We think they should introduce a rating system. For time wasters to be named an shamed, or bring in singles that should pay a subscription charge, stop all the freebie hunters an general undesirables, we've been on here a while now an are getting fed up with wasting time with messages just to then be ignored once a few photos have been exchanged. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"We think they should introduce a rating system. For time wasters to be named an shamed, or bring in singles that should pay a subscription charge, stop all the freebie hunters an general undesirables, we've been on here a while now an are getting fed up with wasting time with messages just to then be ignored once a few photos have been exchanged. "
Why should it only be a subscription charge for singles? 
Why should anyone believe, just because you are a couple, that you aren't a timewasting couple and need to pay the subscription too and be named and shamed?
PS - The above are just question and not meant to infer you are timewasters!
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I'm a member of another site that people have to pay to join. I don't because I've been a member for so bloody long!
However, believe it or not, numpties, timewasters (whatever you definition of one is), and pain in the arse people, have money too.
I find this site is busier, easier to meet people, and generally the people on here are decent ones, then one that one pays to use. |
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How about linking a users ability to `Rate` other Fabbers to the number of Verifications they have and the nuber of Fabs of pics on their profile. Given that menare uysually the biggest offenders, perhaps a hidden rating system that only Verified Females or Couples can view? No offence intended to genuine trustworthy guys - in fact it should make life easier for them too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is that no one is duty bound to meet anyone just because they swapped a few photos. Maybe something in their private lives changed last minute, maybe someone started dating outside of fab. It's not time wasting unless they actually make a date and time with you and then don't turn up! You need a thick skin to be on here and it's all a bit of fun no one owes anyone anything at the end of it all  |
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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago
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Naming and shaming will never work as its open to abuse, after all i could say the op arranged to meet me and didn't turn up, this of course is fabrication but it shows how easy it is to abuse naming and shaming.
As for a rating system linked to how often pics are fabbed, this would only prove that the person likes to exhibit pics but does not prove they genuinely meet anyone as profiles with loads of cam verifications only prove.
I would suggest we each (as adults) have our own criteria which we use to select potential meets, look at your criteria and trust your own judgement. I have been on the site a long time and never encountered a timewaster.   |
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I think a 5 star rating system is a great idea
1 star for turning up
2 for being ontime
3 for being respectful
4 for a good connection
5 for a good meet
So not based on performance at all as sometimes stress can get in the way of doing your best.
I've had great meets that were socials and we got on great but no secusl connection so it remained at that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think a 5 star rating system is a great idea
1 star for turning up
2 for being ontime
3 for being respectful
4 for a good connection
5 for a good meet
So not based on performance at all as sometimes stress can get in the way of doing your best.
I've had great meets that were socials and we got on great but no secusl connection so it remained at that. "
Any sort of rating is open to abuse , I can just imagine turning up for a meet on time being respectful and the other person getting the hump because there was no connection in real life and so I say no. Wonder how many point I would get then ? |
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"Naming and shaming will never work as its open to abuse, after all i could say the op arranged to meet me and didn't turn up, this of course is fabrication but it shows how easy it is to abuse naming and shaming.
As for a rating system linked to how often pics are fabbed, this would only prove that the person likes to exhibit pics but does not prove they genuinely meet anyone as profiles with loads of cam verifications only prove.
I would suggest we each (as adults) have our own criteria which we use to select potential meets, look at your criteria and trust your own judgement. I have been on the site a long time and never encountered a timewaster. "
Agree 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 05/06/14 16:04:06]"
Deleted as I'd got a but ranty.
Short version. I don't think your idea is necessary for a number of reasons.
Also having fabbed pictures means nothing on here, I've have 29 verifications all from meets and I've not got one fab on any if my pictures as I have the option turned off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The thing is that no one is duty bound to meet anyone just because they swapped a few photos. Maybe something in their private lives changed last minute, maybe someone started dating outside of fab. It's not time wasting unless they actually make a date and time with you and then don't turn up! You need a thick skin to be on here and it's all a bit of fun no one owes anyone anything at the end of it all "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find using common sense works well
Sometimes I feel that is lacking on here. "
What is this 'common sense' you speak of? I've looked everywhere and can't find a link to it.
Is it just for Platinum site supporters? |
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