Many of you single guys will feel the familar sting of not being replied to... Im not sure if its a lack of decency or time or an inundation of messages that couples and single females recieve.
Heres my idea how about the site gives pre formatted reply options i.e.
:Thanks but no thanks
:Not my /our type
:Currently not looking for (insert perticulars)
Its just an idea that even if its a refusal the constant waiting for a reply might be eased and lessening the frustrations of decent guys on the site ?
Also in the meet tonight section i see theres only a "Meet at OURS" in the drop down how about a "Meet at Mine" option for singles ? |
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"A deleted email usual indicates their not interested, unfortunately there are a lot people that can't be arsed giving a polite 'no thanks' but hey ho"
and a polite no thankyou is usually replied with a 'but why?' Or abuse! Sometimes easier just to delete  |
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"Many of you single guys will feel the familar sting of not being replied to... Im not sure if its a lack of decency or time or an inundation of messages that couples and single females recieve.
Heres my idea how about the site gives pre formatted reply options i.e.
:Thanks but no thanks
:Not my /our type
:Currently not looking for (insert perticulars)
Its just an idea that even if its a refusal the constant waiting for a reply might be eased and lessening the frustrations of decent guys on the site ?
Also in the meet tonight section i see theres only a "Meet at OURS" in the drop down how about a "Meet at Mine" option for singles ? "
I wish the site would do this, but to include option to block user to, as from style of some first message, you know a no thanks will generate abuse |
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"A deleted email usual indicates their not interested, unfortunately there are a lot people that can't be arsed giving a polite 'no thanks' but hey ho"
But there are also a lot of people who can't be arsed to read profiles before mailing. Politeness works both ways. |
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See my first messages always follow a polite manner and id much prefer a polite thanks but no thanks over complete (percieved as) ignorance.
I read all the updates on peoples profiles askig for more than one line, i see the request for face pics and i provide a decent paragraph, politely written and no text speak which in my opinion deserves at least the decency of a reply of some sort ?
I guess the old addage of the idiotic few spoiling it fo the rest |
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"A deleted email usual indicates their not interested, unfortunately there are a lot people that can't be arsed giving a polite 'no thanks' but hey ho
But there are also a lot of people who can't be arsed to read profiles before mailing. Politeness works both ways."
True  |
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"A deleted email usual indicates their not interested, unfortunately there are a lot people that can't be arsed giving a polite 'no thanks' but hey hoand a polite no thankyou is usually replied with a 'but why?' Or abuse! Sometimes easier just to delete "
I see... Never thought about that |
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"So theres no winning ?
People will just delete and i will go off feeling rejected and hated once more.
Oh the joys of having BPD "
No one hates you x prob just busy with there own lives |
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"So theres no winning ?
People will just delete and i will go off feeling rejected and hated once more.
Oh the joys of having BPD "
If having BPD effects your social skills that much, then possibly a site such as this with a high rejection rate for single males, possibly isn't for you at this period in your life. |
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"What's BPD? 
Just googled it borderline personality disorder, and I can only say what someone else has said this May not be the best site for you "
thankyou. X |
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