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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im not if this is the right place to put this but we was wondering if it would be possible to have a Kink/Fetish Forum added to fabs. And what people would think about it? |
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"Im not if this is the right place to put this but we was wondering if it would be possible to have a Kink/Fetish Forum added to fabs. And what people would think about it?"
You could start and thread and then get interested people to message you direct if you want a bit of discretion....or let's start it off here and now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not if this is the right place to put this but we was wondering if it would be possible to have a Kink/Fetish Forum added to fabs. And what people would think about it?"
we think it would be great  |
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The problem is a lot of things can't be spoke about on Fab. Whilst they are between consenting adults, they can still be construed as illegal, especially with the new changes in laws.
A kink forum, if allowed, would constantly have posts deleted, wouldn't be worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The problem is a lot of things can't be spoke about on Fab. Whilst they are between consenting adults, they can still be construed as illegal, especially with the new changes in laws.
A kink forum, if allowed, would constantly have posts deleted, wouldn't be worth it."
You have a good point but im sure that people can show restraint in the open topics. It just might be a place for Fet loving swingers to stand out from the crowd |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem is a lot of things can't be spoke about on Fab. Whilst they are between consenting adults, they can still be construed as illegal, especially with the new changes in laws.
A kink forum, if allowed, would constantly have posts deleted, wouldn't be worth it."
Yep that's what has been said most times this comes up |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"The problem is a lot of things can't be spoke about on Fab. Whilst they are between consenting adults, they can still be construed as illegal, especially with the new changes in laws.
A kink forum, if allowed, would constantly have posts deleted, wouldn't be worth it.
Yep that's what has been said most times this comes up "
Why as there are many kink friendly forums on other sites? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is a lot of things can't be spoke about on Fab. Whilst they are between consenting adults, they can still be construed as illegal, especially with the new changes in laws.
A kink forum, if allowed, would constantly have posts deleted, wouldn't be worth it.
Yep that's what has been said most times this comes up
Why as there are many kink friendly forums on other sites?"
Fabs will not even allow fisting pics or other stuff kinky stuffs, so I guess it is their preference |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"The problem is a lot of things can't be spoke about on Fab. Whilst they are between consenting adults, they can still be construed as illegal, especially with the new changes in laws.
A kink forum, if allowed, would constantly have posts deleted, wouldn't be worth it.
You have a good point but im sure that people can show restraint in the open topics. "
Some can't.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is a lot of things can't be spoke about on Fab. Whilst they are between consenting adults, they can still be construed as illegal, especially with the new changes in laws.
A kink forum, if allowed, would constantly have posts deleted, wouldn't be worth it.
Yep that's what has been said most times this comes up
Why as there are many kink friendly forums on other sites?"
While I fully accept that there is a crossover between the 2 scenes, I agree that this is first and foremost a swinging site not a fet one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it could be a good thing.
It will def give people the opportunity to explore certain desires and possibly to find partners to aid in living out their fantasys
I think I'd chuck a couple of posts in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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though it would be great just look at the reactions when any sort of fetish or something slightly out of the norm is discussed on here. it always descends into some sort of argument between those into fet and those who think it's perverse or some sort of abuse !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There is currently a thread running in the forums about peeing whilst deep throating. If that's not fetish then I don't know what is. Also we all have the option to choose watersports as an interest on our profiles and I think we can all agree that that is most definitely fet. So with that in mind surely it is acceptable to have a fetish/kink forum, no? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fetish is a very broad subject indeed. Surely as adults on an adult website it should be allowed to expressed. Of course anything illegal should be ruled out. As for fisting pictures I dont understand the problem fabs have with it. Fisting is also an interest option on profiles as is sm, spanking and one or two others. Surely if you are going to allow people to state on there profiles that they are into it then its only fair that we have a place to talk about it...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"though it would be great just look at the reactions when any sort of fetish or something slightly out of the norm is discussed on here. it always descends into some sort of argument between those into fet and those who think it's perverse or some sort of abuse !!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before swinging, I was active on the London Fetish Scene for over 15 years so I have seen a thing or two. Not illegal but certainly not to all tastes. The difficulty with fetishes is it is so subjective. What is fairly common place and not shocking for some, will be considered as highly offensive to others. Even swinging is deemed offensive to some members of society. I have found that topics I have raised on the forums have been removed even though they are VERY common and not illegal. I dont understand why FAB does that when it is discussed openly on fetish websites. X |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Ok, can you please stop posting other site names please .
As people say , other sites allow you to discuss more extreme fetishes but after taking advice Admin have decided this one doesn't.
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Sounds like we have been told!
Yes we have, need to go back to licking butts, and peeing inside people   "
Do you think that is extreme? I think thats the key isn't it, everyones definition of extreme or mild is different |
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One of my kink goals if you like, has no place on this site. It is, at worse illegal, even with my consent, with a sympathetic judge, something I could be sectioned for doing. I wouldn't dream of talking about it on here, because my swinging life is separate. And people, no matter how open minded and non judgemental they claim to be, are not. And it is well within their right to exercise that.
if you want to talk about kink, go to one of the many sites that cater for kink. Where you'll find me talking about my kinks, and to be honest most of the kinky people on Fab can be found elsewhere under the same name.
Fab is a great site for what it caters for, but kink isn't it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like we have been told!
Yes we have, need to go back to licking butts, and peeing inside people
Do you think that is extreme? I think thats the key isn't it, everyones definition of extreme or mild is different "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab is a great site for what it caters for, but kink isn't it."
This is exactly what I said earlier. Fab is a swinging site not a cover all bases sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like we have been told!
Yes we have, need to go back to licking butts, and peeing inside people
Do you think that is extreme? I think thats the key isn't it, everyones definition of extreme or mild is different "
Not blaming the messenger at all. No, I don't think the above is extreme at all (very kinky here  ) Just gets a bit frustrating at times, its a great site and there's a lot of us kinky people on here that obviously like to chat and share. I do understand the illegal stuff. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Ah right ok.
The thing is, most kinks/fetishes do get discussed and Admin havn't told mods to take any of them off yet...I was commenting more on the posts I had to remove were more extreme fetishes that Admin don't want on the site were mentioned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah right ok.
The thing is, most kinks/fetishes do get discussed and Admin havn't told mods to take any of them off yet...I was commenting more on the posts I had to remove were more extreme fetishes that Admin don't want on the site were mentioned. "
We promise we will try to be good xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like we have been told!
Yes we have, need to go back to licking butts, and peeing inside people
Do you think that is extreme? I think thats the key isn't it, everyones definition of extreme or mild is different "
Which was my point? If I absent mindedly mentioned another website earlier then I apologise. I cant recall. But my real point is that Kink, sexual preferences...whatever you want to call it...is very subjective and who is offended or not. I have personally found some things offensive on FAB that have not been removed. I dont know why they weren't because some things I found very distasteful. But then, some might find MY preferences not to their taste too. So thats life!
I realise you are only following rules...so I appreciate that may or may not be your personal view. However I do think that whoever on FAB admin decide the rules, have missed a trick, and might be looked at again? Because clearly FAB users/supporters are asking for a a forum where these can be discussed honestly and openly without fear or judgement. Personally I like Lickety' s idea. There are sooo many common place legal and consensual 'kinks' that sooo many swingers are into that don't seem to be allowed to be discussed. It would just be nice if admin would be willing to consider these in the light of how many from FAB are requesting? Or perhaps to explain why this isnt possible? I dont believe that the vast majority would be in violation of any laws to be fair. But guidelines could be set?
I think FAB is a great site and the FAB forums offer excellent opportunity for people to express their sexuality and to ask questions about things they fantasise about . Often we think we are alone in our views but find many others share the same preferences. FAB serves as a great place to discuss these and it is far more healthy to talk about them.
Again I am talking legal, fully consensual sexual preferences with adults. Anyway...thats just my view |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But that's just the point,
Only a handful of fabs users want a kink forum.
The rest of us either accept, admin dont,
or they have no interest in it.
Considering the number of responses these threads get, its actually a very very small group that want it.
There are a number of sites that cater for kink, we use them.
We are happy with fab staying the way it is, and if we see a thread title we dont like..... we dont look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But that's just the point,
Only a handful of fabs users want a kink forum.
The rest of us either accept, admin dont,
or they have no interest in it.
Considering the number of responses these threads get, its actually a very very small group that want it.
There are a number of sites that cater for kink, we use them.
We are happy with fab staying the way it is, and if we see a thread title we dont like..... we dont look "
Ok fair enough. I just gave my view as a fellow kinkster and it seems to me there are a lot more kinky people on FAB forums from what I can tell.
Anyway...just supporting the cause! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Sounds like we have been told!
Yes we have, need to go back to licking butts, and peeing inside people
Do you think that is extreme? I think thats the key isn't it, everyones definition of extreme or mild is different
Which was my point? If I absent mindedly mentioned another website earlier then I apologise. I cant recall. But my real point is that Kink, sexual preferences...whatever you want to call it...is very subjective and who is offended or not. I have personally found some things offensive on FAB that have not been removed.
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There are only a few kinks that are not allowed on the forum so it shouldn't really be too much of an issue..... and as said before, Admin took advice over them and decided not to allow them.
If anything changes I am sure they will let us all know |
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To be honest its not a small minority that want this - there are a large group.
There are other sites yes - but they are giant gargantuan sites that are difficult to navagate and even more difficult to make friends on.
And here is the thing - they cater for kink at extreme levels. Fab kinksters are not in that league. Mild to moderate kink is all your ever gonna get.
Pictures of a wife tied to a bed - allowed.
Conversations about watersports - body modification - gangbangs - and even double anal penetration - allowed
Lovehoney are endorsed and sell paddles - crops - floggers - handcuffs and various other mild BDSM equipment.
I'm sorry - but not having a kink forum for people share information under those circumstances seems .... well.... silly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be honest its not a small minority that want this - there are a large group.
There are other sites yes - but they are giant gargantuan sites that are difficult to navagate and even more difficult to make friends on.
And here is the thing - they cater for kink at extreme levels. Fab kinksters are not in that league. Mild to moderate kink is all your ever gonna get.
Pictures of a wife tied to a bed - allowed.
Conversations about watersports - body modification - gangbangs - and even double anal penetration - allowed
Lovehoney are endorsed and sell paddles - crops - floggers - handcuffs and various other mild BDSM equipment.
I'm sorry - but not having a kink forum for people share information under those circumstances seems .... well.... silly. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest its not a small minority that want this - there are a large group.
There are other sites yes - but they are giant gargantuan sites that are difficult to navagate and even more difficult to make friends on.
And here is the thing - they cater for kink at extreme levels. Fab kinksters are not in that league. Mild to moderate kink is all your ever gonna get.
Pictures of a wife tied to a bed - allowed.
Conversations about watersports - body modification - gangbangs - and even double anal penetration - allowed
Lovehoney are endorsed and sell paddles - crops - floggers - handcuffs and various other mild BDSM equipment.
I'm sorry - but not having a kink forum for people share information under those circumstances seems .... well.... silly. "
If there's such a large number that want this then why has ths thread had so few supportive responses?
Other sitea are neither hard to navigate nor hard to make friends on (well not if you use them as designed) and certainly don't just cater for extreme fetishes.
By your own admission a subsection on here would be comparatively tame, you say that it's a good thing while bemoaning other sites for not being comprehensive and inclusive enough - is that not the same thing? Or is it ok when what is veibg discussed includes rather than excludes you?
All the things that you mention can and are discussed in the forums, I still can't see a decent reason to marginalise them in their own subsection. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I fail to see how having a place on this site that is dedicated to one thing is marginalising to any one or anything. You are quite right there has not been a huge response but I would say that it has been small either. Maybe a having a place to discuss these subjects would encourge people to discuss things with likeminded people. I do find it strange that people who claim to be kink orientated would be so against this whole idea? There are people who enjoy sex and kink and some that see fhe subjects at totally individual subjects. Surely this site is the perfect place to bride the two. Its not for everyone just as swinging or open sexualality is not for everyone either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You are quite right there has not been a huge response but I would say that it has been small either. "
You are quite right the response hasn't been small. The number of people agreeing in over 3 weeks is barely in double figures. That's not small it's virtually non existent. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You are quite right there has not been a huge response but I would say that it has been small either.
You are quite right the response hasn't been small. The number of people agreeing in over 3 weeks is barely in double figures. That's not small it's virtually non existent."
I revel in your negativity x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it is such a shame a "kink board" hasn't been allowed. I found my inner slut and kinky side through this site (just needed the right man to bring her out) I can't understand why , nobody is forced to read a forum they have no interest in but would benefit many. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"We've been told we can't have one so we'll have to just chat to others who share our kinks another way
I, for one, do not want to be barred again  "
A mod ( ie me ) has explained on this thread why posts were removed that had more extreme kinks and other websites on that isn't allowed on the forum.
I also explained that there are only a few kinks that are not allowed to be discussed on the forum/site.
That shouldn't and doesn't translate to there can't be a fetish forum....I didn't address this at all and Admin have not commented. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't see what the hoohah is, if people want a kink forum, so what, personally I agree, think it's a good way for like minded to chat. Agree would need to be rules to cover legal aspects. But saying only small number want it isn't really fair. People may not have seen this thread to comment and show their interest. I have seen numerous kink profiles on here, as well as kink pictures and threads so would say the calling is there.
Maybe admin could trial the kink forum , and if people abuse it with illegal posts they can remove it |
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