink, then looking for a play partner is difficult. I've played with people who do drink but would prefer the option of looking for those who don't. Makes the meet more intense as you are in control of your biggest sexual organ, the brain
I think if you need a drink to swing then are you really a swinger?...would some of these drinkers do the same thing sober?"
Perhaps all you non drinkers could all get together n form a wee club of your own,n leave those that enjoy a drink and swinging to do their thing without being questioned about their lifestyle because they also enjoy a drink.Perhaps you could also apply for any moderators posts going and police us all in any other aspects of swinging you may disagree with.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think for some it's the socialising before any play that people enjoy, although a heavy drinker, or someone d*unk would put me off.
The first time I went to a club, Will asked me what I wanted to drink - water was my answer. I just thought that if I was going to do this, then I was going to do it sober x
We had a brilliant time
Sara"
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I like a drink or two when socialising/meeting...it's very rare that I get ratted and I've had completely sober meets and club visits cos I've been driving. I don't personally see that a search for drinkers/non drinkers would be much use as I can imagine that folk would put on the profile what they think is likely to attract others (I'm thinking of smokers who put non smoker, bi guys who put straight, straight women who put bi for example) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is one already.
There isn't.
You can choose on your profile, non drinker, social drinker or alcoholic ( ), but you can't search for non drinkers as you can smokers.
Wish we could!
Agree, this would be a useful option. If you don't drink, then looking for a play partner is difficult. I've played with people who do drink but would prefer the option of looking for those who don't. Makes the meet more intense as you are in control of your biggest sexual organ, the brain
I think if you need a drink to swing then are you really a swinger?...would some of these drinkers do the same thing sober?
Perhaps all you non drinkers could all get together n form a wee club of your own,n leave those that enjoy a drink and swinging to do their thing without being questioned about their lifestyle because they also enjoy a drink.Perhaps you could also apply for any moderators posts going and police us all in any other aspects of swinging you may disagree with. "
Or you could let people have their opinions the same as you are allowed yours. Saying people are policing you is pretty childish. Good grief get a life, get d*unk, do whatever you like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a drink or two when socialising/meeting...it's very rare that I get ratted and I've had completely sober meets and club visits cos I've been driving. I don't personally see that a search for drinkers/non drinkers would be much use as I can imagine that folk would put on the profile what they think is likely to attract others (I'm thinking of smokers who put non smoker, bi guys who put straight, straight women who put bi for example)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is one already.
There isn't.
You can choose on your profile, non drinker, social drinker or alcoholic ( ), but you can't search for non drinkers as you can smokers.
Wish we could!
Agree, this would be a useful option. If you don't drink, then looking for a play partner is difficult. I've played with people who do drink but would prefer the option of looking for those who don't. Makes the meet more intense as you are in control of your biggest sexual organ, the brain
I think if you need a drink to swing then are you really a swinger?...would some of these drinkers do the same thing sober?
Perhaps all you non drinkers could all get together n form a wee club of your own,n leave those that enjoy a drink and swinging to do their thing without being questioned about their lifestyle because they also enjoy a drink.Perhaps you could also apply for any moderators posts going and police us all in any other aspects of swinging you may disagree with.
Or you could let people have their opinions the same as you are allowed yours. Saying people are policing you is pretty childish. Good grief get a life, get d*unk, do whatever you like. "
"Get a life"" ?
You mean another one ?  |
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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago
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"There is one already.
There isn't.
You can choose on your profile, non drinker, social drinker or alcoholic ( ), but you can't search for non drinkers as you can smokers.
Wish we could!
Agree, this would be a useful option. If you don't drink, then looking for a play partner is difficult. I've played with people who do drink but would prefer the option of looking for those who don't. Makes the meet more intense as you are in control of your biggest sexual organ, the brain
I think if you need a drink to swing then are you really a swinger?...would some of these drinkers do the same thing sober?"
there's drinkers and there's drinkers we like to meet over a drink and we sometimes play same night if all happy to we been playing over 10 years and you say just the fact we like a drink we not swingers lol we only get chance once or twice a week can i just add some clubs sell drink and some you take your own so does that make them not swingers clubs oh and yes we have played sober now think what you should have said would we play with anyone who was d*unk to the point they dont know what they're doing then know and we never play d*unk |
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