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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
First of all merry Christmas and a horny naked new year! And thank you Fabswingers for the years of service that have given so many people so much enjoyment!!
Just want to suggest that since you did a separate fabswingers for gay and bi members it has made the site experience better in so many ways, and for all concerned too....
However it seems that there may be another niche section in the swingers world that may also include as many people, whilst definitively excluding even more; and that's the preference by some for 'only black men'....
I honestly and sincerely believe that just as gay/bi and straight members benefited equally from a separate gay fabswingers, members who only seek black play mates and everyone else would equally benefit from another separate fabswingers. There's certainly enough members who would join, and I'm sure t could be done in a similar fashion in that it would be separate, but indirectly connected to the main site.
Much appreciated
Milan83 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree with the logic, but its why ive emphasised the numbers involved. I cant be sure but there seems to me that a large section exists, and as i see it everyone would benefit.
If there is enough members that have this preference, then it should be done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good idea. Always thought it was weird how there wasn't a "fab girls" though, seems to be so many bi women.... 
Then need "fan interracial cuckolding"."
Shit on it! That should have said
"Fab interracial cuckolding"! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with the logic, but its why ive emphasised the numbers involved. I cant be sure but there seems to me that a large section exists, and as i see it everyone would benefit.
If there is enough members that have this preference, then it should be done"
But with similar numbers the amount of people only wanting to meet bbw (hate that term) should they get their own site too? Would it have an affect on the amount of people here?
I'm not being picky for the sake of it I'm just curious to where it would end?
I feel this site gives us enough tools to help us find who we are looking for without scrawling through profile after profile.
If you dont feel thats the case then I think you have stumbled on a business idea!  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I agree with the logic, but its why ive emphasised the numbers involved. I cant be sure but there seems to me that a large section exists, and as i see it everyone would benefit.
If there is enough members that have this preference, then it should be done"
What happens when all the black guys and the women who enjoy them leave? You hoping for an all white site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think it should be more like a dating site, with tick boxes? So we can choose ethnicity if it's preferred, hair colour, body shape & so on. That way it's easier for everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think personally we are all big enough and maturish enough to be able to simply look at the profiles we want and meet people as we see fit without needing site for every niche.
I thimk it would diminish and hurt a very vibrant community. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know as well as I do that men can't read, and can't be trusted. " I could put boot polish on lol" no not lol, fuck off! Ten times a day. Boring! Block all white men. Yes please!
I imagine.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didn't Southern states in America and apartheid era South Africa advocate a similar black only policy, OP?
Should those who state whites only (as many do) also have their own, separate site?
Hopefully you can see the line of thought I'm hinting at.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I request fab six footers please? There's no filter for height  "
Most regular dating sites have filters for height, race, education etc etc - so it wouldn't be difficult for fab to program more 'choices' in I suspect - though i'm guessing that would meet an increase in supporter fees to pay for said programming - which wouldn't put me off - but it may do with others! xx |
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I think the site would suffer if it was split in this way. If people feel that strongly about it I think it would make more sense to either create rooms based on themes or have ethnic backgrounds as part of everyones profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont want to be seen as anything other than a guy...so its very very unlikely I'd ever join sites like that.
Cant people just grow up and stop thinking the sites making them work to find meets.A fucking button for everything..rather than using yer noggin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there is the need for better filters, which I've requested or ask for an icon which denotes something.
Let's not all pretend that fab isn't pron to the same abstract ignorance.
There's has been many a times where you've seen a lovely profile, you've taken your time to approach said profile by replying with respect and you get a blanket, rude response like, I don't do blacks, or even worse "I don't do ni@@ers". You now say why don't we/I report them. I ask what good is it, when all one will do is open another profile.
So where as to stop that at sign up you force everyone to select the preferred icon which denotes their preference. |
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"Hi
First of all merry Christmas and a horny naked new year! And thank you Fabswingers for the years of service that have given so many people so much enjoyment!!
Just want to suggest that since you did a separate fabswingers for gay and bi members it has made the site experience better in so many ways, and for all concerned too....
However it seems that there may be another niche section in the swingers world that may also include as many people, whilst definitively excluding even more; and that's the preference by some for 'only black men'....
I honestly and sincerely believe that just as gay/bi and straight members benefited equally from a separate gay fabswingers, members who only seek black play mates and everyone else would equally benefit from another separate fabswingers. There's certainly enough members who would join, and I'm sure t could be done in a similar fashion in that it would be separate, but indirectly connected to the main site.
Much appreciated
Milan83"
From what I have heard the bi/gay men site isn't that great. Just one friend's opinion. He likes it here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why can't we all just play on the same site. Creating separation fuels things like racism, discrimination and so on. We're one race, the human race. We're one group, swingers. ( Well at least some are.)
When you go shopping for Ice cream, sometimes you want vanilla, sometimes chocolate, or sometimes you want something more exotic ( pineapple sherbert.) The point is, that Fab is a one stop shop.
Why mess with something that works.
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About 6 years ago such a site was around run by 2 ladies who are now on fab or used to be. Can't remember why it didn't last longer than it did ,a few on the members who was on it I have seen on here, maybe they know why. |
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I feel the idea of have a separate interracial site is the wrong way about it imo, and times I feel the whole BBC and black men debacle get taken over the top... Mean come we all the same just we have a permanent tan 
On the other hand seeing where Op on coming from interracial is one of the common likes by people in this day and age, so a chat room for this could be an idea as vague preferences can also be met in here, same way a room for fetis play could allow those into bdsm etc to go and speak with other that share their interest.
Other than that think we can all go an find what we like usually easier and more beneficial if you work to get what you want rather than wait for it to turn up. |
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"So where would we stand, the male half is mixed race and I'm white?"
My thoughts exactly, as we have mixed race kids, and it is very hard for them. When living in America, classes as black if one eighth or more black |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I request more local women who want to fuck  "
Now THAT'S the missing feature...lol
Come on Admin...sort out some people to start handing fliers out in the supermarkets |
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Happy here thanks! Don't really think that going backwards with the segregation, is the way forward!
And to be honest many find exactly what they looking for here.... It's not rocket science! Lol 
