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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can i suggest removing verification by webcam or even phone? I think it should be meet only.
Anyone can go on a webcam or speak on the phone, but it doesnt mean you are genuine. Many men want verification without actually meeting so they will ask people to verify them even when they dont know them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can i suggest removing verification by webcam or even phone? I think it should be meet only.
Anyone can go on a webcam or speak on the phone, but it doesnt mean you are genuine. Many men want verification without actually meeting so they will ask people to verify them even when they dont know them.
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Personally i ignore those ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a few messages last night to verify them on cam and i was like NO
if you are going to meet someone then fair do's but not out the blue"
chancers !!!
as in "NO CHANCE!" lol !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is genuine? Do you mean someone who actually swings, because meeting someone for a drink in a pub or a coffee doesn’t mean they’re genuine either.
The simple thing to do is just pass a profile by if you’re unhappy with something.
Could always remove all verifications, that way people might use their own instincts rather than rely on a few random strangers.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sure you can ignore the phone/webcam verifications, but if you only have in person ones, that will stop a lot of chancers. It may encourage them to actually meet people and not timewaste!
Genuine really should be someone who swings, but meeting for a drink does indicate a level of genuine commitment and it will give you more of an idea of what they are like as a person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet verifications don't mean that they will turn up to meet "you" though or that they will play with you,so if they decide not to play with you does it make them less genuine swingers?
I take all veris with a pinch of salt and use my own instinct about people before deciding to meet them
Phone and cam veris are ok to show you that they are in fact what they say they are on their profile,male fem or couple,its a start and if you want to take it further then you can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The whole idea of a web cam or phone verification is not to verify they are swingers but to verify they are who they say they are. ie: if a profile claims they're a couple, it's good to see by cam or hear by phone that there is actually a female present and it's not just a fake profile by a tallywhacker.
Personally, we think cam and phone verifications are a good feature since you're not going to meet everyone you have site contact with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But when you have someone whos been on site for over a year with a long list of phone and cam veris but no meet veris, this sort of gives you an idea if they are gen or not, I have even had messages from guys asking to veri them without phone or cam, saying they would make it worth my while, yeah walk on |
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verifications are a great way of assesing who is real and who isnt,our first one was a webcam, second was a social organised by this site,we never hid the fact we never played but we did find it gave us more of a foothold and a look in with other more genuine couples who we have since met and had fun with |
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