FabSwingers.com > Forums > Fabswingers.com site feedback > No thanks button
No thanks button
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Was thinking about it the Other night. seeing as a lot of people get the hump when a message is deleted and no response given could a "no thanks" button be added that sends a generic message saying thanks for looking but not my type and also deletes the message at the same time.
Might make a few people a bit happier. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Was thinking about it the Other night. seeing as a lot of people get the hump when a message is deleted and no response given could a "no thanks" button be added that sends a generic message saying thanks for looking but not my type and also deletes the message at the same time.
Might make a few people a bit happier. "
It won't. This website used to have a no thanks button for a trial period. People complained the automated no thanks was impersonal. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
The option to write your own automated message would be more appropriate then or even a few to be used if and when  |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It doesn't take long to write a no thank you message |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Some people are never happy |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I thought "MESSAGE DELETED" is a NO THANK YOU  |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
No one is owed a reply, and a no reply is simply a no thanks, its in the site rules for all to see, so if people get the hump over others not replying then its there own problem not the sites. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By *heRainManMan
over a year ago
Warrington & Glasgow |
"Was thinking about it the Other night. seeing as a lot of people get the hump when a message is deleted and no response given could a "no thanks" button be added that sends a generic message saying thanks for looking but not my type and also deletes the message at the same time.
Might make a few people a bit happier. "
From the FAQ:
"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?"
|
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By *od!Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
Comes down to the differences between sex and swinging ... While a no thanks button may have its uses it dosent stop people not replying or even being down right rude when as was Said a no thanks you're not my type etc generic message is easy to type ... People that lose their rag over a lack of reply tend to be into the site purely for sex and not for the real (in my opinion) element of swinging friendships ... Far too many people don't get it |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"Was thinking about it the Other night. seeing as a lot of people get the hump when a message is deleted and no response given could a "no thanks" button be added that sends a generic message saying thanks for looking but not my type and also deletes the message at the same time.
Might make a few people a bit happier.
It won't. This website used to have a no thanks button for a trial period. People complained the automated no thanks was impersonal. "
Did it?... I've never know it to ever have a no thanks button. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
yes it is the most frustrating part of this site people not saying thanks for the message but no thanks it takes seconds.
But if you try and send another message the site says
we take a dim view of you harassing people who don't reply .
Put a no thanks button it makes sense .
What about the people who don't read the messages at all ,do they have a limit on how many they can answer a day  |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
Could have been deleted by mistake |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"yes it is the most frustrating part of this site people not saying thanks for the message but no thanks it takes seconds.
But if you try and send another message the site says
we take a dim view of you harassing people who don't reply .
Put a no thanks button it makes sense .
What about the people who don't read the messages at all ,do they have a limit on how many they can answer a day "
so would an inbox full of no thanks messages really make you feel better. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
At least you would know they had been looked at not totally ignored  |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
"At least you would know they had been looked at not totally ignored "
and would that really really make any difference to the way you use the site or how you look for meets or make you feel so much better. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By *a KatWoman
over a year ago
Northwest |
If people/ guys cannot be botherd to read my profile: There is a title word to show you have, then I delete; goes for friend invites as well, simples. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If people/ guys cannot be botherd to read my profile: There is a title word to show you have, then I delete; goes for friend invites as well, simples. "
I go one further and instantly block unsolicited friend requests. No reply means no thanks. Simple to understand!! |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"The option to write your own automated message would be more appropriate then or even a few to be used if and when "
That would be so cool! |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I get too many messages to reply no thanks to all of them. The 'I deserve a response!!' attitude is ridiculous. |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
So because its a sex site people can be totally ignorant |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
|
By *j_markCouple
over a year ago
Forum Mod Totteridge/Whetstone |
Like the site rules say, it's not rude not to reply.
We tried a "no thanks" button on another site. It didn't make things better.
If folks took no response as not interested, they'd enjoy the site more.
Admin x |
Reply privately (thread closed by moderator) | |
